Do gay guys actually have sex in public at gay bars?

[Artful Dodger]

I was witnessing a scorching hot scene yesterday in a club. Mono bar in Moscow... this club don’t have any dark rooms for hook ups but I saw guys were jerking off in the bathroom.

 

[lestat1137]

I wanna say it was 801. Bottom floor of the two story complex

Do you live in Key West or do you usually go there?

 

[Volumen]

My friends call me the bad luck charm. Every time I have gone with them to some of the more notorious spots in NYC, there has not been a bit of action the whole time we were there. I’m not just talking action for us, but action for anybody in the place. They’ve claimed to see all kinds of wild shit when I’m not in attendance, but literally the wildest thing ever witnessed when I was around was two guys making out in a corner while one had his hand down the other’s pants. I’m a total mood killer apparently haha

 

[malakos]

My friends call me the bad luck charm. Every time I have gone with them to some of the more notorious spots in NYC, there has not been a bit of action the whole time we were there. I’m not just talking action for us, but action for anybody in the place. They’ve claimed to see all kinds of wild shit when I’m not in attendance, but literally the wildest thing ever witnessed when I was around was two guys making out in a corner while one had his hand down the other’s pants. I’m a total mood killer apparently haha

Are you single?

 

[Volumen]

Are you single?

No, and neither are most of my friends. My own boyfriend has watched guys jack off onto the dance floor and suck each other in a couple of the different bars. To be fair I don't go barhopping all that often, but neither does he. Stuff has just never happened when I'm around.

 

[tucsonwoody]

Always nice to have a helping hand

https://twitter.com/i/status/1268738672452567041

 

[Misterguy5]

Nothing hotter than letting a complete stranger feel toward your crotch, feel down into you pants, pull out your cock and put it in his mouth... all while having no idea what he looks like cuz it’s pitch black.

 

[malakos]

Nothing hotter than letting a complete stranger feel toward your crotch, feel down into you pants, pull out your cock and put it in his mouth... all while having no idea what he looks like cuz it’s pitch black.

Wtf. No. That's the opposite of arousing.

 

[moonbeam]

I'm in NE Ohio, not San Francisco, but yes I've seen it and done it occasionally. Not full on fucking, but handjobs, hands down each other's pants; blowjobs... usually in a stall, or we go out to one of our vehicles in the parking lot. That was one of the benefits of me owning an SUV all these years, lol.

If you see more than one pair of feet under a bathroom stall, they're either hooking up and/or doing blow.

Depends on the bar your at, some will kick you out immediately for doing that out in the open in front of everyone.

I've also hooked up in the DJ booths, as well as the dressing rooms for the drag queens, when there were no queens performing that night. I knew the staff well at those places, and they were cool with me if I asked if we could use a room for a quickie.

 

[MIAbbGuy]

I can't deny that a dick may have fallen into my mouth and / or ass in a bar before. (correction, in bar(s) )

 

[brandon38]

I can't deny that a dick may have fallen into my mouth and / or ass in a bar before. (correction, in bar(s) )

Sound fun love here more one day .

 

[Diarmuid88]

Not in a standard gay bar, but some bars are marketed as more of a sexual place so in those types of gay bars I've seen / participated in this

 

[Messy Elliott]

I saw 2 guys make out, one eat the other's ass, then fuck him and breed him in The Eagle NYC before, and not even in the bathroom. To be fair it was jockstrap night so, easy access and all but still. Some bars know it happens but they just look away and tacitly allow it, others will shut it down as soon as they see it.

Due to COVID I don't know if you can still expect the same activities going forward, though if guys are still hooking up via the apps then maybe?

 

[steveh9]

I'm in NE Ohio, not San Francisco, but yes I've seen it and done it occasionally. Not full on fucking, but handjobs, hands down each other's pants; blowjobs... usually in a stall, or we go out to one of our vehicles in the parking lot. That was one of the benefits of me owning an SUV all these years, lol.

If you see more than one pair of feet under a bathroom stall, they're either hooking up and/or doing blow.

Depends on the bar your at, some will kick you out immediately for doing that out in the open in front of everyone.

I've also hooked up in the DJ booths, as well as the dressing rooms for the drag queens, when there were no queens performing that night. I knew the staff well at those places, and they were cool with me if I asked if we could use a room for a quickie.

I've been in many stalls with guys, sucking their dicks. The word gets around and i have sucked many in the same night there
If you see more than one pair of feet under a bathroom stall, they're either hooking up and/or doing blow.

 

[chrisrobin]

in the uk, there are bars especially in London where this happens a lot - back in the 80s/90s it was a lot more prevalent too with 'back rooms' etc.

I have a good friend into the leather scene and he used to tell me about how he would go to a leather bar in just chaps, ass and dick on show and ready to be taken, and he would let me know how many guys he'd fucked and how many had fucked him in the night and he still does this now too, so clearly going on.

There was a time when private clubs sprang up like weeds in London, there for a few weeks till they either moved or got shut down and it was in one of these that I saw an ex of mine being fucked in a dimly lit basement room. Well, to be more accurate he was lying on a pool table on his back naked from the waist down and guys were lining up to fuck him one after the other, his legs held very firmly over his head with his hole placed to be available to any cock that wanted it. I was going to join in, had done to other guys, but decided been there done that. In the time I watched 9 guys entered and deposited.
2 weeks later the club was gone.

 

[deleted1074483]

There was a time when private clubs sprang up like weeds in London, there for a few weeks till they either moved or got shut down and it was in one of these that I saw an ex of mine being fucked in a dimly lit basement room. Well, to be more accurate he was lying on a pool table on his back naked from the waist down and guys were lining up to fuck him one after the other, his legs held very firmly over his head with his hole placed to be available to any cock that wanted it. I was going to join in, had done to other guys, but decided been there done that. In the time I watched 9 guys entered and deposited.
2 weeks later the club was gone.

and its a real bugger when you go in the next week to play pool there and well its justs 'sticky' and 'icky'

 

[chrisrobin]

and its a real bugger when you go in the next week to play pool there and well its justs 'sticky' and 'icky'

Fairly sure that while it was in use this table was only used for that sort of ball game - hole in one!

 

[CuriousDad123]

A lot of bars in key west have sexual action going on most of the time

 

[wayward93angel]

Yea, would have to say it happens.

 

[cedarizzo]

and its a real bugger when you go in the next week to play pool there and well its justs 'sticky' and 'icky'

There were a few bars in New Orleans that were known for men having sex in the bar. The one bar had a pool table right off the main bar that was routinely used for sex. Never saw anybody play pool there when it wasn't being used for sex. And then they stopped guys from having sex in the open, they were allowing it in the bathrooms for a while. And then eventually they stopped it in the bathrooms too.