I always look at women's chests and other sexy parts as much as possible when out and about. It's a great distraction walking down the street, sitting in a restaurant etc. I try very hard to be respectful and not stare. I always wonder how much I get caught. I THINK I am very discrete, but I am sure women catch me more than I realize. So how much of that is two way? Do you ladies watch for crotches? Do you get caught? How can you tell if a guy is packing (aside from the obvious tight jeans or whatever)? Can you tell if he wears loose clothes? How? I always wonder if I am obviously big (I am more a shower than grower) because I prefer loose clothes.