25 years, but the sex wasn't ever that important. (Honestly) we stopped having sex years ago. We both j/o and are fine with it.
After 30 years we still have sex 4to5times a week
We have been together 13 years, and sex has dwindled to nothing. Its very frustrating and breeds suspicion. I often think about playing away, but haven't yet.
I was quite fortunate to marry a girl who understood that concept from the start. We were both wedding-night virgins, but she had seen several failed marriages in her extended family due to sexual problems. She assured me, quite early in our relationship, that her husband would never lack for sex. (As you might guess, that was a rather uncomfortable conversation to have with a girl I was just starting to date!). . . I had to really open up (and I am not like that at all) but I think that is what really made her realize that it was sex or the marriage.
I guess if she would not have responded very positively we probably would both be single now.
It is amazing though that the idea of communication is sometimes never thought about when someone has unfulfilled needs. I guess sometimes it is easier to just wander or build up anger than to have a frank conversation with someone that you are in a relationship with!Talk about it. Been here and we talked about it, and then I had a real talk about it. I explained in detail how much it hurt me when she would turn me down, over and over. I talked honestly about my wandering thoughts. In the end it was the best thing I ever did. I had to really open up (and I am not like that at all) but I think that is what really made her realize that it was sex or the marriage.
I guess if she would not have responded very positively we probably would both be single now.
We have been together 13 years, and sex has dwindled to nothing. Its very frustrating and breeds suspicion. I often think about playing away, but haven't yet.
What was wrong with that guy, I’d been all over you daily!The last 2 years of my marriage. Nothing. Been married 22 years. Separated now.
After 21 years together, 19 married, sex is gone. Haven’t had sex with my wife in 16 months. Prior 5 years was once a month at best. She’s hit early menopause (she’s 43, I’m 50) and says she has zero desire. Add on her chronic pain and anxiety which she refuses to see a medical doc for (she only takes natural supplements recommended by our chiro) and I’m a completely frustrated spouse. When we did have sex she was totally into it, came often and enjoyed it, I like to remember the first five years together when it was multiple times a week and sweat dripping passion.
Absolutely. Communication is key! Those hard conversations do lead to a happier (more sex) life. Especially when things slow down after years of being together. Talking and exploring fetishes together brings sex back, better sex.It is amazing though that the idea of communication is sometimes never thought about when someone has unfulfilled needs. I guess sometimes it is easier to just wander or build up anger than to have a frank conversation with someone that you are in a relationship with!
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