I was thinking a lot about this. About what I’d do for my kids. I’d do a hell of a lot for them. I’d give my organs to them, I’d give my life for them, I literally have given the last dollar in my account to feed them. But I respect them enough to let them succeed or fail on their own. I provided all the tools for them to learn, but if they didn’t want to pick them up - that’s on them. I gave them lots of opportunity to succeed. They need to know success. But they need to know genuine success. And they need to know I’m there if they don’t. I’ll teach them how to deal with failure. I have immense faith in my kids. I believe in them. They amaze me everyday with the adults they are.
How little faith these parents had in their children. How little respect. How poorly they prepared their children for the world. How can these kids believe in themselves when obviously their parents don’t believe in them. They can’t even get into college on their own brain power. The message they get is that they are stupid, unathletic, and someone else is responsible for their success.
I hope these parents see what they’ve done. The damage they’ve done to their children. I doubt it, but I can hope.
Yes, yes, and yes! Thank you for being parents as a primary role—and at all times—first; thank you for doing the job appropriately; and thank you for having the courage and fortitude to accept the responsibilities, challenges, successes and disappointments that come with the job and still take the job head on.This. A thousand times THIS! The best job any parent or guardian can do for his/her child is to teach them the skills necessary to make it in this world. The value of hard work. The value of getting a good education. That you don't get a trophy just for showing up. That, gasp, life ain't fair.
But, if you've done your job, your child will know what he/she needs to do to find their way in this world.
It’s good to see parenting come back. Thank you.