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Hi All,
Ive just got into my first relationship (I’m a gay male) with a guy, been seeing eachother for like 2 months and has asked me to be his boyfriend a short while ago.
I’m not sure how my feeling should be towards him, like I’m not completely head over heels for him and not thinking about him 24/7, but when I’m with him I have a really nice time. When I’m not with him, I quite enjoy my own peace (as I have for all of my life) and I feel quite selfish saying that so I’m not sure where I draw the line. Couples early on are completely infatuated with eachother but I don’t feel like that, is that normal or is that not a sign it’ll work?
I’m also struggling to get over my single life, like thinking of other guys, thinking about Grindr hook ups (I don’t want to cheat and I won’t) but I can’t put that stuff behind me… does that mean I’m not ready?
Ive just got into my first relationship (I’m a gay male) with a guy, been seeing eachother for like 2 months and has asked me to be his boyfriend a short while ago.
I’m not sure how my feeling should be towards him, like I’m not completely head over heels for him and not thinking about him 24/7, but when I’m with him I have a really nice time. When I’m not with him, I quite enjoy my own peace (as I have for all of my life) and I feel quite selfish saying that so I’m not sure where I draw the line. Couples early on are completely infatuated with eachother but I don’t feel like that, is that normal or is that not a sign it’ll work?
I’m also struggling to get over my single life, like thinking of other guys, thinking about Grindr hook ups (I don’t want to cheat and I won’t) but I can’t put that stuff behind me… does that mean I’m not ready?