First time experience nerves

[stud2020]

KennF

I agree with everything you said I should do. Especially this part

"Second, you either need to physically or psychologically overcome your 'backing out'. Repeatedly backing out at the last moment is usually a fear response, second guessing yourself and doubting the wisdom of the action, or afraid of the consequences afterwards. From a psych perspective, it is our way of confirming that a situation is new and has some unpredictability to it."

I know for sure this is something I really want. The hurtle is 100% psychological. Physically, I cannot invite someone to my place for discreet reasons. Besides, I never have a problem finding someone that can host.

 

[SillyGayBoy]

Xanax or medication for anxiety would help. I do it as I need it.

Meeting people is not hard in the right place. Not sure craigs list is the right way to go. I have met great people through it, and overly aggressive weirdos.

I got my dick sucked at a mall my first time. I was not scared. I guess others are though.