Unlocked cubicle

[bacontheshoe]

Honestly one of the safest forms of exhibitionism is to go into a public toilet cubicle but don't lock the door and then wait for someone to walk in on you. I actually think this is one of the best ways of showing yourself off that exists.

1. It's safe
You can very easily pretend you just forgot to lock the door or tried but didn't do it properly. He'll feel awkward, but is going to pity you more than anything as it looks like an honest mistake. You are highly unlikely to be reported (unless you do it repeatedly in the same area, then people will catch on).

2. You can control how much to expose easily
You have a moment in the cubicle to figure out what you want them to see. You can sit down with everything on show, tuck your bits away so only your pubes are visible (my most common method, to hide my boner), face away from them with your dick out as if standing to pee, hunch over forward whilst sat so they only see your legs/sides of your ass. You have a lot of control over how you want the scenario to go.

3. You won't accidentally get a woman involved
This isn't a benefit for everyone, but as a gay man I'm really not interested in women seeing me undressed. Men's toilets ensure the viewer will be who I want, and a man is also far less likely to feel unsafe/disgusted as a result of your behaviour, whatever his sexuality.

4. You have the opportunity to role play
You can fake whatever level of humiliation and panic you feel is appropriate for the situation. I sometimes act awkward and timid, other times I have a big reaction- dropped jaw, hands flying to cover myself as I squirm eembarrassedly. I sometimes go undercover and laugh about it casually as if I'm a straight lad. Other forms of exhibitionism lose this, as you either have to take care that nobody actually sees you or behave proudly as there is no doubt that you're getting gratification out of it.

Overall, this is victimless. You get the thrill of exposure to the precise level you want it, but the viewer won't feel violated as it comes across as an embarrassing accident rather than having sexual intent.

If anyone has any stories of them trying this method, please do share them, or try this out if you never have previously.

 

[Tesaodaba]

Omg as crazy as it seems I never thought of that method. I definitely need to check it out. Trying to think how I'd like to be seen, I know for sure I'd be hard just to the idea so I guess showing only my pubes it's out of question hahaha

 

[bacontheshoe]

Yeah depending on how many minutes you have to wait for sometimes I've softened, but I usually have to keep my dick hidden because a throbbing erection kind of gives it away

 

[Cmdm]

Honestly one of the safest forms of exhibitionism is to go into a public toilet cubicle but don't lock the door and then wait for someone to walk in on you. I actually think this is one of the best ways of showing yourself off that exists.

1. It's safe
You can very easily pretend you just forgot to lock the door or tried but didn't do it properly. He'll feel awkward, but is going to pity you more than anything as it looks like an honest mistake. You are highly unlikely to be reported (unless you do it repeatedly in the same area, then people will catch on).

2. You can control how much to expose easily
You have a moment in the cubicle to figure out what you want them to see. You can sit down with everything on show, tuck your bits away so only your pubes are visible (my most common method, to hide my boner), face away from them with your dick out as if standing to pee, hunch over forward whilst sat so they only see your legs/sides of your ass. You have a lot of control over how you want the scenario to go.

3. You won't accidentally get a woman involved
This isn't a benefit for everyone, but as a gay man I'm really not interested in women seeing me undressed. Men's toilets ensure the viewer will be who I want, and a man is also far less likely to feel unsafe/disgusted as a result of your behaviour, whatever his sexuality.

4. You have the opportunity to role play
You can fake whatever level of humiliation and panic you feel is appropriate for the situation. I sometimes act awkward and timid, other times I have a big reaction- dropped jaw, hands flying to cover myself as I squirm eembarrassedly. I sometimes go undercover and laugh about it casually as if I'm a straight lad. Other forms of exhibitionism lose this, as you either have to take care that nobody actually sees you or behave proudly as there is no doubt that you're getting gratification out of it.

Overall, this is victimless. You get the thrill of exposure to the precise level you want it, but the viewer won't feel violated as it comes across as an embarrassing accident rather than having sexual intent.

