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I've got a buddy that I have been friends with for years. He is a really cool guy, funny, etc. He is straight, but he has always had a fascination with my dick. It is more along the lines of making comments, jokes, etc. Like one time we were tailgating and started talking to a couple of girls. He said something along the lines of "if you don't want to be able to walk tomorrow, this is the guy for you." Sometimes we'll hanging out with some guys watching a game or at a bar or something and he somehow always manages to talk about it in one way or another.

A few times we have just been driving somewhere and he'll say "dude, whip that thing out" or "john, you've gotta see this dude's pecker. go ahead, show him" and want me to pull my dick out right there. I really don't give a damn and I think it can be pretty funny at times and I don't mind whipping it out.

Is it strange for a guy to be that fixated on another dude's dick? I mean, I am not offended by it at all and like I said, it can be pretty funny. Just find it interesting.
 
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I actually think he could be obsessed with it as a bonding situation and not necessarily that he's REALLY interested in it sexually... tho' that's also certainly possible. I find there's this funny place between having emotional connection between guys via "dick-talk" and actual sexual experience or desire. It's complex.
Is your dick really huge, I take it?
 

I wonder just how much of a HINT he has to come up with for you to understand he is interested...??? :biggrin:

He seems to be very secure in his manhood and can easily get away with what he is doing, but to me he comes of as a closeted BI who is trying to get that fact through to you. Have you every thought about having him as a JO buddy?
It could be an even better friendship...with benefits....:shrug:
Good Luck...
 
Jockmaestro, I think you are probably right. It is always real casual. It is never creepy or weird. It comes across more like he is proud for me, if that makes sense.

Yeah, we have seen each other naked countless times (gym, camping, hunting, lake, etc.) He is average, not tiny or big. And I am no porn star, but I am a shower instead of a grower.
 
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I'm a soldier, and, when I was in training, partly through immature but funny antics and partly from glances in, on my way to, or coming from the shower, my 7 roommates got a look at my cock. At first the comments were very subtle, but as time progressed and especially after the aforementioned antics, it got to the point where it seemed like everyone in our platoon knew that I had a large penis. They brought it up in public, in class, shouted in the shower about it once, and just generally made a large fuss over. One of my buds, after seeing my bulge in a pair of jeans (three buds were present and they all asked if I had just finished masturbating or something) went so far as to brush the bulge to see if it was really all me.

Were they fascinated by it? Obviously. Do I think any of them had some sort of self-invested sexual interest in it? No, I don't. Many of them were married or had a girlfriend, and their comments were just that: comments. Arkie, your conclusion is probably a correct one; just as it's possible to have pride in and brag about a friend who lifts an enormous amount, gets lots of girls, or is exceptional in other areas, his fascination with your cock is probably a form of pride in you. I've still yet to understand why the need to act on this pride is present, but it makes sense to me enough as is.
 
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Your buddy is paying you a compliment, albeit in a rather different way. I suggest that you, the next time he mentions it to you again, say "thanks for the compliment, buddy". The way he's done this several times, suggests to me that he's probably curious to know just how big you really are and that his comments may be his way of trying to open up a conversation about it.
 
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Triasco said:
I'm a soldier, and, when I was in training, partly through immature but funny antics and partly from glances in, on my way to, or coming from the shower, my 7 roommates got a look at my cock. At first the comments were very subtle, but as time progressed and especially after the aforementioned antics, it got to the point where it seemed like everyone in our platoon knew that I had a large penis. They brought it up in public, in class, shouted in the shower about it once, and just generally made a large fuss over. One of my buds, after seeing my bulge in a pair of jeans (three buds were present and they all asked if I had just finished masturbating or something) went so far as to brush the bulge to see if it was really all me.

Were they fascinated by it? Obviously. Do I think any of them had some sort of self-invested sexual interest in it? No, I don't. Many of them were married or had a girlfriend, and their comments were just that: comments. Arkie, your conclusion is probably a correct one; just as it's possible to have pride in and brag about a friend who lifts an enormous amount, gets lots of girls, or is exceptional in other areas, his fascination with your cock is probably a form of pride in you. I've still yet to understand why the need to act on this pride is present, but it makes sense to me enough as is.
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This is bang on. It can be completely non-sexual, really a case of envy, your buddy's pride for you, or basic curiosity at something different and, in a way, powerful.

I remember being on basic training and noticing even the straightest of my platoon mates hooting and hollering at our buddy with the huge equipment as he showered. I preferred not to say anything but I certainly admired him from afar. It was pretty funny how embarrassed he seemed to be by the attention, but you knew he was secretly very proud.
 
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This is bang on. It can be completely non-sexual, really a case of envy, your buddy's pride for you, or basic curiosity at something different and, in a way, powerful.

I remember being on basic training and noticing even the straightest of my platoon mates hooting and hollering at our buddy with the huge equipment as he showered. I preferred not to say anything but I certainly admired him from afar. It was pretty funny how embarrassed he seemed to be by the attention, but you knew he was secretly very proud.
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Or he could have just been embarrassed. :D I was extremely embarrassed when they really started putting my endowment in the "spotlight" as it were. But then, basic training is a totally different enviornment from Advanced Individual Training, which is where I came to be noticed.
 
I've been this way with my best bud! It's because I'm average for a black guy and he is the black stereotype: hung and thick. Yes I made jokes and felt him up because of jealousy and curiousity. Since then I've been obsessed with big dicks because I really wished mine was bigger but eventually I made peace with that. Genetics is genetics. It's not gonna change my size. We still joke about him being a "big dicked bastard" lol
 
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I have had that before when I was in college in a frat. Commented not only about size but that I am uncut. Seemed to make to more facinating since all were cut. I did "whip it out" on occasion but I was drunk when that would happen.
 
My Mexican friend is about 5ft 3in with an erect dick of 7.5-8in and probably 5.75in girth, and he don't always show a bulge because of his slim hips and the way his pants hang on him. My black friend who is about 5ft 7in and very average size was being sarcastic toward him. My friend wasn't getting the double meanings. So I just told him, "he is saying your dick is little, show him." He whips it out and the limp dick was bigger than the black guys was hard, and it was like he melted and was filled with awe and fascination. Then because naturally in a non-sexual sense it took the one with a big dick awhile to get hard. So then the black jerk starts criticizing and saying why have all that if you can't get it all hard. Different times people seem to want to criticize the short guy. I can usually tell when they are going to go there. I am a good size guy 5'11, 200. I have huge hands from hard work in my earlier years. I will put my hand out and compare with the short guy. I will even say something like, check out his forearm it is bigger than mine. Then I end with, "he is short, not little." Then that is the end of the conversation. For the more average, my friend is large, but not LPSG large.
 
Yeah I have never taken it in a sexual way from him or any of my other buds. It is definitely more of camaraderie.
 
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Men get fixations on other dudes' dicks, particularly those that are big and beautifully-shaped. It's quite normal and common, even if many don't reveal their interest or fascination with some other dude's. Nothing to do with gay or straight for the average straight men. Look how dudes get all into their favorite studs in porn (often times based on his big fucker). Watch "Boogie Nights", for example.

Interestingly, straight men have more big cock fixations than many gay men for mere jealously or reasons of alpha male competition.
 
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