Gay Bathhouses

I like the Steamworks chain that is in several cities in the US and Canada. I haven't been to all of them, but the ones I have been to are always nice facilities and are kept clean. The one in Chicago has a particularly nice wet area. As demand dictates, the baths in smaller cities tend to be small, plain, and empty.
 
I much prefer bathouses/saunas for finding casual sex over apps and online sources. To sum up the main reasons I like them (as well as any commercial sex venue):

-It saves so much time. One can spend endless hours online chatting on dead end situations. If you also equate time to money, it ultimately is much cheaper as well.
-Body language. When you see someone in person, you can size them up very quickly, not only in terms of looks but also in terms of interaction, body language, and chemistry. You cannot do this on an online profile. And no pics from 10+ years ago!
-Quick escape. If it's not working out, you say thanks and part ways. You don't have a huge investment in terms of time and travel.
-Never getting stood up. Another black hole with apps and online.
-Privacy. No exchange of addresses or phone numbers. No travelling to scary dive homes and no letting strangers into yours. The hook up you met on Grindr will not know that you're out of town either when he sees that you're 1000 miles away. I know one guy whose home was robbed this way.
-Safe sex. Condoms and lube are always on hand in clubs. You can set your own terms regarding safe(r) sex and walk away if it's not your thing. I really find sex venues safer because everyone assumes the worst about STIs.
-Reviews. There are several online sites that have reviews and postings about bathhouses/saunas. You can get an idea what they're like before going or chose the one that best suits what you're seeking. Squirt, cruisingforsex, etc.
-Variety is the spice of life. It's a cross section of society. I end up often surprising myself by whom I meet at saunas. I really don't have a type any more, and I know it when I see it. It's cool because I've played with people of all different backgrounds, nationalities, racial types, social classes, occupational types, ages, physiques, etc. It can be an incredibly liberating experience.
 
I have a question:
Can you just use bathhouses as a hotel room? For example, sometimes when I stay in a new city for 1 or 2 nights but don't want to pay 50+ dollars on a hotel room, is a bathhouse an alternative? I just need a small room to rest and lie down, and noise is not an issue since once tired, I can sleep well even in the most boisterous environment.
 
I have a question:
Can you just use bathhouses as a hotel room? For example, sometimes when I stay in a new city for 1 or 2 nights but don't want to pay 50+ dollars on a hotel room, is a bathhouse an alternative? I just need a small room to rest and lie down, and noise is not an issue since once tired, I can sleep well even in the most boisterous environment.

You can usually rent a room for 6-8 hours depending on the place. If you choose to sleep in it instead of cruising the halls etc that's totally fine and totally up to you.
 
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The best thing to remember is that each and every guy in there has his own preference, his own likes and dislikes, and no means no! You can't take rejection personally. Have a great time and report back and let us know how it went.
 
i'm only interested in gang showers and naked saunas with other men (jacking and touching etc.) what's my best option in NYC?
 
I've been a couple times in the US, and gone to one awesome independent (non-chain) bathhouse in Rome. (bi guy here btw) As far as ones in the States go, make sure you go to a chain like Steamworks Baths, and don't go alone if you have a choice. It's good to have somebody with you if a guy gets too pushy, and its always nice to have a wingman. The Steamworks in Chicago is ridiculously amazing btw, it felt nice and clean, and there were lots of hot guys there when I went. Here's a link to a slideshow of the Chicago location.
 
Club Dallas is great. Sunday afternoon is the best time to play before and after the BBQ they have. Plenty of young studs. I'm an older guy and have had sex there with plenty of young dudes in their 20's. They have a place outside with camo netting and I really get more turned on by having other guys watching me suck, getting sucked and fucking some young stud. Cool place and I have never left without having alot of major sex. Usually 10 or 12 guys in about 4 hours.
 
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Club Dallas is great. Sunday afternoon is the best time to play before and after the BBQ they have. Plenty of young studs. I'm an older guy and have had sex there with plenty of young dudes in their 20's. They have a place outside with camo netting and I really get more turned on by having other guys watching me suck, getting sucked and fucking some young stud. Cool place and I have never left without having alot of major sex. Usually 10 or 12 guys in about 4 hours.

Where is it located and how much does cost to get in?
 
I would be cautious of the dark rooms. You can't see who is fooling around with you. I was in one chatting with someone when a guy came up and slipped his lubed bare cock into my ass (as far as he could get.) I wasn't about to get fucked bare by a stranger. You can't evaluate the person, see whether he has rashes or sores, see whether he appeals to you.
 
Also be cautious with glory holes in saunas and sex clubs. It's not uncommon to have the sucker switch from using their mouth to backing their arse onto your bare cock.

I don't play in any situation where I don't have full visual awareness of the other person and my surroundings.
 
I have always wanted to get in a sling and lay there and get fucked at both ends over and over taking all the cum and piss they could give me. Inside and out. Just a fantasy, I don't think I would do it with all the STD and AIDS, but it would be fun if it were safer.
 
I used to service a lot of glory holes when I was in college at the local book store, but don't anymore. Cant find any anymore either. Where have all the glory holes gone. I have thought about putting one in my shed and advertising on CL with times open but would be afraid the cops would show up and arrest me. Oh well, just a thought.
 
Club Dallas is great. Sunday afternoon is the best time to play before and after the BBQ they have. Plenty of young studs. I'm an older guy and have had sex there with plenty of young dudes in their 20's. They have a place outside with camo netting and I really get more turned on by having other guys watching me suck, getting sucked and fucking some young stud. Cool place and I have never left without having alot of major sex. Usually 10 or 12 guys in about 4 hours.

I used to be a regular at Club Dallas many years ago. It was a very hot place with much scenery. Good to hear that it's still open.

I also went to Midtowne there as well. They had a maze in the back that could get pretty steamy. I remember one time being bent over and fucked while 2 or 3 guys used my mouth in succession. Good times
 
I used to service a lot of glory holes when I was in college at the local book store, but don't anymore. Cant find any anymore either. Where have all the glory holes gone. I have thought about putting one in my shed and advertising on CL with times open but would be afraid the cops would show up and arrest me. Oh well, just a thought.

Many years ago, my college had several glory holes as well and many other places to just stick your cock under the stall partition for a blowjob. Ah, my misspent youth.
 
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