Erection concerns...

I do jelqs daily..or at least try..and my erections don't stay hard long enough for kegals, i read about kegals else where and already tried it

Since when do you need an erection to do kegels?

I do 'em all the time when I'm not hard. Always gives me at least a little lift.
 
OK so Sunday I started taking Horny goat weed along with ginko and increasing my dosage of L-Arginine, It has been 4 days since i have last jacked off and/or came, And the only thing i can tell is a slight increase in morning wood (its there just not full hard-on and still very short lived), extreme headaches for the past two days and stomach issues...any thoughts?
 
to Fuzzykitten:
yes, the injections do work,,, I had them for several years. but then the drug companies got into an argument about the mixture and it was taken off the market.
worked wonders for my after TURP. In fact I was better able for sex than any time in my life,, could go an hour.
I would like to know modern sources...
 
I guess everything everyone has said here is valid, but maybe you just don't get enough sexual stimuli in you life. maybe you have gotten bored with internet/video-visual stimulation. I think it can get a bit stale. What turns you on? have you tried just turning off the lights, naked in bed, rubbing your nipples and turning on you asshole with some gentle stimulation and letting your biggest sex organ (your brain) go free? You may be surprised at the intense sexual thoughts and feelings that come into your head. Walk around in the world and have a sexual thought about every person who passes by... they feel it and you will feel that energy back. There's nothing wrong with you. Just change it up a bit an listen to what turns you on without having to respond to everything with a hard on...
 
It could also potentially be an issue around masturbation - more specifically how you masturbate. I had similar issues not so long ago and I was able to get to the root of the problem - masturbating to pass time/because I like it, rather than as a release because I was overly horny.

Also, once you are aware of the problem it is really easy to have this on your mind when you are wanting to be able to perform. My advice is to listen to doctors (and not well-meaning posters who may not share your condition), and try to relax - stress can be a powerful thing.

Also, take a look at this : How to cure masturbation death grip - I found it an interesting read and it potentially has some good advice.

Hope things get better for you.
 
Younger folks <21 with ED is a serious urological problem.


Not Necessarily. There are many external contributors as well as internal.
Stress, Anxiety, Lack of Interest, High Blood Sugar, etc all contribute.

I would stop taking all the magic potions and give your liver a rest.

Check into Free health clinics in your area. Most of them probably think you just want to try Viagra or Levitra.... Stay away from all of that shit.

Seriously - check your area for free Health Clinics... They are there to help people that don't have money or insurance!! At least you'll know what's wrong if nothing else.

Be upfront - tell them that your not getting a full erection and your not sure why. Tell them that you DO NOT want any of the recreational drugs for it either. Tell them you want to know WHY its happening.

But my dollars would be on an External input. Stress or Possibly High Blood sugar, or Low testosterone.
(Low testosterone can also come from stress.)

I also have the same condition, but I know it's from:
1. Low Testosterone
2. Stress that will soon kill me.
3. Lack of Interest from Severe Depression
4. Boredom with all the porn
5. High Blood Sugar

But...if I had a cutie like you here.... We'd work on it!
 
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