Embarrassing Situation.

[helgaleena]

My question is.Do young lesbians have the same problems with erect nipples or clits?Surely that's not cool in the ladys room!:biggrin1:

Ladies rooms do not have urinals. It's all stalls. The reason is we can't pee standing up. Unisex squat-hole bathrooms are horrid from all the splatter and not found much in USA.

We have the opposite problem from this, which is that there never seem to be enough stalls for the huge crowds at intermission. I have had to sneak into a mens room to use a stall in there sometimes. I blame architects. They never put in enough facilities for the ladies.

 

[MalakingTiti]

Why does it have to be that someone is a "homophobe" if they are put off by the fact that some dude is standing around at the urinal NOT PISSING, sporting a hard on? Lets put this into perspective. Would it be homophobia to be disturbed about a guy sitting around on the subway rubbing his bulge? The way I see it, its about the same, and perhaps worse since the bathroom is a specific place where guys go to pee and shit.

When I'm taking a leak in a public restroom I don't make it habit of checking to see if the guy next to me is hard. However, if I did happen to notice that some asshole was standing around piss-less and erect, I might also draw the reasonable conclusion that he's a fucking weirdo who only came in to grab a cheap thrill, which I would not like.

 

[sexyy1010]

thats excatly the sitaution i want to avoid.

I dont want a cheap thrill.

I want to piss, but i just cant seem to.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

a cheap thrill, which I would not like.

If jerking off in a public urinal or bathroom stall is out of order, let's just say a lot of people have given offense. I agree it's not necessarily appropriate, yet people are sometimes away from home or at work when they want a sexual release. Discretion is appropriate. If you ever see this--not likely--I don't think I have ever seen someone with a full hard dick just standing at a urinal--but perhaps you will think of the OP and realization will dawn that there possibly could be a reason other than to give you offense.

 

[tonster]

Never a boner in the bathroom, or even with dudes, but I did pop one with my female doctor at physical.

Popped a rock hard at a physical when i was 14. The nurse walked out, they worked me though it. Good thing it was a female doctor. She prolly felt as bad about it as I did, she had to pull it out of the way so she could do the turn and cough routine. I blushed but she said it was normal. Nothing crazy, just normal teenage hormones.

 

[sexplease]

Stand at the urinal.
Take a deep breath, exhale and relax.
Focus on a single point in your mind and close out everything else.

Now relax your bladder and piss away.

If you can, find a friend who will stand at your bathroom mirror while you practice relaxing and focusing and peeing at home. Then take them to a public toilet and practice.

 

[sleepiboi]

I am very nervous at the urinal because of my size since I am a grower, and I turn a certain way to hide myself. Only thing in ur situation is that they are looking at ur package also so how can they be like "you sick fuck" when they are looking over peeping your peter???? Could always flip it on them

 

[greekgott]

If these men have never had or seen a hardon that that is really pathetic. Besides I wonder why men react this way to their own body. I find it unfathomable.

 

[the_reverend]

Why does it have to be that someone is a "homophobe" if they are put off by the fact that some dude is standing around at the urinal NOT PISSING, sporting a hard on? Lets put this into perspective. Would it be homophobia to be disturbed about a guy sitting around on the subway rubbing his bulge? The way I see it, its about the same, and perhaps worse since the bathroom is a specific place where guys go to pee and shit.

When I'm taking a leak in a public restroom I don't make it habit of checking to see if the guy next to me is hard. However, if I did happen to notice that some asshole was standing around piss-less and erect, I might also draw the reasonable conclusion that he's a fucking weirdo who only came in to grab a cheap thrill, which I would not like.

there IS a bit of a difference between a guy rubbing one out at a urinal while looking at other guys' dicks and a guy who's just standing there, eyes forward (as should be the custom, so i don't know why these other guys are looking over at his dick in the first place...), trying to pee and happens to have an erection that he's not doing ANYTHING with. to elicit such a strong reaction to a totally benign erection, something that happens to ALL of us at one time or another, does seem to indicate some level of homophobia. and given they're the ones glancing over and reacting so extremely, it's probably springing from some latency issues of their own. :tongue: