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What was your first sexual m/m act? How did it make you feel afterwards? How long did take you to actually go thru with it ( meaning how many times did you attempt before actually doing it)? Was it close to home or while you were on a trip? Where you nervous about someone discovering your secret or you didn’t care?
 

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My first was meeting a dude through here and it was just a mutual suck. We were each other's first in the world of M/M. I was thrown by what a cock actually feels like in my mouth, and frankly, the guy's hygiene left something to be desired. His cock was as big as mine though, and I definitely liked that. I didn't feel shame like I thought I might and sometimes had at the time when jerking to gay porn, but it didn't open some new door to making me want to do it a lot more. It was another 3 years before I met with another guy. That guys' cock was small, but he turned me on to another guy whose cock was unlike anything I've ever seen. I couldn't get close to closing my hand around it. With the second guy, I could take the whole thing plus the balls and still carry on a conversation, while the third guy had my mouth stretched to the max and I couldn't get 1/3 of the way down. Frankly, size-wise, the first guy's cock was perfectly sized.

I've still never bottomed, but I really want to change that. I've been using plugs to prepare myself for when the time comes.
 

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I was 28. I fucked a gym buddy after flirting with him. I needed a few drinks to "gain courage" despite the fact that I really wanted to experience it. To my regret, I couldn't get myself to kiss him. After we were done, I convinced myself that it was just curiosity and buried that episode deep down for a few years until I engaged sexually with another man for whom I had developed an emotional attachment. The story was very different then and I eventually came to terms with my sexuality, then proud and then it just became part of my identity.
 

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My first time was 10 years ago. I was 47. I had thought about it since I was a teen. I talked to a guy on another site for about 6 months and told him I wanted to start by sucking a cock. I finally got the chance to travel his way for work so arranged to meet. We met for a drink and decided to go to my room. I was so nervous. When we got in the room I immediately got on my knees and unzipped his pants. I was afraid that if I didn’t just go for it I would change my mind.
 

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It was 1984. I was 22 he was 20. We were college boys. Met him at the hotel where I worked at reception. When he checked in he caught my eyes on the bulge in his spray-on designer jeans. Jordache? I don't remember. Skin tight sweater. Cute butt. Anyway he kept finding reasons to visit the front desk and chat calling on the phone several times. Flaming gay extroverted chatterbox. Irritatingly effeminate. About 5'7 and maybe 135 lbs. He invited me to his room after hours, gave great sloppy wet head then bounced on my sheathed cock until he sprayed hot come all over my chest and belly. I fucked him all over the room and in the shower. Deep into the night. Filled 3-4 condoms.

I wasn't nervous about anyone finding out. We could be sacked for "fraternizing with guests" but no one cared after hours. I had been fucking female patrons after hours for four years at that point. He stayed several nights and wore me down with attention before inviting me to his room. I could not ask him. That was another impeachable offense, lol.

Great runner's body. He looked almost exactly like this guy including the glasses except he had brown hair.

Sere riding dildo and wanking his horse cock
 

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I grew up in the country and there was a lot more going on in the woods and barns than I can say here. We didn't think about getting caught or found out, there was a lot of autonomy and opportunities. I don't think I started feeling shame or guilt until I had women chasing me for monogamous relationships and all that implies. Then I went in the closet with my various natural inclinations.
 

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My first time was 10 years ago. I was 47. I had thought about it since I was a teen. I talked to a guy on another site for about 6 months and told him I wanted to start by sucking a cock. I finally got the chance to travel his way for work so arranged to meet. We met for a drink and decided to go to my room. I was so nervous. When we got in the room I immediately got on my knees and unzipped his pants. I was afraid that if I didn’t just go for it I would change my mind.
Please the rest of the story. Swallow, facial and did you meet again? Any new hook ups?
 

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Please the rest of the story. Swallow, facial and did you meet again? Any new hook ups?
I did swallow. I have met him probably 10 times since then whenever I travel that way for work. He is married and just likes to get sucked and I am fine with that. I have met other guys and started bottoming about 5 years ago
 

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I'd been visiting adult book stores for years...and noticed the 'holes' in a few of the booths, but I assumed it was just so someone can 'watch' the guy in next booth. Honest, that is what I thought. One day I was in booth watching a movie and hard cock came popping in the hole. I freaked out a little and left. A few weeks later I returned to the same store and l put on a video and waited..and a cock popped through again--but this time I decided to stroke it until he came. I will never forget the feeling of his cock warm and feeling each squirt. I did it again many times, but never anything else (no desire to do more)---
 

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I always kinda had the urge to suck cock since I saw my first porn with Peter North when i was very young lol.


Once the internet came around, I was in my early 20s, I started in the chatrooms. would chat with bi guys n couples but would always wuss out, lol. Finally met this older guy in a yahoo chat with a HUGE cock...and turned out he lived like 5 mins from me. after a few weeks of hesitation I couldnt resist anymore, I went over there one morning, we put on some porn and took turns jackin n sucking each other off., It was so hot.

Its not something I do frequently but when Im in the mood its fun. The adult theatres r fun too
 

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I am really enjoying reading all of the responses so far ..................

