I just discovered that I committed an embarrassing blunder in juggling my "Calboner" identity with my identity in social life. The discovery reminded me not only of how embarrassing it would be for me if the wall that I maintain between the two identities were breached, but also of how easily that could happen. For years I've been telling myself that I spend way too much time on this site, but I am taking this occasion finally to solve the problem by taking myself off it completely. I'm sorry for all the conversations broken off, but it's time.