As much as I love anal I've never really liked having a man's fingers in my ass or vag. Even if he's perfectly manicured it's almost always scratchy and rarely comfortable.
Tongue and penis only please
I'll give my bf a prostate massage during a blowjob if he asks because I know he'd never ask unless he's cleaned himself out and showered first. I usually don't just spontaneously stick my fingers in someone's butt (unless we're in the shower, and then it's fair game )
I don't really like having my butt fingered. I also don't really like receiving oral sex. If someone I'm with is into ass play and are fastidious with their prep, I have no problem with giving. My nails are long currently, so I would need to wear a glove..
It's all good. Just don't surprise me, and I'll let you know if I think there might be a gross surprise awaiting us within. I wash my butt every time I eliminate, even if I only pee. So rimming is always good to go. But anything penetrative? I eat a lot of fiber and fat, yo.