Failure to blow

[Guschiggins]

Hi, so a girl I've hooked up with a couple times in the past recently gave me a blowjob for the first time. It was fine and all, I was fully hard, but I just didn't come. It went on for a good 10-20 minutes with no success.
At some point she had to go and I finished myself off afterwards, but I'm still wondering:
What was the problem?

 

[silvertriumph2]

It happens sometimes. I have been unable to climax after a long time also, but it
usually was because she/he just was not good at giving BJs....:shrug:
I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[D_Blu_Boy]

Two reasons: Either she wasn't very good or she was good and you just weren't that into it at the time for whatever reason.

 

[Guschiggins]

You're probably right, I think she may not have been very good. Thanks!

 

[D_Czarova Zucchini]

I had a friend who said he never could climax from oral sex.

He couldn't get past the fact that there were TEETH down there! LOL

 

[Guschiggins]

Hahaha, true enough. In this case, though, the problem was not the teeth but most likely the skill level in general.

 

[uncutguy37]

I cant get off from blowjobs, I usually just jack it off while they lick my balls.

 

[Wish-4-8]

I cant get off from blowjobs, I usually just jack it off while they lick my balls.

Same here. It just doesnt happen to some guys. And BJs are still my favorite thing. It pretty normal actually. I used to think something was wrong with me. Watching 80's porn distorted my perception coz it seems every guy cums off a BJ.

If you notice the porn today, I'd say about 1/2 of the guys have to jerk themselves to finish on a girl's face.

 

[B_aNMpumpCOACH]

pornstar material

 

[CUBE]

have her rub deep into your taint while sucking you next time

 

[D_Porthos Porksworde]

My wife has only succeeded in blowing me to cum once. Sometimes the teeth issue comes into play-others I can be hard as a rock but it just doesn't happen. Look at it this way-you can always practice with her and find out what actions work for you. The only problem that gets into my psyche is if my wife equates my not cumming with her not performing well and all that BS that really can ruin a good time. ("Why haven't you cum yet? Is it me?")

 

[Grizzly206]

I've came from a bj once. Have had hundreds, maybe thousands. It just doesn't happen. It's a fun game though, when you tell a women you don't cum from them. I've received some pretty awesome head due to their "dedication" to try to get me off.

 

[Denverbearmark]

I love blow jobs--both getting and giving--but I don't cum from them--I kinda hate it because I know when I suck I love a guy blowing his load in my mouth--so I feel a bit selfish, but just how I am. It also showed me that you can have great sex without getting off and makes for good long play sessions!

 

[pippi]

only with the mouth i never come. maybe if hands are involved and 20min sounds not too long starting at zero.

 

[legna]

only with the mouth i never come. maybe if hands are involved and 20min sounds not too long starting at zero.

There are a number of reasons why you may not have been able to cum from her blowjob. Skill, or lack there of, could have been the reason. Like Pippi, the person blowing me needs to use a good combination of mouth, tongue and hands to get me there. On top of this, as good as it might feel physically, there's got to be something really hot about the person or the situation as well -- call it the need for mental or emotional arousal -- otherwise it may not happen for me.

 

[B_quietguy]

You're probably right, I think she may not have been very good. Thanks!

Before you go around saying she's not good at giving head, ask yourself a few questions. Have you cum every other time with every other partner? Do you cum easily from blowjobs? Were you distracted, stressed, upset, or otherwise just not in the mood that one time?

Let's give her the benefit of the doubt and check out other possible factors before telling everyone she aint that skilled.

 

[singer845]

I have a friend who's straight...but likes to mess around sometimes?....i know....be's BI...but he's not willing to accept that fact...yet...anyways he told me that he can't climax from BJ's I went down on him and he came in less than 5 mins! Girls just don't know how to do what boys like...they don't have a penis! Wanna cum from a bj? FIND A GUY

 

[upone]

Ha! When I saw the title of this thread, I thought, "So no second date," meaning no bj, no second date. I love bjs, I always cum, and if it takes too long, I just grab her head and help her.

 

[the_reverend]

i have never cum from a blowjob in my life...and i still love them. sometimes the journey's better than the destination.

 

[hud01]

I've came from a bj once. Have had hundreds, maybe thousands. It just doesn't happen. It's a fun game though, when you tell a women you don't cum from them. I've received some pretty awesome head due to their "dedication" to try to get me off.

Thousands...yeah right...bs

Maybe those who can't get off from a woman blowing them should try a guy, because I suspect that they are more bi or gay than they want to admit.