Do Straight guys mind?

[beercan34]

It does not matter if a straight guy minds or not if he is casually admired for his endowment by anykind of other man,.... str8,gay,bi,...Thai.


I just still for the life of me cannot understand why there are men that seem so threatened, disgusted, and uncomfortable by this kind of admiration.

So many times I have heard and still hear men say "yeah, this gay guy was checkin' out my dick at the urinal" or "these fags at the gym are always checkin' me out and I hate it"

How do these "admirees" that feel so disgusted and threatened know that the "admirers" are actually gay ?

How do the "admirers" actually know that the "admirees" are straight or not ?

It cuts both ways

I have been casually admired by my endowment, and I've always been flattered. I don't care if the admirers are str8,gay, or bi. I don't care if they thought I was either str8,gay,or bi.

Gee, does it really matter at all ?

It cuts both ways.

Guys ! Just take it as a complement.

Personally, I am not really str8, gay, or really even bi. I am simply just ABLE.
For all intents and purposes, I chose to label myself as 80%str8/20%gay, but it waivers a bit from day to day.

I make sure that all women that I ever get physically involved with know that I am not "straight".

That last sentence doesn't have anything to do with this post, but I thought I would throw it in anyway.

Peace out, BC34

 

[Str8Man]

Honestly it depends on my mood. Can't say I've felt like a big stud in a long time, so not sure how I would react. I can't keep guys from looking, but I prefer no comments. I personally could never comment on another guy if I was not already good friends. With good friends, it's a big ego boost if they like my bigun.

 

[MXM107]

when its happened, i've always found it flattering.

 

[titan1968]

Originally posted by MXM107@Jun 18 2005, 12:52 PM
when its happened, i've always found it flattering.

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I think it is flattering too, but we are not all the same.

By the way, I love your profile pic MXM107.

 

[B_Carolina]

Toi be truthful, I don't even notice other people checking me out. Not just other guys, but I'm oblivious to the farer sex checking me out. So for me, a straight guy, I've never really noticed myself minding anything.

 

[B_hungrick]

For me this topic has two parts to it. First I like it when people show me some attention. I mean who doesn't? I've had other guys who've seen me naked make positive comments about my body & dick. Then there's the second part of this issue. I really like to be admired by women I may be attracted to. I think there's an aspect of mutual attraction that makes the whole experience exciting or even erotic. For example, I love it when my girlfriend says she thinks I'm sexy. It's one of the best things about being in a LTR.

 

[bareamigo]

Let ‘em look! Are you kidding—I love it! My monster meat is my one and only truly magnificent physical asset. I love to show it to both the guys and the women--hard or soft. And I do show my dick a lot—but soft (well, mostly). There’s just not many opportunities to show your boner to another guy unless you’re doin something gay which I usually do not. About all the guys at work have seen my dick. When I go to the john I unzip as soon as I’m in the door and have my wiener in my hand when I’m still two or three steps away from the urinal—as though I had to pee so bad I just couldn’t wait. Even better, if I’m able to have a conversation in the john, I not only stand back as far as I can, but I step back with one foot, turning my body into the conversation—obviously with my pecker fully exposed—careful to hold it and aim with the hand that won’t obstruct the view.

And sure, the guys make good natured jokes about it all the time, so it’s pretty well known around work. A lot of the women (and some of the guys) at work have trouble keeping their eyes above my belt and I love it. I freeball about 100% of the time and I wear loose, baggy slacks that lets me swing freely –and sometimes pretty visibly. If someone really can’t keep their eyes off it it kinda turns me on and I let them see it grow down my leg.

The gym’s a natural—It’s hot to walk to the shower or sauna without even taking a towel—just let it swing. Hard ons? When one of the guys starts to show wood it usually turns me on and I will usually get a little hard too. I like to sit in the sauna right at the edge of the bench—preferably on the second level—so that my cock hangs straight down completely over the edge. I grow down, so if it gets semi, so much the better—it doesn’t really look like a boner. In the warm sauna or steam room, most guys cocks get a little fleshy anyway. A guy sitting on the first level is at about eye level with my dick and since it hangs about half way to the next shelf, most guys can’t help but to stare at it. Usually I handle it a little to keep it fluffed and to make it swing—I guess that’s kind of a tease, but I really didn’t start doin it for that reason consciously. Every now and then I see a guy quickly cover himself with a towel and I can tell that he’s sprung a woody. (They don’t know whether to stay and hope it’ll go down or head for the showers and hope they don’t meet anyone on the way.) When that happens and I usually get a little harder too. I can get pretty hard (and really big) and still hang straight down. At this point it’s pretty obvious I’m not flaccid, but I figure what the hell, they’re hard too an they must be enjoyin it. If there was ever a dude who got a boner and didn’t cover it up—just sat there showin it—I think I’d be tempted to let myself show my full Bonersaurus Rex. But that hasn’t ever happened yet.

Gabe

 

[jaymacgthree]

"Bonersaurus Rex"???

Hmm, never seen one of those. Sounds like I should familiarize myself.

 

[Pye]

Originally posted by bareamigo@Jul 16 2005, 08:04 PM
Let ‘em look! Are you kidding—I love it! My monster meat is my one and only truly magnificent physical asset. I love to show it to both the guys and the women--hard or soft. And I do show my dick a lot—but soft (well, mostly). There’s just not many opportunities to show your boner to another guy unless you’re doin something gay which I usually do not. About all the guys at work have seen my dick. When I go to the john I unzip as soon as I’m in the door and have my wiener in my hand when I’m still two or three steps away from the urinal—as though I had to pee so bad I just couldn’t wait. Even better, if I’m able to have a conversation in the john, I not only stand back as far as I can, but I step back with one foot, turning my body into the conversation—obviously with my pecker fully exposed—careful to hold it and aim with the hand that won’t obstruct the view.

