Dylan o'brien

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I don't think Dylan is a bad person, and I can't 100 percent say the interview story was true but I personally believe it. It sounds like from his end he was pushed to do it despite not wanting to and the whole thing sounded poorly organized. I could see why he was agitated but I feel bad for the interviewer cuz she was doing her job. For him to insult her career is a low blow and really mean and you can see how personally affected she was by the experience. I think yeah we should definitely be considerate of the circumstances especially regarding his accident and how that has affected his mental health as well as his general schedule but I just hope he at least apologized to her in private. She really did not deserve that from him.
I am on both sides on this. Dylan didn’t have to be mean to her because ultimately it wasn’t her fault that he was forced to do an interview he didn’t want to do and it was rude of him to take it ok her when he finally agreed to do it. But also I think a lot of people don’t take into consideration the other’s point of view when something like this happens. It’s not like he’s a bad person of too entitled to act in a decent way or something. It’s just that the conditions of his job and how the studio manages meetings, interviews, filming schedules and stuff like that may not be the best and it affects his mood and energy to do certain stuff. I mean, he has a problem with doing interviews all by himself because of his anxiety and/or because how exhausted he is (it shows when you compare the interviews when he’s alone to the interviews in which he is with other members of the cast) and people should remember that celebrities are humans too that can have a dad day, be tired, not being in the mood to do something.
 
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I am on both sides on this. Dylan didn’t have to be mean to her because ultimately it wasn’t her fault that he was forced to do an interview he didn’t want to do and it was rude of him to take it ok her when he finally agreed to do it. But also I think a lot of people don’t take into consideration the other’s point of view when something like this happens. It’s not like he’s a bad person of too entitled to act in a decent way or something. It’s just that the conditions of his job and how the studio manages meetings, interviews, filming schedules and stuff like that may not be the best and it affects his mood and energy to do certain stuff. I mean, he has a problem with doing interviews all by himself because of his anxiety and/or because how exhausted he is (it shows when you compare the interviews when he’s alone to the interviews in which he is with other members of the cast) and people should remember that celebrities are humans too that can have a dad day, be tired, not being in the mood to do something.
From the sound of it this is not the first time he has gotten snappy with people. The person who posted the twitter thread said they met Dylan and overall he was was very kind and pleasant but that at one moment he snapped at them and the person was very taken aback. I don't know if he was having a bad day then but if it is more than once than he is behaving that way I feel like he really might be struggling mental health wise. I don't think he is in the best place if he is lashing out at people on more than one occasion. I hope he learns to better cope with everything. Idk if he got a TBI from the accident but depending on the severity of the accident TBI can really affect someone's personality. Idk but I hope he is ok.
 
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Here is the tweet. They said they met Dylan last year so it would have been post accident. They talk about it below the videos.
https://twitter.com/cosimastattoo/status/1308271062375829504?s=19
Is that not the same exact thing that was just posted above? I like to stay in the realm of not speculating what may be going on with someone.
Also if I’m being completely honest, after watching all of those videos she posted it sounds to me like it was just a bad situation for everyone. I understand both sides but in some ways if you’re a journalist, you’ve gotta read the room and have a bit thicker skin. Not saying it’s ok to snap at people but we’ve all been tired and less than patient.
 
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To be honest this doesn't surprise me. I am glad his sister said something and gave examples of what exactly her brother and other actors go through for a role. Most people think that acting is just getting in front of the camera and saying lines ala The West Wing, The Practice, or Law and Order. Some people don't even consider it a job. The truth is shooting schedules are grueling and brutal by nature. It is VERY RARE that a movie or TV episode shoots last more than 2-3 weeks.

Most TV episodes are shot over the course of a week with actors getting a script on Sunday, learning their lines on Sunday and Monday, rehearsing Tuesday and Wednesday and shooting Thursday and Friday and Saturday. And that is not including stunt/fighting rehearsal, makeup, costuming, and prosthetic fitting, and a bunch of other things that they have to do for the show.

The Lord of the Rings Trilogy and Avengers: Infinity War/Endgame are some examples of movies that took months to years to shoot. While in terms of TV the Arrowverse/Berlantiverse crossovers are the projects that come to mind when it comes to longer shoot times. If you want a good example of the type of toll an actor can face due to the shooting schedule of a TV show or movie I recommend you look up what happened to Stephen Amell after he finished Arrow and before he went on to Heels. It shed some much needed light on what actors can experience while working on a show or movie.
 
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Honestly i don't feel any sympathy towards the 2 women he snapped at. Like have you never had someone be rude to you in your entire life til now? Get over it you damn marshmallows jeez lol, no one on this earth is obligated to give a fuck about your feelings. Sorry not sorry
 

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Yeah, the faux outrage on Twitter is so tiresome. I don't believe Dylan's a bad guy in the slightest. I don't care if he was rude to some lady one time. We've all been rude to people at work before, especially when we're stressed, tired and impatient. It happens. The clowns on Twitter trying to cancel him and saying "Oh I'm not surprised at all, I always knew he was an asshole"... BITCH, WHAT?! Lmao. He's literally one of the sweetest guys out there, constantly pushing for good causes on Twitter and speaking against ACTUAL bullies and assholes. Plus, he's a fantastic actor and cute as hell. Can't wait to see his new movie and hopefully he gets more big movie roles in the future because he deserves it.
 

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So he has two movies coming out. Love and Monsters and The Education of Fredrick Fitzell. Both not necessarily something I would watch, but because I like him and I support him I’ll watch them. Looks like he may even have shirtless moments in both movies

love and monsters:
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The education a Frederick Fitzell
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So he has two movies coming out. Love and Monsters and The Education of Fredrick Fitzell. Both not necessarily something I would watch, but because I like him and I support him I’ll watch them. Looks like he may even have shirtless moments in both movies

love and monsters:
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The education a Frederick Fitzell
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Where u find these pics?
 

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So he has two movies coming out. Love and Monsters and The Education of Fredrick Fitzell. Both not necessarily something I would watch, but because I like him and I support him I’ll watch them. Looks like he may even have shirtless moments in both movies

love and monsters:
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The education a Frederick Fitzell
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I wonder if he gets a nude scene on any of those movies.