I finally found courage and went to NYJacks this past week after over a year of wanting and trying to go. The promo's basically say that it's a safe space to jerk yourself and be jerked so I was expecting, maybe an intimate setting but different.
There was a line outside to go in into this unlabeled place, as people queue until the door buzzer was pressed from the inside. I was surprised. There was a bigger line inside, guys of all ages, shapes, sizes, colors... from the super tall to the very short, from the corporate to the twink, tattoos, fatty, hairy, horse hung, latino, asian; from Chris Evans beautiful to Vin Diesel beautiful: the whole spectrum.
After the line to pay, you undress and then make a new naked line to check your coats / belongings. Right after, you're good to go and explore. You can sit and watch or merry go around and round and round.
As I watched, I learned a lot about myself. I seem to be from a different planet or space. I consider myself extremely horny. When I think of sex, even walking down the street, I get hard quickly. Here, however, barely a start. Only when I saw someone being jerked about to cum I felt the rush of blood down there but it wasn't enough. I think it has to do with understanding or analyzing that I'm not really that sexual with more than one man around.
The vibe is like going hunting. You stare, you walk.. you make eye contact. Don't say much or nothing at all. You try to touch, guys nicely decline or engage with you. There's a smell of under armpits that can be uncomfortable as its seems some guys like it. (I like it but maybe in the light to medium setting. This was high ultra strong setting.) The floor gets smuggy at times but also the interaction as there is lot's of sweat. It can turn a bit hot around clusters of guys. I don't think anybody cared as most were into getting attention to their dicks. Some where sitting jerking. Some kissing while jerking. Some humping another. Nobody fucked. Nobody sucked.
And so there was I looking... and thinking and analyzing. Trying to understand why I didn't get hard. Why I didn't try looking at dicks and why I felt a bit grossed out and that I was out of place. I had been looking forward to this for so long and yet it wasn't pleasing. But also, what is this side of man sex attitude and desire that I lack or don't feel like I fit into as much as I thought.
So two things: 1. Men are like dogs when it comes to sex with many men. 2. I probably need to go back after jerking for a while and be a horny dog by arrival! Hahaha!
As I walked away from the building, I saw guys running to buzz the door as if they were very late to an important appointment. After all, there were over 80 men in my random birds eye count so, it can be a very satisfying experience.
I gotta say that the staff is the match that lights the hotness! They're the greatest and just for them I shall be back.
So that was my experience. I will update my second trip.