Being careful not to violate policies regarding age, I can say that when I had my first gay experience my pubes had just finished growing in and I had just started to ejaculate full cum, not just clear fluid.. Back then I could have a "steel hard-on" and "blow gobs of cum" across the room.

We were neighbors and good buddies. He stayed over one night and those encounters continued for a good 6+ years. We had our first b.j,'s and anal together. He was hung like a horse, with a great cut. He was hard to take in both my mouth and ass because of his size.

We never felt guilt. We weren't in love; just great buddies with benefits.

We both moved onto hetero marriages. We still see each other from time to time, however, with both of us having no desire for further encounters.

We weren't exclusive. We both had other encounters. He was having sex with one of the hottest jocks in high school. Ironically, his buddy was dating one of the hottest babes in the school. It was so mind blowing; we all passed each other in the halls, each of us knowing what was going on, but it all seemed "so normal"

I have no regrets about my gay encounters. I was always fully discreet after I was married and only had sex with married men; no emotional connections. Just great buddy sex. I feel that I was lucky to have had both "sides of the story"
 

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I was 19 or 20, in college, and passed out drunk. I was molested by a horny classmate after a night of drinking. He sucked me and tried to get me to suck him. But like I said, I was out.

I knew something had happened to me because I was naked in my bed, and I never slept in the nude in those days.

About a week later he confessed what he did, and he said I would probably press charges. Instead I got horny listening to what he was saying. Weird, I know. But what do you do when your friend says he sucked your cock while you were unconscious? Well, I asked him to do it again while I'm awake. And I returned the favor. A few times, in fact.

I realized then that a cum was a cum regardless of how you got it. Could I have a romantic relationship with him? No way. Not into guys like that, but it was fun playing around.

By the way, we're still friends and keep in touch. But what happened in college stayed in college. He's married with a family, and dredging up the past for a thrill just isn't worth it.

It was the first time I ever saw an erect adult circumcised penis, and he had every right to be proud of it.
 

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I actually detailed my experience in my blog, which I will link to here. Sadly the pic was taken down that is referred to at the end, but I hope the story is enjoyed!

My First Encounter | LPSG
 

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First encounter I was 20 years old, working in a National park. Gay coworker and I went hiking in a distant part of the park, had intended it to be a day trip but ended up staying overnight in employee housing . Didn’t have a change of clothes and both needed a shower. Were in the community bathroom showering in side by side stalls and he kept blatantly peering over the divide to see me naked. Had to share a roll of paper towels to dry off . That experience broke the ice, the next day - after we got back to our location - we were in my employee dorm room, both my roommates were working and we were kind of tired and dazed, lying on my bed. He started caressing me, then his hand made its way down into my jeans.... he ended up sucking me. Within days we were fucking each other. Not a great experience for me which I have highlighted elsewhere.
Long story short, I was cool with leaving things there and continuing being friends after our contracts ended and we went back to our respective universities. He had different ideas and just started pulling psycho shit on me when he got back to school, which - being naive - I took to heart.

After his antics ended up outing our situation to my parents (long story), I didn’t stray off of the straight path for many, many (too many) years...
 

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First encounter I was 20 years old, working in a National park. Gay coworker and I went hiking in a distant part of the park, had intended it to be a day trip but ended up staying overnight in employee housing . Didn’t have a change of clothes and both needed a shower. Were in the community bathroom showering in side by side stalls and he kept blatantly peering over the divide to see me naked. Had to share a roll of paper towels to dry off . That experience broke the ice, the next day - after we got back to our location - we were in my employee dorm room, both my roommates were working and we were kind of tired and dazed, lying on my bed. He started caressing me, then his hand made its way down into my jeans.... he ended up sucking me. Within days we were fucking each other. Not a great experience for me which I have highlighted elsewhere.
Long story short, I was cool with leaving things there and continuing being friends after our contracts ended and we went back to our respective universities. He had different ideas and just started pulling psycho shit on me when he got back to school, which - being naive - I took to heart.

After his antics ended up outing our situation to my parents (long story), I didn’t stray off of the straight path for many, many (too many) years...

That is a sad situation..... there are whackos out there. If he had played it right, you both could have benefited. I have visited gay bars in Toronto and my "gaydar" could zone in on married businessmen exploring while away or just other married men living in Toronto, who were out for a break. I stayed away from anything resembling a "twink"; although very tempting, it was just too risky. Generally they tended to have a lot of baggage at a young age or just to immature emotionally. I wasn't going to be a sugar daddy.
 
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My best friend and me at his parent's cabin in the early 70s. We both had girlfriends and a happy sex life but when showering together in a large shower after an afternoon fishing we compared the length of our hard dicks.
He started stroking my dick and I took his dick in my hand and stroked him. After we got out and dried off we got on a bed and began sucking each other. He sucked my cock first and then I sucked his big dick. He was very thick and pretty long so I became horny and wanted his cum in my mouth. He pulled it out before cumming and sucked me until I blasted a load in his mouth.
After I came he laid back on the bed and I sucked him until be sprayed a huge load in my mouth. I'll always remember my surprise at the force of his cum into my mouth as it was my first.
We continued to suck each other and topped and bottomed for each other many times. He was a great bottom with the ability to take my 7" with no problem. His thickness took me a while to get him all in but was pleasurable in time. After marriages we never played again which I have missed.