And sure, the guys make good natured jokes about it all the time, so it’s pretty well known around work. A lot of the women (and some of the guys) at work have trouble keeping their eyes above my belt and I love it. I freeball about 100% of the time and I wear loose, baggy slacks that lets me swing freely –and sometimes pretty visibly. If someone really can’t keep their eyes off it it kinda turns me on and I let them see it grow down my leg.

The gym’s a natural—It’s hot to walk to the shower or sauna without even taking a towel—just let it swing. Hard ons? When one of the guys starts to show wood it usually turns me on and I will usually get a little hard too. I like to sit in the sauna right at the edge of the bench—preferably on the second level—so that my cock hangs straight down completely over the edge. I grow down, so if it gets semi, so much the better—it doesn’t really look like a boner. In the warm sauna or steam room, most guys cocks get a little fleshy anyway. A guy sitting on the first level is at about eye level with my dick and since it hangs about half way to the next shelf, most guys can’t help but to stare at it. Usually I handle it a little to keep it fluffed and to make it swing—I guess that’s kind of a tease, but I really didn’t start doin it for that reason consciously. Every now and then I see a guy quickly cover himself with a towel and I can tell that he’s sprung a woody. (They don’t know whether to stay and hope it’ll go down or head for the showers and hope they don’t meet anyone on the way.) When that happens and I usually get a little harder too. I can get pretty hard (and really big) and still hang straight down. At this point it’s pretty obvious I’m not flaccid, but I figure what the hell, they’re hard too an they must be enjoyin it. If there was ever a dude who got a boner and didn’t cover it up—just sat there showin it—I think I’d be tempted to let myself show my full Bonersaurus Rex. But that hasn’t ever happened yet.

Gabe

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yup you are definately an exhibitionist-- maybe I SHOULD go to the gym

 

[jonb]

Definitely an exhibitionist.

I don't mind, as I said. I don't go out of my way to show it like some people do, but I don't mind if guys check me out. It just means they like how I look. There's more to me than that, but it's not like it's a relationship.

 

[CUBE]

Originally posted by chicago1155@Jun 14 2005, 05:29 AM
I'm flattered when a guy checks me out.

Who wouldn't be flattered that someone, man or woman, find something attractive about you.

Robert

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I know I'd like to check out Robert

 

[pippi]

i show myself off on some picture posting websites and sure like the attention i get there. 95% of the interest comes from gay guys and i dont mind it. i not only post pictures of my genitalia, but also of the rest of my body and my face, but girls dont seem to frquent these sites often or only few of them are visual enough.

 

[MXM107]

Originally posted by titan1968+Jun 19 2005, 04:44 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(titan1968 &#064; Jun 19 2005, 04:44 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-MXM107@Jun 18 2005, 12:52 PM
when its happened, i&#39;ve always found it flattering.

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I think it is flattering too, but we are not all the same.

By the way, I love your profile pic MXM107.

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thanks&#33;

 

[jonb]

Err . . . Pipi? Change your avi.

 

[chimes]

Seriously? I never get any comments on the size of mine. I get looks, maybe even stares, but I never get any remarks. Maybe people are afraid too, becuase I&#39;m younger?

 

[viande]

Originally posted by KeraAndMike@Jun 14 2005, 03:43 AM
I dont mind at all. I show off a lot but mostly just dont go to such great lengths to hide it. Yeah guys have said stuff and I usually assume they are straight.

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ditto... The only guys I know who&#39;ve said anything are friends of mine, and I know they&#39;re all straight.. but I&#39;ve caught people staring before.. doesn&#39;t affect me one way or the other.

 

[goodwood]

I think somebody already raised the issue - how do you know what another guy&#39;s orientation is? In the end it really does not matter. I enjoy taking a sauna or a steam after a workout. I have always had guys checking my package out. soft it&#39;s like 6 x 4 and large, low hanging balls. I am in there to relax, period. If you want to look, go ahead I guess. I am a little alarmed when another guy gets completely hard and starts giving himself a hand job while staring at my dick. This has happened many times. Should I be complimented by this? One thing to be relaxed enough to have a hard on - another thing to be doing that.

 

[13788]

AzNightSun: I am flattered........... :smoke:

 

[jonb]

Flattery&#39;s the only logical reaction. Until he starts whacking it right in front of you.

 

[D_Bud_Hurt]

I agree. As long as a guy feels he is in control, and has not been violated, any look or sign of admiration is not a &#39;negative&#39; experience. It assures any of us about our manhood or maleness, to have another guy check us out, or admire something we may have that they find intriguing. My wife hasn&#39;t been to happy about some of the Gay guy&#39;s who have passed and commented. I would guess that it would more be from the manner in which they &#39;carried on&#39;, (her words) I was not aware of the approching Gay couple. Then when they did go by, I thought they were talking about one of the Wax Figures. We were in the Wax Museum in San Francisco.

It was the &#39;triple take&#39; she said that truly annoyed her, and the one guys insistant comment. I thought he was talking about Dorothy, The Tin Man, and Oz.... :shrug: