erection issues....

[HairyTXdude]

I've never really been able to get rock hard but hard none the less, but three days ago everytime i jacked off I orgasmed but never came,and yesterday I noticed that no matter how hard i tried i could never it it past half mast, even getting there took alot of work..this morning I didn't even have morning wood.... is something wrong? :frown1:

 

[berttwins]

At 19 I'd say you should see your doctor. If you haven't taken any medication, got plenty of rest, and are properly hydrated, and not stressed out. Better to be safe. After all you have many years to use that cock. You want it to function to the max. Hopeing you get a boner!

 

[D_Vita_Mee_Tavegamin]

I agree - go check in with a Family Practice doc that you trust.

 

[HairyTXdude]

drat, i was kinda hoping for a answer that didn't involve a trip to the doctor..ya see i cant drive and there are know men in my family besides me to take me and theres no chance ima tell my mother my junk don't work...

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

Best thing to do is seeing the doctor, we can't help, only giving the advice of seeing your doctor! Don't be ashamed!

 

[HairyTXdude]

So i ended up telling my mom and she said "I'm not taking you to the doctor for that! You have no reason at your age be be worried about getting it up or not, you have know use for it!!" then she walked away :grumble: (i blame the women in my family for the reason of me being gay!) ...so i guess i'll just deal... :dot:

 

[D_ShiaLeTubeSteak]

this will sound mad, but sometimes it's a lack of sugar or glucose in your system. I do A level biology ... We studied very odd things!!

 

[vince]

Your mom sounds mean! :tongue: Take the bus, ride your horse or hitchhike. I agree a visit to the doctor is in order if you are 19. You should be having trouble keeping it down, not getting it up! :smile:

 

[HairyTXdude]

My mom is mean and I have to uses her insurance too..so going without her permission would probably get me kicked out likes shes done in the past...:banghead2: ...i had a distance uncle take me once without her knowing and she found out and she made us cut all contact with each other..haven't heard from him since...

 

[luchoarg]

Hey. I wouldn´t hurry and worry that much. Surely, there is not anything fisically wrong with your body (providing you´re not taking any medication). Most probably you`re worried about something or a little depressed. Just give it some days. Try to sleep well, drink a lot of water and DO NO GET OBSESSED for this issue.
You´ll get well sooner than you think

 

[HellsKitchenmanNYC]

If this is true you need to see a doctor. Is there perhaps a free clinic wherever you live. ou'r family sounds dysfunctional but trust me the women in yr family didn't TURN you gay.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Go to the Post Office and buy part of a roll of stamps. Put them around your dick before you got to bed. (You know, overlap the ends and lick and stick.) Check and see if they are broken in the morning. More than likely there is nothing wrong. If your dick works at night - we all get several erections every night, then there is nothing wrong. You just need a short hiatus from porn maybe. Good luck.

 

[Pecker]

I thought we were supposed to talk about the erection in the Politics forum.

 

[Rikter8]

1. Move out
2. Get an automobile and start driving
3. Erection problems will likely resolve themselves after the stresses of home are solved.
4. If all else fails - FUCK HER. It's YOUR health and its NONE of her business.
Just because you have HER insurance, doesn't mean she has to know what is going on.
Go anyway. Get a Taxi and go.

Sorry buddy...but if your own mother wont take you to the doctor, then she isn't looking out for your best interests.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

are you in college? if so use the college's health facilities...your tuition should pay for that. Also, you could go to the health department. Not the first choice for many but at least you'd get some idea of what could be wrong if anything. Sometimes stress, diet, excessive jerking off...or even just being physically exhausted can cause a case of the softies.

and pecker....I don't think we've had an erection in politics since Clinton. God love him! at least he admitted *eventually* to being a horn dog. hahaha

 

[suprdave]

if you know your dr.s name and number, give him a call. ask to speak to the dr and tell him whats going on. just a quick description of the problem and ask him if its something to be concerned about, ask if its ok to wait a few days/weeks to see if it gets better. if he has a concern he will tell you to get in to see him then do what you have to to get in to see him.

if that wont work there are alot of sites on the internet where you can look it up, even dr.s you can email. good luck, things will work out

 

[HairyTXdude]

suprdave..she watches who i call :frown1:

well, just to update, I was able to get a erection(more like a lil bigger semi) but it was shorted lived, it went down a couple minutes later...

 

[D_Vita_Mee_Tavegamin]

How much pot are you smoking man? Pot can put the kill on erections for a decent amount of people? You still horny like normal? Feel free to email me for qs.

 

[FuzzyKen]

There is a great deal we do not know here and I am saddened that your Mother feels or denies you medical care in the manner in which she does.

This does not in any manner sound like a healthy Mother-Son relationship. If you are in school you may have the ability to get some counseling and those individuals may be able to help you receive medical care. If you are not in school you need to start looking towards your own future.

The following things can absolutely kill an erection. #1 is stress. #2 is alcohol in any form and with alcohol the ED may become permanent if you do not care for it properly and quit the booze. #3 is recreational and some prescription drugs. Many anti-depressants will totally destroy your ability to obtain and maintain an erection. At 19 this is unlikely, but, blood pressure drugs will kill it too.

When we reside in very high pressure and unhappy circumstances it is easy to try to kill the pain of the day to day with a chemical solution. It may be a a few too many beers or some herb or some other thing that calms. Unfortunately it all has a price.

You are now 19-years-old. You are old enough to vote and old enough to die for your country. You are old enough to execute a contract and have it be legally binding and you are old enough to begin to make decisions in your life. You need to begin the process of moving to a healthier and more nurturing environment. It may take you some time to do this, but, it needs to be in a healthy way and the parting between you and your Mom has to be done properly and not with contempt or animosity.

Good Luck.

 

[HairyTXdude]

Well, i just found out that it my xray cost $500 my catscan 800, blood work 100, and that was for sinuses issues i've been having, and my blood work came back abnormal so they think i might have a pituitary tumor or cushings.... and my moms er bill was 500 and surgury was 1100 (she broke her wrist in there places last week) so this maybe why she said she wouldnt take me to the doctor...money issue.....and ya we have insurance this was after insurance...:frown1:

im worried this might be something majorly wrong with my cock...what isn't helping is im still a virgin........:indifferent: