Getting cut, advise needed!
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If you can't really decide, perhaps you could get just the right side cut. You'd still have a foreskin covering the left side of the glans.
That would certaintly get some looks in the locker room !
That would certaintly get some looks in the locker room !
I can't even imagine... if there was a medical reason... but just for a new look? Mine is sorta loose when soft but by the time it's hard it's pulled a lot of the pubic hair skin from around my dick up ON the dick. sure wish I had had a choice.
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made as post yesterday, but system went down :-(
After my full circumcision, I finally came to understand what my obsession was about. I think it was similar to transexuals. They aren't happy with their body and want to have it changed. Burt it was after the fact when I realised I was so much more "myself" with an exposed glans.
For someone without such a desire/obsession/whatever, it is very hard to understand what drives a person to have the surgery to "correct" their body image. But repressing such a desire only leads to it becoming stronger over time.
After my full circumcision, I finally came to understand what my obsession was about. I think it was similar to transexuals. They aren't happy with their body and want to have it changed. Burt it was after the fact when I realised I was so much more "myself" with an exposed glans.
For someone without such a desire/obsession/whatever, it is very hard to understand what drives a person to have the surgery to "correct" their body image. But repressing such a desire only leads to it becoming stronger over time.
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My self image in the back of my mind had me with an exposed glans. When I got the full snip, my body finally matched what my mind had been thinking for so many years. So I was more "myself" in the sense that my body better represented what my brain had wanted.
Is the "look" and "cleaner" really the reason you want to get cut? Are you unhappy with the way it looks or works now? Do you think if you get cut you will have more sex or sex will be better? Do you want to get cut just to be different anWhy do you want to get cut? Are you unhappy with the way your dick looks od draw more attention to yourself?
Wanting to modify your penis is no different than people who have plastic surgery (nose, botox, lipo, etc.) or get tattoos and peircings. If two of your friends had tattoos of got nose jobs would you want to, too? Identifying yourself as part of a group or 'tribe" is fine as long as you truly understand all that goes with it.
Wanting to modify your penis is no different than people who have plastic surgery (nose, botox, lipo, etc.) or get tattoos and peircings. If two of your friends had tattoos of got nose jobs would you want to, too? Identifying yourself as part of a group or 'tribe" is fine as long as you truly understand all that goes with it.
The look of a cut/uncut penis is subjective to each individual. Some think a cut penis looks better, some think ucut looks better. Cleaner? Cut or uncut it is still subject to daily hygene like any other body part.
Getting cut is a bigger decision than getting a tattoo, peircing, or plastic surgery for vainity. It affective a very curcial part of your life. I'm not saying that the wrong choice here is going to ruin the rest of your life. Unless something goes horribly wrong with the proceedure, it won't. Just realize that life after getting cut is going to PHYSICALLY FEEL different. Masturbation will feel different and you will have to adjust your technique. Sex will be different, too. It usually will take more stimulation/friction to get off, which may good or bad. You will loose that gliding effect you feel as your foreskin roles over your head as you thrust in and out of your partner.
I had to get cut at age 30. For me sex was better with a foreskin. Some may disagree, some may not. If you are happy with the way your sex life feels now why take the risk? The foreskin is full of nerves that give pleasure when stimulated, and it keep the head more sensitive, Removing the foreskin may make absolutely no difference other than appearance and appease you choice of stlye. Or, it could improve or lessen your level of pleasure.
You ask foir advice. Here is mine, finally. Don't do it. From my experience cut men are no cleaner than uncut. It is easier to masturbate with a foreskin, and it is easier to masturbate another man who is uncut. After getting cut it was more difficult for me to cum for oral sex. I have found it to be more difficult to get most cut guys to cum from oral sex as opposed to guys who are uncut. I REALLY miss that extra stimulation the foreskin gives as it slides back and forth over the head as you slide in and out of a partner.
Just think long and hard before you do because once you get cut there is no going back! It is not a peircing you can take out or a tattoo you can cover up.
Getting cut is a bigger decision than getting a tattoo, peircing, or plastic surgery for vainity. It affective a very curcial part of your life. I'm not saying that the wrong choice here is going to ruin the rest of your life. Unless something goes horribly wrong with the proceedure, it won't. Just realize that life after getting cut is going to PHYSICALLY FEEL different. Masturbation will feel different and you will have to adjust your technique. Sex will be different, too. It usually will take more stimulation/friction to get off, which may good or bad. You will loose that gliding effect you feel as your foreskin roles over your head as you thrust in and out of your partner.
I had to get cut at age 30. For me sex was better with a foreskin. Some may disagree, some may not. If you are happy with the way your sex life feels now why take the risk? The foreskin is full of nerves that give pleasure when stimulated, and it keep the head more sensitive, Removing the foreskin may make absolutely no difference other than appearance and appease you choice of stlye. Or, it could improve or lessen your level of pleasure.
You ask foir advice. Here is mine, finally. Don't do it. From my experience cut men are no cleaner than uncut. It is easier to masturbate with a foreskin, and it is easier to masturbate another man who is uncut. After getting cut it was more difficult for me to cum for oral sex. I have found it to be more difficult to get most cut guys to cum from oral sex as opposed to guys who are uncut. I REALLY miss that extra stimulation the foreskin gives as it slides back and forth over the head as you slide in and out of a partner.
Just think long and hard before you do because once you get cut there is no going back! It is not a peircing you can take out or a tattoo you can cover up.
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I had a friend years ago who was uncut, but wore his foreskin pulled back all the time. That way he had the best of both worlds. He did say it was "interesting" to get used to it, but he eventually did.
Good luck.
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I have a 42 year old friend, sexually active since high school. He said he has never seen an uncut cock. I am not going to show him mine
I have seen many, many uncut dicks in my lifetime. All but 2 of my friends are uncut. All of my cousins. I never saw a cut cock until I went to college. I have been in lockerooms, steamrooms, bathrooms etc. and seen many uncut cocks of all ages. Nobody that I have had sex with has seemed put off or unfamiliar with foreskin.
Also, if you go on Craigslist or something similar, there are tons of ads of uncut guys of all ages in all regions of the USA. These ads are only representative of a small fraction of the community. They do kind of give you an idea of the state of things. The foreskin in the USA may not be "common" but they are not rare either.
Why would you want to lose half the skin of your dick?
It contains 20,000 exquisitely responsive nerves.
It is the penis' only moving part, and makes sex gentler.
It keeps lubrication in the vagina, instead of the edge of the head pulling it out, with every out stroke.
Take a moment, with an erect penis, and feel around. Don't you get the most sensation out of the inner foreskin and frenulum? Isn't the head a distant third?
When you watch most uncut men masturbate, they are moving the foreskin up over the inner foreskin. They don't even touch the head.
The penis minus the foreskin dries out. The head turns from mucous membrane, like a vagina, or the inside of your mouth, to something more like the skin on your arm.
You might want to read this one, before you consider. It's from a cut guy, who wants universal circumcision, yet has found that his head is calloused.
http://www.lpsg.org/212206-foreskin-question-yeah-another-one.html
It contains 20,000 exquisitely responsive nerves.
It is the penis' only moving part, and makes sex gentler.
It keeps lubrication in the vagina, instead of the edge of the head pulling it out, with every out stroke.
Take a moment, with an erect penis, and feel around. Don't you get the most sensation out of the inner foreskin and frenulum? Isn't the head a distant third?
When you watch most uncut men masturbate, they are moving the foreskin up over the inner foreskin. They don't even touch the head.
The penis minus the foreskin dries out. The head turns from mucous membrane, like a vagina, or the inside of your mouth, to something more like the skin on your arm.
You might want to read this one, before you consider. It's from a cut guy, who wants universal circumcision, yet has found that his head is calloused.
http://www.lpsg.org/212206-foreskin-question-yeah-another-one.html
This is called body dysmorphic disorder. It is the same reason Michael Jackson kept having cosmetic surgery on his nose, until there was almost no nose left.
If you have this disorder, it is best to address it with a competent psychiatrist or psychotherapist, rather than cutting. If not, there is no shortage of guys who are on their fourth circumcision, and worried that not enough was taken off.
