Do straight guys do this....?

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    Hi everyone. I'm not sure if my friend is gay or not. While talking, our conversations usually turn to talking about dicks, our dicks, other guys dicks, our friends dicks, etc. Is this something that straight guys talk about alot or is there a possibility that my friend is gay? I've never heard him talk about his own sex life, and now that we are in college I would assume he has done stuff, so maybe is trying to hide it? I have been openly bi with him, but he's never said anything to me about himself.
     
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    I think its regional. I think in an urban setting, no. But in rural areas, it seems to be more common. I get that from reading the posts here.
     
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    Why would a straight men ever talk about their dicks? They are repulsed by them, even though they have one.
     
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    That's interesting. We grew up in a rural setting, so your theory would hold true.
     
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    You're friend may well be gay....why don't you ask him?
     
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    That explains all the straight guys on this site. :rolleyes:
     
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    I've only heard straight guys talk about dicks when they were going through puberty, aside from one joke about how guys who own big vehicles are compensating for small dicks. I think your friend might be bi or gay...but then again, maybe not. I don't think if he's comfortable enough to talk about dicks all the time he'd be offended if you made a move.
     
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    OR, maybe he's just comfortable with sexuality... or has a penis and wants to talk about it. Oddly enough, straight guys can talk about cock without being gay.

    Now, if he was talking about how he likes to sit there and suck on a nice long fat cock for hours a night... then maybe.....
     
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    What he said!
     
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    :eek: i might be gay.

    my life is ruined. *snicker*
     
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    I'm straight but I talk about this with my friends once in a blue moon. Just because he does all the time doesn't mean anything, he might just be fascinated by dicks. You never know though unless you ask him.
     
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    Oddly enough, he knows that you are bi, therefore he knows he is half-way in. If that is the case and you don't take advantage he will feel rejected. Have you seen each others cocks? I'd expect so, being long time buds. If you, or haven't recently, and the suggestion of a comparison can be a good icebreaker. Then too, it kind of depends on what you say is about his cock and other cocks. I think he is bringing up penis issues is a way of letting you know you can make the next move.

    He is probably shy and not very self-confident, even with you, a longtime friend.

    let us know how it develops.
     
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    I've got a straight friend who is pretty open and doesn't mind discussing dicks. It's because he has done some experimentation in college, saw his friend get sucked off by his girlfriend, and has gone skinny-dipping in mixed company. He knows I'm well-hung (because he asked my size after drinks one night) and he constantly gives me shit about it. Personally, I think he's jealous. ;)

    Besides, everybody looks in the locker room and sneaks a peek here and there!

    Anyway, your friend might be open-minded as opposed to having a genuine attraction for men, so I wouldn't judge too quickly.
     
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    If that is the case then we know the whole story.
     
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    Jeff, no need for hostility. I was just making an inference as to the chance from my own judging of the situation. It might be off-point or it might not be. Yes, talking about dicks doesn't make someone automatically queer...but all I know is that a lot of straight guys have hangups and don't want to ever talk about penises for fear of being perceived as queer.
     
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    Baby, you can come be gay with me whenever you want.
     
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    Nah, no hostility there, Mr.Poet. I just didn't say it clear. From my personal experience, I've noticed that all my male friends are more than willing to talk about their dicks. I'd say 85% of them are straight. Talking about dick is just what guys do. It's partially for security, and partially for curiousity to see how they stack up.

    However, you are correct in that last sentence... some straight guys are rather un-open when it comes to talking about their cock. I personally feel it's an insecurity thing.
     
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    I've never thought of it as him wanting me to make a move. It kind of makes since though. I have always thought of him as a friend and wouldn't be afraid to make it more than just friends. But, I do have a boyfriend which he knows about, so now I have some thinking to do...:confused:
     
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    Don't do anything rash before you're absolutely sure that's the case. Once you are actually able to confirm that's exactly what your friend wants, then give it some time before you decide to act on it. You could potentially lose a boyfriend and a friend, so give it a serious amount of thought before you act on anything.
     
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    Good advice there, Disco ;)
     
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