If anyone has any stories of them trying this method, please do share them, or try this out if you never have previously.

Please don't pretend this is victimless. You are intentionally exposing yourself to people without consent. What if a young child or teen walks in on you? You're describing sexual harassment that's covered as an accident. It's fine to have kinks but don't be a criminal.

 

[bacontheshoe]

Please don't pretend this is victimless. You are intentionally exposing yourself to people without consent. What if a young child or teen walks in on you? You're describing sexual harassment that's covered as an accident. It's fine to have kinks but don't be a criminal.

It's literally no different to locker room exhibitionism, except people see less of your body and for less time. I suppose if youre against exhibitionism in all forms then fine, but its a pretty popular kink people engage with.

 

[Cmdm]

It's literally no different to locker room exhibitionism, except people see less of your body and for less time. I suppose if youre against exhibitionism in all forms then fine, but its a pretty popular kink people engage with.

1. You can avoid looking at a naked person in the gym. You can't when they bait you into walking in on them in a stall

2. My main disagreement was that it's victimless. You may not care about how the other person feels but that doesn't mean they aren't victims.

Exhibition isn't victimless. It's just usually on a low end of inflicted pain and trauma. But there's a reason why public nudity is generally illegal.

Again it's fine to have kinks. But some kinks cross the line or morality and legality. Calling a behavior a kink doesn't make the intentional innocent and consequences harmless. And pretending otherwise is detrimental.

 

[LittleBlade]

Please don't pretend this is victimless. You are intentionally exposing yourself to people without consent. What if a young child or teen walks in on you? You're describing sexual harassment that's covered as an accident. It's fine to have kinks but don't be a criminal.

I'm pretty sure that anyone going into a public toilet where there are urinals should expect to see guys with their cocks out.

 

[Cmdm]

I'm pretty sure that anyone going into a public toilet where there are urinals should expect to see guys with their cocks out.

It's so easy to not to see a dick while going to a public restroom. You just keep your eyes down. This guy is talking about forcing someone unexpectedly to see theirs because it's their kink, that's a different thing.

Again my only point was that it's not victimless.

 

[Caper]

Honestly one of the safest forms of exhibitionism is to go into a public toilet cubicle but don't lock the door and then wait for someone to walk in on you. I actually think this is one of the best ways of showing yourself off that exists.

1. It's safe
You can very easily pretend you just forgot to lock the door or tried but didn't do it properly. He'll feel awkward, but is going to pity you more than anything as it looks like an honest mistake. You are highly unlikely to be reported (unless you do it repeatedly in the same area, then people will catch on).

2. You can control how much to expose easily
You have a moment in the cubicle to figure out what you want them to see. You can sit down with everything on show, tuck your bits away so only your pubes are visible (my most common method, to hide my boner), face away from them with your dick out as if standing to pee, hunch over forward whilst sat so they only see your legs/sides of your ass. You have a lot of control over how you want the scenario to go.

3. You won't accidentally get a woman involved
This isn't a benefit for everyone, but as a gay man I'm really not interested in women seeing me undressed. Men's toilets ensure the viewer will be who I want, and a man is also far less likely to feel unsafe/disgusted as a result of your behaviour, whatever his sexuality.

4. You have the opportunity to role play
You can fake whatever level of humiliation and panic you feel is appropriate for the situation. I sometimes act awkward and timid, other times I have a big reaction- dropped jaw, hands flying to cover myself as I squirm eembarrassedly. I sometimes go undercover and laugh about it casually as if I'm a straight lad. Other forms of exhibitionism lose this, as you either have to take care that nobody actually sees you or behave proudly as there is no doubt that you're getting gratification out of it.

Overall, this is victimless. You get the thrill of exposure to the precise level you want it, but the viewer won't feel violated as it comes across as an embarrassing accident rather than having sexual intent.

