Ex's Brother

[bthegreat]

Today my ex girlfriend's brother instant messaged me. We talk for a while then he started to ask sexual questions. I answered them and he just flat out told me he had a hardon. He's cute, and I've wondered for a while but is it smart for me to do anything about it? His sister, my ex don't know he wants to do anything with me either.

 

[TheWB]

might b best to pass on that one

 

[Cuban]

do you care about ur ex? if not go ahead.... better if it was a one time deal or just a feew... nothing more.

 

[bthegreat]

I really want to, but what if she finds out,, she'll be upset at both of us.

 

[jeff black]

I suppose it depends on if you care about your ex at all, as well as how long the relationship lasted/how long ago it was.

 

[vince]

After looking at your pics, I cans understand why he wants to. :wink:

But yeah, I have to agree with WB, you might want to think twice about it.

 

[Cuban]

make sure she wont... why would she? unless one of u tell her.. you seem eager to do it.. dont wait for later to say "dang, I should have done it" ..

 

[midlifebear]

There's nothing wrong with a guy continuing to have a wholesome, friendly relationship with his ex girl friend's brother. Especially if he's packin' and can cum three or four times when you're "hanging out." Nail it.

 

[CALAMBO]

jump his bones..but be prepared for some fallout...but fuck them if they cannot deal with it...remember it is your life, please yourself first and foremost at this stage in your life, remind him a gentleman never tells.

 

[JMeister]

Definitely go for but have a good answer if either asks who was better.

 

[burlsun279]

I say, go for it... could be a good time!

 

[rbkwp]

How close is yr X to her brother?
Do you think she MAY be putting her brother up to this? (payback)
Do you think this will be a one off or longer term (can you live with a longer term relationship with him?-seeing the Parents etc)
Is it worth the hassle? (just for a bit o sex)

I am somewhat doubtful about it all for you bthgreat
(you Texans seem to have been having a lot of indifferent things happening in the last few weeks--climate change??)..sorry!
enz

 

[bthegreat]

How close is yr X to her brother?
Do you think she MAY be putting her brother up to this? (payback)
Do you think this will be a one off or longer term (can you live with a longer term relationship with him?-seeing the Parents etc)
Is it worth the hassle? (just for a bit o sex)

I am somewhat doubtful about it all for you bthgreat
(you Texans seem to have been having a lot of indifferent things happening in the last few weeks--climate change??)..sorry!
enz

They are very close, but I don't think it would be payback
I think it will be a one or two time thing, lol
I really want it though ;-(

 

[2322]

I really want to, but what if she finds out,, she'll be upset at both of us.

What's she going to do? Break up with you?

You're both adult guys. Do what you want.

Just be sure he's not working with her to determine if you're gay/bi or whatever and they're just leading you on. Make him whip it out first.

 

[rbkwp]

Cheers then matey
THANKs fr replying-appreciated-
(hope its an enoyable many time thing then bthgreat) ha
ALL the best then with yr decision
enz

 

[crescendo69]

My, you do get some interesting offers:

http://www.lpsg.org/117591-what-was-he-doing.html

 

[killerb]

walk away...do not take the bait...

 

[hungcuriousnc]

I say go for it if you two had a good friendship while you dated his sister.

BUT word of caution, make sure it's not a sting operation set up by his sister.

 

[B_Nick8]

What's she going to do? Break up with you?

You're both adult guys. Do what you want.

Just be sure he's not working with her to determine if you're gay/bi or whatever and they're just leading you on. Make him whip it out first.

Jason, I must disrespectfully disagree with you. There is nothing about this scenario that could be considered anything but utterly self-serving, tastless, tactless and totally insensitive. Not to mention without class of any kind whatsoever. Or perhaps the OP thought one of her parents was hot as well; they're adults too.

 

[D_Bob_Crotchitch]

I know of someone who did this and it came back to bite him in the butt. Blood is thicker than your hardon.