Difference in sex with or without a condom to you

[mthomson2020]

What makes you decide to use a condom or not? Obviously disease of course, but is there anything about not wearing a condom that makes the experience different for you?

I've never had sex without a condom. I was wondering what it meant to you emotionally and what the difference is in feeling-wise. Is it that much different?

What about cumming inside someone or having someone cum inside you? What does that mean to you, and how does it feel physicially?

Gay and straight comments welcome. Guys and girls. Just curious to know.

Cheers

 

[voodooyoudo]

Well, I've done it a lot, sometimes on purpose, and sometimes really not on purpose.

It is amazing, the difference. My wife would say she loves it mainly because you can feel soo much more of the person you're with, both physically and emotionally, and you can. I like that I can feel when she's getting dry or real wet and move the action in the right direction.

That said, I wouldn't do it unless you're in a very trusting relationship (and been tested) and use other forms of birth control (unless it's two guys der). I have made some risky moves in this area, and I've been lucky. Don't think that's always the case.

 

[Gecko4lif]

Warmer. More moist.

Pretty much it

 

[etherealheart]

when i first had sex, he used a condom every time. and bcuz i knew no better, it felt alright. after a month, tho, the condoms came off, and it feels about 5 million times better than with a condom on. rubber does not feel like (or even compare to) skin. when i'm hot & wet, the feeling of plastic is now a turn off at best. sometimes it hurts. imagine rubbing your hand over a wet balloon. that's what it feels like inside, to me.

but of course, that was a privilege of being in a committed relationship. now that we're broken up, i have to train myself to be ok with the plastic feeling again... sigh. anyway, the answer to ur question from this girl's perspective is that sex with a condom is not as warm, natural (bcuz the flow of events is interrupted by the condom), or satisfying as sex without. even when compared to before i knew what i was missing. lol.

 

[etherealheart]

OH and i forgot to mention that i've never come from sex with a condom.

 

[MickeyLee]

not using condoms is pretty much the only reason to practice monogamy.
troux faques.

 

[D_DGBRugdftr]

My wife is allergic to latex.... lucky me! No, but seriously, I have never not used a condom with any other woman EVER. Then I get with my wife 7 years ago and she tells me that we can't use condoms, I was a little skeptical. I was 20 years old and didn't want a kid, but she was on birth contol and now I couldn't even imagine putting a condom on. Personally, I just think it feels better, the friction, the wetness, the heat... all amplified.

 

[tiggerpoo]

Condoms kill it for me - might as well not have sex. I never use a condom.

 

[B_enzia35]

I find it hard to stay hard with one on. Maybe too small? And I can't feel anything with it on.

 

[D_Hillary_Clitton]

Obviously, sex without a condom is preferable as it has a skin on skin sensation, versus a rubbery sensation. Also, I get a huge kick out of feeling his body part encased within my own. It's not the same with condoms, but still doesn't stop me from enjoying fun time

 

[House21]

The difference between sex with a condom and sex without a condom is the difference between eating a steak and eating a steak wrapped in a balloon. Aside from the risks of disease and pregnancy everything is better about no condom. You can feel everything and the sensations are more intense. I always used a condom until I was with my wife and we were trying to get pregnant. One of the most pleasurable and exciting orgasms I ever had was the first time cumming inside her with no condom on.

 

[D_Johnny Schlepp]

Condoms are definitely a doosey. I can't say I enjoy having a condom on, but I feel at ease and I am more focused on the woman, than the threat of an std. I tell you this: Once you have sex without a rubber, you won't want to go back. It is like experiencing sex all over again when a condom is not used.

I only had raw sex with two females. One was when I was fairly young and in a long relationship. And also with my current ex. I did not decide to have raw sex with neither of them. They both brought up the idea of unprotected sex at one point in our relationship. I guess it may be a female thing, because I was very reluctant to have unprotected sex in each of the two, what I call "meaningful" relationships.

 

[pcghabsy]

I have never had sex without a condom, but I don't complain! I do look forward to sex without condom, some day.

 

[D_Tam_Ponds]

Yeah, condoms pretty much suck.

 

[deleted704937]

It feels so much better without a condom that I can't imagine why anyone would ever use one. Why take a shower in a raincoat? And, emotionally, the idea of having sex with someone on the condition that there's a barrier between you to keep your parts separate is heartbreaking to me. The idea that a condom is "responsible" is a myth. Is it responsible to go your merry way hoping that an unreliable device will keep your actions from having the consequences you're not prepared to deal with?

 

[D_Elvetta Boombooms]

Smell is a big one for me because that latex odor condoms give off seems like it lingers for hours. No condom is also nice b/c it keeps things moving. No pause to struggle and put it on, or worry about it breaking, and no need ask him to roll it back down b/c its starting to hang like grocery bag off his ween tip. But I think the best thing is natural feeling without a condom! He can feel me, and I him.

 

[MickeyLee]

eew the smell.. the taste *ack-blech*

just to be uber ooky... stepping on a cold condom that missed the waste basket.

 

[D_Elvetta Boombooms]

just to be uber ooky... stepping on a cold condom that missed the waste basket.

and then a bit of what's left inside squeezes out? XD

 

[TomCat84]

It feels so much better without a condom that I can't imagine why anyone would ever use one. Why take a shower in a raincoat? And, emotionally, the idea of having sex with someone on the condition that there's a barrier between you to keep your parts separate is heartbreaking to me. The idea that a condom is "responsible" is a myth. Is it responsible to go your merry way hoping that an unreliable device will keep your actions from having the consequences you're not prepared to deal with?

Unreliable? How is it unreliable? Used correctly, condoms are over 99.99% effective in preventing pregnancies and many STDs like HIV.

 

[D_Iskepee_Longwoodee]

My boyfriend and I after being committed for a while chose to not use them as they take away a lot of the sensations of feeling each other inside of one another. We are monogamous, but we don't like condoms and my boyfriend and I have difficulty being strangled by them when we did wear them which caused us to lose our erection level at times and enter in with a semi which made sex difficult at best. We never had anal sex outside of a committed relationship, but had we condoms would've been used.

Being able to 'feel' the other person in terms of body temperature and texture as well as the other sensations you experience from the other person during sex is so powerful and condoms tend to remove most if not all of them. With that said, safe sex is best when not in committed.