Do guys get jealous of what other men have done to their wife?

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I wasn’t sure how to word the title lol
I was curious how men actually feel knowing or thinking about their woman’s sexual past. I know some guys get turned on by hearing or thinking about their wife getting fucked by a past lover but I’m curious how guys who don’t get turned on by it feel. Does it mess with your head knowing your wife has had other dicks in her mouth? Has had her legs pinned back and fucked by other men? Has had another man’s cum all over her or in her? Does it mess with you knowing she’s probably had a bigger dick fuck her? I’m genuinely curious how men think. Again I’m talking more to the men who are not turned on by the idea. Like how do you cope with knowing this? Have you ever been in a situation where you are around another guy who you know has fucked your wife? Has to be awkward for a guy. I know men tend to get more territorial and can feel more insecure about that stuff. Especially when it comes to dick size. I was recently at an event where I saw an ex lover. This man did things to me that would shock my husband. But I introduced my husband to him and told him he was a “friend” from college. I’m sure just by the shear sexual tension and light flirting that my husband can tell I probably hooked up with this guy. He’s fucking hot and really big. He was an athlete. More than likely my husband can assume he fucked me and has a large dick. Which he does. Little does my husband know that he’s chatting with a man who’s had his dick in my mouth pussy and ass. Little does he know I’ve had my tongue up this man’s ass and his balls all over my face. He has no clue he just shook hands with a guy who has sit on his wife’s face and has fucked his wife every way possible. I’ve had his cum in and around every part of my body and I even let him pee on my face before. So my husband is here chatting with a man who has done all of that to his “innocent” wife. It turns me on but I’m curious how a man feels and deals with that situation knowing your wife the love of your life the Mother of your children has probably been very slutty for a few men before. Guys any thoughts on this? Women any thoughts?
 
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Interesting question.
I’ve had both reactions.
I had been insecure about having a small penis before I got married. I later found out that my wife had been with much better endowed men both before and later, after we were married.
Initially I felt embarrassed, angry, insecure and intimidated
However, over time I became fascinated, then eventually turned on by thinking about her being sexual with these big cocked men.
 
My partner and I go with other couples so it's not a thing for us.

Also I like to try to get to the jack off club at least once a month. And I have it on the calendar, she knows when I go. It's not a secret. She's cute, so she'll ask me when I get home... How many cumshots did blow and how many guys did you nut?

We are past the point of being jealous about each other's sexual history. Now it's really more about having a good time.
 
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My partner and I go with other couples so it's not a thing for us.

Also I like to try to get to the jack off club at least once a month. And I have it on the calendar, she knows when I go. It's not a secret. She's cute, so she'll ask me when I get home... How many cumshots did blow and how many guys did you nut?

We are past the point of being jealous about each other's sexual history. Now it's really more about having a good time.
Congratulations! Sounds good and healthy.