I lasted two weeks on FaceBook... This was about 3 years ago. I have a VERY common first and last name. There are over 8,000 people on FB with my same name!
I chose a variation of my name, that I knew friends would know was me, and start "Liking" things and "Friending" actual friends and people that I admire. Right off the bat I got over 100 Friend invites from people who claimed that we went to High School together, (we didn't). Within a week people recognized who I was from associating my comments and Likes and who I had Friended, and then things went haywire. I was getting Friend requests from people I barely knew, didn't know at all, but, worse, people I didn't like at all... Including two former employees that I FIRED, and two former business partners that cost me thousands of dollars to get OUT of a relationship with!
The worst though was when people started IM'ing me on it... I must admit that I did not master the Settings of FB, and I probably could have figured out how to turn it off, but, by that point I was so sick of how much of my time it was taking, I deleted everything that I possibly could, made a "good bye and good luck" comment, ending with "If you are my 'Friend', you know my phone number. Use it."... And, then I changed the language to Serbian, and haven't signed in since.
I had poked around in it long enough to see what it was really about, and long enough to learn how to block a Friend who was sending hundreds of pics of hairy chested men per day, but figured that I didn't need it. I can totally see using FB, even needing it, if you have a project or business to promote, or are an artist, or performer of some sort that needs to promote their work. But, I don't. And, I am online way too much as it is. I think it is terrible that many worthy organizations use FB as there only source of info now a days, and I let them know that. Even worse is when people only use FB, instead of phone calls or email to spread the news about news about friends. I recently found out, word of mouth, about the death and memorial service for an old friend who died three months ago. I called his wife, and several friends about it, and why didn't they let me know? And, all of them said, "It was on my FaceBook."... Like it was MY fault for not hearing about it... Ugh!
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