Does wife/gf allow you to masturbate in bed when she's asleep?

[shaved and trimmed]

Yes I do but don't need permission to do so. Besides she does it too. I've told her I'd prefer if she'd just go ahead and use me. It's a nice way to be woken up. Those are the times I last the longest to the point she will tell me to cum already, she wants to go back to sleep.
I know better than to wake her up this way!

 

[Nemorex]

I do it, but I don’t think that I am “allowed to”

 

[bonerjams03]

If your partner is asleep, you’d need to wake her up to ask for consent. Just pound on out on the couch.

 

[Magnum10x2]

After a long day there’s plenty of sexual tension but we’re physically exhausted so we’ll lie side by side and get each other off. Sometimes it turns into a quick fuck or a 69, but I can’t recall ever masturbating next to a woman. Unless I’m cumming on her.

 

[Nick56]

I'm wondering how female partners might react if you are comfortable enough to tell them that you want/need to jerk off in bed when horny and they are asleep. It is maybe obvious that you are having a fantasy that doesn't involve them. Are they cool with that? If not do you think it's fair of not if they don't allow you to do so?
I am curious if most guys are given permission by their female partners to knock one out if they need to especially in the marital bed. In my fantasies straight guys don't masturbate even though polls say otherwise.

If I masturbate while my wife's around it's pretty certain she will want to finish me. I think she secretly luvs cock

 

[nomju]

Since the menopause our sex life has dwindled. Plus in this hot weather she isn't happy for us to fuck. So, if I wake up early in the morning with an erection and feel I need to release i just do it. As long as I don't get cum on her or the bed sheets, she's ok. I'll usually cum on my stomach, then go to the bathroom to clean up. If that wakes her up, I'll explain what I'm doing, and she's cool with it. On the odd occasion she wakes up while I'm wanking, she'll sometimes take over, but just with her hand, not with sex.
I do wonder sometimes though if she's awake while I'm wanking thinking 'Just cum will you, I'm trying to sleep '.

 

[throbb]

I don't think my wife gets to "allow" me to masturbate. My body. Not hurting her.

That being said, I wouldn't do it in bed because I wouldn't want to be "caught" (even if I don't think it's wrong) and it's kind of messy.

When she's fallen asleep and I'm horny, I've gotten up to take a shower and whacked off, and has come in on me. She made a point of saying that's OK, but it's still embarrassing and still a source of frustration that after years of marriage I'd like to come 3 times a day (with her if I can), and she has largely lost interest.

 

[Sexedup]

If shes asleep, she doesn't know.

Very rarely I'll jerk off in bed with her. Sometimes I just want to think about only myself. If she wakes up while this is happening, shell eith help me out by sitting on me, or just talking dirty etc.

Same for her. Just yesterday he was horny but I was running late for work. After I got out of the shower there was a vibrator in the sink. She didn't want to kill the hot water in the shower by turning the sink tap on so waited until I was done. She just said, "needed that realise" I love it when she orgasms, with or without me involved.

 

[VladtheImpaler]

One night my wife was riding me but I wasn't able to cum, she got off and laid on her stomach. I wanted to get off so I started jerking when I got close I crawled on top stuck my cock in her ass crack and came against her asshole. Then I laid down and rubbed my cock in my cum

 

[Adamcookmer]

Yeah my wife knows I do it every night.. she’ll happily send me pics to use.. so she can get some sleep

 

[throbb]

One night my wife was riding me but I wasn't able to cum, she got off and laid on her stomach. I wanted to get off so I started jerking when I got close I crawled on top stuck my cock in her ass crack and came against her asshole. Then I laid down and rubbed my cock in my cum

You have a great sexual relationship. I wouldn’t feel as comfortable doing that. Lucky man.

 

[Very kinkey]

While I have never done that while she was sleeping, many, many times she has had me masturbate into her mouth while we're having sex. She has gone so far as to take my hand while she is blowing me and put it on my cock to finish myself off while I am in her mouth.

That is great hard to find a girl like that!!!

 

[Evenflow369]

Going for sex instead every single time

 

[eltoro45]

If you're asking your wife's permission to masturbate, I think there's bigger issues at work here.

 

[Sagittarius84]

If you're asking your wife's permission to masturbate, I think there's bigger issues at work here.

That ship has sailed long ago, a large contingent of female partners have been societally empowered if not encouraged to be in control of their male partners sexual release, even if they outwardly champion sexual autonomy for all.

 

[Ohio419]

I never do it in bed. I’ll go to our bathroom to do it that way I won’t make a mess. if she’s asleep and I jerk off in bed she’d probably wake up. We’ve never discussed it either but she’s aware I do masturbate. Even after years of marriage I still find it awkward the times she’s walked in on me jerking off

 

[Very kinkey]

I never do it in bed. I’ll go to our bathroom to do it that way I won’t make a mess. if she’s asleep and I jerk off in bed she’d probably wake up. We’ve never discussed it either but she’s aware I do masturbate. Even after years of marriage I still find it awkward the times she’s walked in on me jerking off

Jack off with her watching, she may enjoy watching, Some do!!

 

[Ohio419]

Jack off with her watching, she may enjoy watching, Some do!!

She’s watched me do it while she’s undressed but she’ll take over saying that is her job lol

 

[throbb]

I never do it in bed. I’ll go to our bathroom to do it that way I won’t make a mess. if she’s asleep and I jerk off in bed she’d probably wake up. We’ve never discussed it either but she’s aware I do masturbate. Even after years of marriage I still find it awkward the times she’s walked in on me jerking off

Anything response short of joining in or being turned on by makes it embarrassing! It shouldn't be, but it is...

 

[Rooker]

I don’t. It happened once after she passed out. If I wanted to, I would just do it.