douching

[nickkkalal]

whats the best at home way to douche? im gonna try bottoming soon and need help..

 

[nickkkalal]

whats the best at home way to douche? im gonna try bottoming soon and need help..

also how long does it take to get verified??

 

[vincegre]

also how long does it take to get verified??

usually not more than few hours

 

[LPSG Simon]

I've always loved this guide.

This Infographic Answers an Age-Old Question: How Do You Properly ‘Clean Up’ Before Butt Sex?

Pro-tip. It usually takes a lot less water than you think it will. Don't overdo it or you'll get stuck expelling shit for ages, which is bad if you have the person coming over soon.

You can also take a psyllium fibre supplement like Pure For Men in days leading up to it, and you probably wont have to at all.

 

[jaybee0560]

whats the best at home way to douche? im gonna try bottoming soon and need help..

Simons guide above is pretty good. It makes the point and this point cannot be stressed enuff - if you are after a decent quick effective douche - then be extremely careful not to overfill your rectum and push water into your colon - if you do that - it brings on a whole other job and if you're still keen on getting fucked your only option is to go full douche - which is a right royal pain in the arse (no pun intended) or just not fuck - or fuck and expect shitting water to be part of the game.
As soon as water gets in your colon - your colon is going to go nuts trying to get rid of it.

Personally - I use a home shower douche and the toilet - unless you do not have a loo right next to your shower (which most ensuites do) - I see no need to try and shit down the drain, which is pretty gross.

I also take psyllium fiber but will always douche as well to make sure everything is in tip top condition.

If you're just regular fucking - A quick douche should be fine for your needs - if you're going for some serious deep fisting or fucking a guy who's horse hung or plan on fucking for several hours - then you may wanna consider a deep douche.

 

[nickkkalal]

Simons guide above is pretty good. It makes the point and this point cannot be stressed enuff - if you are after a decent quick effective douche - then be extremely careful not to overfill your rectum and push water into your colon - if you do that - it brings on a whole other job and if you're still keen on getting fucked your only option is to go full douche - which is a right royal pain in the arse (no pun intended) or just not fuck - or fuck and expect shitting water to be part of the game.
As soon as water gets in your colon - your colon is going to go nuts trying to get rid of it.

Personally - I use a home shower douche and the toilet - unless you do not have a loo right next to your shower (which most ensuites do) - I see no need to try and shit down the drain, which is pretty gross.

I also take psyllium fiber but will always douche as well to make sure everything is in tip top condition.

If you're just regular fucking - A quick douche should be fine for your needs - if you're going for some serious deep fisting or fucking a guy who's horse hung or plan on fucking for several hours - then you may wanna consider a deep douche.

thank you guys !!!

 

[Solotwink]

Hi, i mostly like to bottom when i am having sex, but i dont like douching everytime i gotta play with my ass, and so im really tight. I live alone, but i wanna play more with it so it can be take some dick easily or having a better time bottoming. Like i dont want to put a finger in without even douching it yk..

Any advice to help me relax or reduce my douching time ?

 

[jaybee0560]

Hi, i mostly like to bottom when i am having sex, but i dont like douching everytime i gotta play with my ass, and so im really tight. I live alone, but i wanna play more with it so it can be take some dick easily or having a better time bottoming. Like i dont want to put a finger in without even douching it yk..

Any advice to help me relax or reduce my douching time ?

Not entirely sure what you are asking here.
Seems to be
a) you don't like douching so, but accept that you need to douche so, what can you do to make douching easier/ quicker?
b) you arse is tight - how can you relax that ?

if that's correct - as above - douching is douching. Its gonna take a min and - as described, you really have two options broadly speaking. Full douche which takes ages and is messy. Quick douche.
there's no magic to either - quick douche doesn't take much time and is effective for a regular fuck. There's a post linking to a site that covers both - beyond that - I don't really know what to say.

as for relaxing your arse - also no magic but coming from a guy who used to have trouble in this regard as well I'd say - buy yourself some practice butt plugs that come in different sizes and work your way up.
Most of the problem for me was the invasive feeling of having something up your arse and clenching down on it given your body automatically treats it like its trying to keep a pooh in .. which is the last thing you want.
once you get used to the sensation and get over that automatic response to tighten up - you will better learn to focus on relaxing that specific sphincter muscle - use larger butt plugs - leave one in for a while till you get used to it - use plenty of lube and focus on the muscle you need to relax

 

[Solotwink]

Thanks for the advices that helped a bit
it was most likely option A but not quite, i cant really put words on what it is exactly i’ll try to find the post about the quick douche ( mostly interested on this one)

thank you it helps

 

[jaybee0560]

Thanks for the advices that helped a bit
it was most likely option A but not quite, i cant really put words on what it is exactly i’ll try to find the post about the quick douche ( mostly interested on this one)

thank you it helps

The post is three posts down from the OP - by LPSG Simon - he posted an article on how to douche properly

 

[singitback]

nice post! thanks for sharing

 

[taylormr1992]

Okay I need advice from experienced bottoms and I can’t find my answer on any sites or forums lol How many times should you be douching prior to bottoming? Most sites say until water is clear, however, if you douche too much in a given sitting is that bad?

 

[jaybee0560]

Okay I need advice from experienced bottoms and I can’t find my answer on any sites or forums lol How many times should you be douching prior to bottoming? Most sites say until water is clear, however, if you douche too much in a given sitting is that bad?

Dude - if I am understanding you correctly, this has been explained pretty robustly on this thread.
You always douche till the water runs clear - There is no set number of "times" - its clean when its clean.
If you douche too "aggressively" as in - go for a quick douche but end up putting too much water in - you will then need to go for a full douche given the water would have gone too far up and now - you're not just cleaning your rectum - but - the rest as well

 

[Luke42]

Hi everyone!
Can anyone tell me how to get clean without douching? I tried it many times in different contexts (over many years) but I never got it properly clean and, additionally, water getting in and out just makes everything kind of irritated giving me also belly pain. I don’t make myself many problems if it’s not clean but also sometimes it’s impossible for me to enjoy because it gets too messy. My partner doesn’t care that much fortunately but for me it has started to be a big turn off as I love to change positions and get very active in my bottoming. It’s rather sad because many times I get quite horny and then the thought of “I’m not clean” or “I have to go to the bathroom but I can’t do it on command” literally kills all the vibe in me.
Thank you all in advance

 

[LPSG Simon]

Hi everyone!
Can anyone tell me how to get clean without douching? I tried it many times in different contexts (over many years) but I never got it properly clean and, additionally, water getting in and out just makes everything kind of irritated giving me also belly pain. I don’t make myself many problems if it’s not clean but also sometimes it’s impossible for me to enjoy because it gets too messy. My partner doesn’t care that much fortunately but for me it has started to be a big turn off as I love to change positions and get very active in my bottoming. It’s rather sad because many times I get quite horny and then the thought of “I’m not clean” or “I have to go to the bathroom but I can’t do it on command” literally kills all the vibe in me.
Thank you all in advance

Check this stuff out:

https://www.pureformen.com

 

[Guysandmaybebirds]

I usually use the shower method which is fine, use the toilet tho as it’s grim letting go in the shower. The end of the day your fucking someone’s butthole accidents do happen.