My wife is extremely tight and it was only last year that we finally figured out that my girth is the issue. She is still working with increasing diameters of dildos and vibrators and she has made some progress but she is still not able to take me comfortably vaginally. But she is still working on it and is having some fun with the vibrators.
Girth problems - how do you handle it?
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After one or two babies pass through there a monster penis should be no problem...
Seriously though if it's not possible to warm her up to the point where she can take it (you are dealing with the laws of physics here) you either need to find other activities with her that satisfy you or find another girl where the fit is better.
Perhaps there should be a dating site based on girth and length. Men/Tops put their measurements out there, Women/Bottoms put their range preferences.
Thicknesses range could be pencil to beer can
Length range could be stubbie to kielbasa
Seriously though if it's not possible to warm her up to the point where she can take it (you are dealing with the laws of physics here) you either need to find other activities with her that satisfy you or find another girl where the fit is better.
Perhaps there should be a dating site based on girth and length. Men/Tops put their measurements out there, Women/Bottoms put their range preferences.
Thicknesses range could be pencil to beer can
Length range could be stubbie to kielbasa
Honestly, my experience with the seriously hung was never pleasant at first. After I turned 30, I started trying poppers, and realized they do work. Poppers are chemicals in vials you sniff and breathe momentarily, and then woosh off to higher altitudes for a few minutes. That's how you loosen up and feel less pain getting to the peak of the girth. After that, you can stay grounded and handle the banging. There are some cheap poppers, and some good ones. Make sure, and some don't work for individuals.
MongeyCouple
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Foreplay and excitement are the keys. I'm pretty tight down there, and my man is quite thick, but by the time we're ready to put it in he's gotten me so horny and wet that I stretch to accomodate him without a problem.
I usually finger her with one and then later two and then three fingers to get her opened up. Then I'll start to stretch my fingers slightly inside her, touching her walls and stretching her and smearing her juices everywhere.
Also. I finger her while she uses her magic wand in forplay. I hold my hand palm up and she put the head of the magic wand on her clit against the palm of my hand. I then tap on her g-spot and massage it with vibrating fingers and she usually haves 5-8 orgasms that way before I mount her.
Actually, her inner muscles are spasming then and it's harder to push in. But she's so delerious at that point, I think it all feels good. At least at that point I don't hurt her. Her vagina feels pretty soft and stretchable, and it's certainly slippery enough, after all those orgasms.
But we are every other day lovers at best. I never thought of it ini terms of her hurting the next day, but she's always had a rule about that and now I can understand it from her perspective. When you're that big, a recovery day is required, unfortunately. My wife gets uti's after sex a lot. It seems from other posts here that that is another symptom of a guy being really hung.
Also. I finger her while she uses her magic wand in forplay. I hold my hand palm up and she put the head of the magic wand on her clit against the palm of my hand. I then tap on her g-spot and massage it with vibrating fingers and she usually haves 5-8 orgasms that way before I mount her.
Actually, her inner muscles are spasming then and it's harder to push in. But she's so delerious at that point, I think it all feels good. At least at that point I don't hurt her. Her vagina feels pretty soft and stretchable, and it's certainly slippery enough, after all those orgasms.
But we are every other day lovers at best. I never thought of it ini terms of her hurting the next day, but she's always had a rule about that and now I can understand it from her perspective. When you're that big, a recovery day is required, unfortunately. My wife gets uti's after sex a lot. It seems from other posts here that that is another symptom of a guy being really hung.
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i've only had this problem a few times, and mostly it just came down to taking it slowly at first...letting her get comfortable with it and wet enough where we could both go a bit harder and faster. and of course a quick interlude to go down on her for a bit longer, or play with her clit and whisper dirty nothings in her ear can also do wonders. 
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Babies don't help at all. My wife had two. My wife doesn't complain, but I can see it in her face, and has told me why she has a pained look. Finding another woman is not going to happen.
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