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If you're single, I would think you might start by playing with dildos and working up in size gradually to determine if opening yourself enough to accept a fist is for you.
Then you practice, practice, practice and hit the internet fisting forums/ social clubs and go for it- just one of many possibilites.
If you're not-
Discuss it with your significant other and gauge their interest and whether or not they'll scale this sexual Everest with you. A willing partner would be ideal but don't be surprised if they're not as enthusiastic as you might hope. Many in relationships must seek out extreme penetration alone because of prudish mates. Your results may vary.
 
NoH8 said:
All the diverse descriptions of fisting in this thread are more or less accurate...
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Agreed.

thickjohnny said:
And how do you start? I mean, I'm interested in learning more but I have no clue how to get started. Who to ask to play with my ass... etc...
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In my own case, I had read about it and didn't believe it was possible, so to find out I tried it on myself. Although I didn't succeed the first time (I couldn't get past the knuckles), I got far enough (4 fingers), that I realized that it probably was possible, and I became somewhat determined to accomplish it.

In terms of the actual "how" of it, I started by inserting one finger and gently massaged my anus, then inserted two fingers when it felt comfortable to do so, and worked up to all 4 fingers. I didn't have any problems until I got to the knuckles. I just couldn't get passed them. I had the good sense not to force the issue, so to speak, but some time later (a few weeks?) I got it in my head to try again. Again, I couldn't get passed the knuckles, but I enjoyed the ass play enough that I continued to do it from time to time, as a semi-regular part of my masturbation routine.

After...oh...several months of this, one day I just sensed that I was ready to go "all the way," so I made a fist and applied firm, steady, yet gentle pressure, and to my pleasure and amazement, my sphincter opened enough, and I was able to insert my fist up to my wrist.

As others have said, the sensation is very similar to what you get from more, um, "conventional" forms of ass play, but much more intense.

Ever since then (going on about 20 years now), self-fisting remains a semi-regular part of my masturbation routine. I would also add that it really helps me relax and is a great stress reliever. I assume that there's some sort of endorphin effect going on.
 
Being in a foreign country I'm not sure how to approach this. I guess I could go on some website and offer my ass. Otherwise I will stick with dildos and work it myself. Honestly, I think it would be much more pleasurable when someone else is working it - just letting go completely to someone else.
 
im afraid of doing it, because our ass will not be the safe after lolol

I have seen someone fisting until the shoulder :O
 
If you're curious to start fisting you'll need to spend some time preparing. You can do this with a partner or alone. Choose dildos or safe objects of 2 or 3 different sizes to work up from small and comfortable to a medium stretch. You're training your sphincter to open instead of close when something is pushed into it. Then once you can do that, using plenty of lube, you begin to train it to open wider than before by slowly upsizing the dildos.

Just relax when you do this. Choose a rhythm that suits you. Any sudden movements will provoke a tightening reflex. Once you've trained for width you can begin to train for deapth. This can be quite enjoyable, but always choose smooth, safe objects with no sharp edges or ridges. About 6 inches inside you will find your second sphincter which is where the fun really starts. It is normally closed, but if you have had an enema or douch beforehand, your bowel will be empty enough for this second ring to open with some training. This leads to the lower intestine which allows another 8 inches of penetration before winding it's way up into your gut.

For those who have been following at home we now have about 14 inches of potential penetration. You will not achieve this for quite a few months. As explained above, you can practice the initial stretching by using your own fingers and eventually your own hand. Other things you can practice are gaping, which involves the conscious control of your sphincter contractions and gripping, by which I mean holding something like a ball or piece of fruit or water inside until you want to release it.

As you can see, up to this point Fisting is not so much about losing control of your muscles but GAINING voluntary control of them.

Socially, fisting is a minority fetish, so don't expect that your partner will like the idea. If your relationship is open however, you may develop a circle of fisting buddies outside your love relationship. Or else your partner may take the chance to learn something new, as well as something new about you and possibly themselves.

In big cities there may be places to meet FF lovers. Otherwise use the Internet. It would be a good idea to look at quite bit of Fisting porn, both commercial and amateur, to first see if you like the whole idea. You'll find amateurs on XTube.com and commercial porn from Fisting Central and Club Inferno as well as other fetish sites like Dickwadd.

Fisting can be very intimate, just between 2 people or else you can hang your ass in a sling in a club for all to use...it's up to you. Some people go through phases when they need a fist and then they don't. Be sure that you want to start FF because after you get good at it, a small to average cock will probably not have the same effect anymore, but that's why we're here on LPSG isn't it?
 
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Is anyone here interested in starting a Fisting group on LPSG? It's possibly a good way for beginners and experienced Fisters to get a conversation started, share tips, stories, links and files. It's not really on topic for a Large Penis site but I thought some members might be interested.

There are other sites more for the dedicated fisting crowd such as XtremeFistMen - 18+ warning! which is great for swapping images and hooking up, but I think the use of forums here is much better for discussions.

Are any moderators able to advise on this?

Reply here if you would be interested in joining such a group.
 
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i am the only one noticing a distinct lack of Bbucko on this thread?
for true, is the reason i clicked on the thread.

if you are interested in fisting, but hesitant to jump right in bottom first, check out the local scene in your area.

established fetish communities often have outreach events. the focus is gathering the tribe and having a great time. there is also a push for education and exploration. investigate events with live demos. bonus you will find heaps of reading material to take home. you might also meet like minded souls interested in mentoring a newbie.

if you are not afraid to cross into girl land, women's leather events are huge on demos. serious, leather dykes LOVE a good old fashion demo.

if ya are not ready to wade in just yet. read. read everything. anatomy books, fisting how-to's. topping books, bottoming books, books focus on power exchange and trust. books on edge play. and most important, first aid books. fisting is not a violent activity, the intent is to cause no harm. but things happen. knowing what to do if play goes bad is vital.
 
OK, so we have some early support, including someone who runs a fisting porn business. Thanks guys and girls. Next question: Should the group be private? i.e. only members can view the contents. Would this encourange or discourage membership and participation?

Orientation question: I imagine that we should encourage both straight and gay, male and female members. I think this helps discussions open up, so to speak. Anyone disagree?
 
I'd like to be a part of the fisting group please! My bf and I are working on getting me loose enough to take his fist. We are getting closer, but no luck yet!
 
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