Since I don't have sex with other people, only myself, I would say yes, size matters. I would LOVE to be able to self-service.
Does size really matter?
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I can't believe there's another thread started about this issue. How many times must this question be asked.
Size matters. I would add the caveat that size isn't everything.
I think a lot of us men put way too much weight on the subject and tend to believe life would be better if we had a bigger dick but then again, the same goes for so many other things in life. If I only had more money, a better job, a bigger house, better car, etc.
Time to put away the insecurities and understand that you just have to do the best you can with what you have. No different than playing in a pick up game of whatever (b-ball, football, baseball, etc), you just do the best you can. Will there be better athletes, you better believe it and that's just the way it is. Appreciate what you have and put away the insecurities.
Size matters. I would add the caveat that size isn't everything.
I think a lot of us men put way too much weight on the subject and tend to believe life would be better if we had a bigger dick but then again, the same goes for so many other things in life. If I only had more money, a better job, a bigger house, better car, etc.
Time to put away the insecurities and understand that you just have to do the best you can with what you have. No different than playing in a pick up game of whatever (b-ball, football, baseball, etc), you just do the best you can. Will there be better athletes, you better believe it and that's just the way it is. Appreciate what you have and put away the insecurities.
Have you come across that size often in your lovers? I believe that size and above would fall in the 1% of all men range. Most women would only experience 1 that size if any in their sexual history. Not saying you couldn't have experienced a few, but it would be rare. In other words, finding someone less so you "could enjoy a good romp" shouldn't be difficult..
I believe it does, because the instances where I happen to be the biggest theyve had. They are always impressed, and comment on it.. Talk about it, and even comment on how I hit spots that have never been hit before, how they feel so full, blah, blah all that shit ( im not close to huge, big maybe, above average, for certain ) this is my take.
Besides, the old saying seems to be true " with all things being equal in a man, except one had a bigger penis" guess which guy shes taking , lol.
Besides, the old saying seems to be true " with all things being equal in a man, except one had a bigger penis" guess which guy shes taking , lol.
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This is always going to be a topic of discussion because guys always love to compare. I was bi for a a number of years and I can tell you, size matters more to gay guys than it does to women from my experiences. A good top can make both men and women cum.
most gals will tell you size is secondary, that they look for a good, nice, caring man first. but over the years, my wife will tell me she loves the heck out of me, and then separately thanks me for having a "big one". she doesn't mention it very often, so when she does it's kind of rare, special. she told me once that some of her gfs complained about their guys in bed, and their lack of size, and wanted to have an affair(s). and once, a couple gals asked my wife, "well, you never complain." she told them she had no compliants. she had a husband with a "big one", and they were jealous.
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One of my girlfriends where virgins before me, and had never watched porn. She thought I had small one, and I asked her to show me, with their hands, how big she thought a cock usually is. One showed 30 cm. Afterwards she found other guys, and I know for sure that she is with an average (black) guy now. I hope she set her expectations down in the mean time, lol. On a side note, she had a really loose vagina. Not the first 5 times, but then it just, i dunno, grew. I could get a whole hand up. Dunno if such things have anything to do with sensitivity.
Another time I was with a girl who had a boyfriend with a really small penis. I know the guy from school, and he is about 3.9 inches long, max, and pencil-like in width (okay, a thick pencil, but you get the picture). Of course his dick is usable, but it isn't a monster. I had sex with her (without knowing they where together), and afterwards she broke up, because she wanted to find one with a bigger penis - which she did. We where all about 16 yrs back then, and she was a mean girl. Btw, to avoid breaking rules: 15 is the legal age for sex in my country, so I hope it isn't a problem.
One of my friends girls will only have sex with max 5 inches, because that is what gets her off. If you have a longer / thick cock, she wont do you. She claims that it hurts, and when it doesn't, it just makes her pussy insensitive. Weird thing, them dicks and pussies.
Another time I was with a girl who had a boyfriend with a really small penis. I know the guy from school, and he is about 3.9 inches long, max, and pencil-like in width (okay, a thick pencil, but you get the picture). Of course his dick is usable, but it isn't a monster. I had sex with her (without knowing they where together), and afterwards she broke up, because she wanted to find one with a bigger penis - which she did. We where all about 16 yrs back then, and she was a mean girl. Btw, to avoid breaking rules: 15 is the legal age for sex in my country, so I hope it isn't a problem.
