For those women who were on the pill and then stopped using it...

[Enid]

However, I can temper my drill sergeant mentality with all the diplomacy, tact, and grace of an Officer and Gentleman as well. I do not need to raise my voice to have an argument.

No, but I guess you need to raise your hand.

While I think it was shitty of her to cheat and lie to you, I don't agree with the slapping either. Nor do I think it's a good idea to ruin her (and his) career. It's just mean and petty. Just move on and do well for yourself.