One of my friends girls will only have sex with max 5 inches, because that is what gets her off. If you have a longer / thick cock, she wont do you. She claims that it hurts, and when it doesn't, it just makes her pussy insensitive. Weird thing, them dicks and pussies.
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Oh, it matters. A lot. 8 gets you noticed, 9 stands out and anything bigger than that makes you a king between your legs. Hung guys get more pussy like big batsmen hit more home runs. Besides, at porn sites do they have special sections devoted to average or small dicks? I don't think so. LOL! :biggrin1:
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I'm about 7.5" on an average day and around 8" if I'm super horny. If I could trade an inch so that this thing vibrated or rotated rapidly I'd do it.
Have you ever seen those huge kite men advertising thingies they put out in front of businesses? If by some weird possibility I could trade an inch for that kind of boner hijinks I'd do it!
Have you ever seen those huge kite men advertising thingies they put out in front of businesses? If by some weird possibility I could trade an inch for that kind of boner hijinks I'd do it!
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As a guy who maxes out at just over 4" when I'm really aroused (usually around 3.8" - 4"), I could go on and on with stories about how women have reacted to my size. Suffice it to say, that for many women yes, it does seem to matter on at least some level.
On the other other hand, it does have it's advantages too so I guess I can't complain too loudly...
On the other other hand, it does have it's advantages too so I guess I can't complain too loudly...
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Your point being? I'm not exactly large my own; but well, if there's a will, there's a way. Why not pick up something from this forum that'll most probably help your insecurities?
Size is really important to guys. We love to compare and talk about hig big we are... But the most funny thing is that girls doesn't care! What's the difference if you are 5 or 8 inches - you'll do anything to pleasure her. In the past I had certain problems with my size, and trust me - I hadn't been proud when my girlfriend cried of pain during the intercourse.
Sometimes I think that this isn't big penis support board, but a place for very selfish people...
Sometimes I think that this isn't big penis support board, but a place for very selfish people...
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DOES SIZE MATTER???
It matters to some. You cannot compete with someone's want or need. If a woman or a man wants to have sex with a man with a large dick...and you have a less than large penis...you may as well *sigh* and deal. I couldn't compete with my ex's want and need of a nine-inch cock.
cool:And he went out and developed that urge on his own. I surely didn't have a nine-inch dick.)
I dealt with it. I cannot compete with a dude whose penis is larger than mine. Anymore than I could compete with Albert Einstein's mental intellect...or Jon Hamm's intense masculinity.
I think that anyone who has an issue with size or feel like you have been shorted in some way with their penis...don't make it a comparative issue...don't make it an issue at all. If someone is giving you a hard time over it...you probably don't need that person in your life. It isn't worth the trouble you get from them. It really isn't.
It matters to some. You cannot compete with someone's want or need. If a woman or a man wants to have sex with a man with a large dick...and you have a less than large penis...you may as well *sigh* and deal. I couldn't compete with my ex's want and need of a nine-inch cock.
cool:And he went out and developed that urge on his own. I surely didn't have a nine-inch dick.)I dealt with it. I cannot compete with a dude whose penis is larger than mine. Anymore than I could compete with Albert Einstein's mental intellect...or Jon Hamm's intense masculinity.
I think that anyone who has an issue with size or feel like you have been shorted in some way with their penis...don't make it a comparative issue...don't make it an issue at all. If someone is giving you a hard time over it...you probably don't need that person in your life. It isn't worth the trouble you get from them. It really isn't.
DOES SIZE MATTER???
It matters to some. You cannot compete with someone's want or need. If a woman or a man wants to have sex with a man with a large dick...and you have a less than large penis...you may as well *sigh* and deal. I couldn't compete with my ex's want and need of a nine-inch cock.
I dealt with it. I cannot compete with a dude whose penis is larger than mine. Anymore than I could compete with Albert Einstein's mental intellect...or Jon Hamm's intense masculinity.
I think that anyone who has an issue with size or feel like you have been shorted in some way with their penis...don't make it a comparative issue...don't make it an issue at all. If someone is giving you a hard time over it...you probably don't need that person in your life. It isn't worth the trouble you get from them. It really isn't.
I doubt there's anything you can add to that. More or less perfectly expressed - well done.
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