If anyone has any stories of them trying this method, please do share them, or try this out if you never have previously.

It took me a while to leave the door unlocked in an adult book store booth… until I mistakenly sat in one without a lock. I took a chance of the door remaining closed and then someone walked in on me… I came so hard. Now I have no problem pulling my dick out in the arcade area either… fucking hot!

 

[bacontheshoe]

1. You can avoid looking at a naked person in the gym. You can't when they bait you into walking in on them in a stall

2. My main disagreement was that it's victimless. You may not care about how the other person feels but that doesn't mean they aren't victims.

Exhibition isn't victimless. It's just usually on a low end of inflicted pain and trauma. But there's a reason why public nudity is generally illegal.

Again it's fine to have kinks. But some kinks cross the line or morality and legality. Calling a behavior a kink doesn't make the intentional innocent and consequences harmless. And pretending otherwise is detrimental.

Whether someone is a victim in this circumstance is dependent on whether or not they feel violated. And as explained, they are highly unlikely to feel violated when as far as they're concerned it's just an embarrassing error. They feel pity/humour generally.

And I live in the UK, and public nudity is not illegal here.

 

[Cmdm]

Whether someone is a victim in this circumstance is dependent on whether or not they feel violated. And as explained, they are highly unlikely to feel violated when as far as they're concerned it's just an embarrassing error. They feel pity/humour generally.

And I live in the UK, and public nudity is not illegal here.

That is of course a terrible definition of what makes someone a victim. Many acts of victimization don't leave the victim feeling violated. Some acts the victims don't even know about the action yet they were harmed. (Think financial crimes).

Conning someone into misunderstanding the situation doesn't negate their victimhood. That's some Bill Cosby type shit.

I looked up the UK laws and found this: Under Section 66 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence to intentionally expose one’s genitals with the intent that someone will see them and experience alarm or distress.

That is LITERALLY what it is describing. They just want the cover of saying it's an accident when it's 100% intentional. That's what makes it a crime and immoral.

Again, people have their kinks and many kinks cross the line. Which is often the entire point.

My only point was to disabuse anyone from thinking this behavior is victimless. I

f you're going to do the kink then own up to the consequences. Don't down play it to make yourself feel better.

 

[bacontheshoe]

That is of course a terrible definition of what makes someone a victim. Many acts of victimization don't leave the victim feeling violated. Some acts the victims don't even know about the action yet they were harmed. (Think financial crimes).

Conning someone into misunderstanding the situation doesn't negate their victimhood. That's some Bill Cosby type shit.

I looked up the UK laws and found this: Under Section 66 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence to intentionally expose one’s genitals with the intent that someone will see them and experience alarm or distress.

That is LITERALLY what it is describing. They just want the cover of saying it's an accident when it's 100% intentional. That's what makes it a crime and immoral.

Again, people have their kinks and many kinks cross the line. Which is often the entire point.

My only point was to disabuse anyone from thinking this behavior is victimless. I

f you're going to do the kink then own up to the consequences. Don't down play it to make yourself feel better.

My point has never been that it is legal, but that it is one of the safest and most morally sound forms of exhibitionism. I still maintain that these people are not actually victims, as the only reason flashing is illegal is because of how it makes others feel. So if they don't feel that negative emotion, then it doesn't really matter. You are correct that it technically is not allowed though. Of course, if you brand all exhibitionism/flashing as immoral then that will apply here, so for your values what youre saying makes sense.

I only brought up the public nudity point because you did first. However, we're discussing public indecency, which is not the same thing.

 

[CrazySexyCool93]

Honestly one of the safest forms of exhibitionism is to go into a public toilet cubicle but don't lock the door and then wait for someone to walk in on you. I actually think this is one of the best ways of showing yourself off that exists.

1. It's safe
You can very easily pretend you just forgot to lock the door or tried but didn't do it properly. He'll feel awkward, but is going to pity you more than anything as it looks like an honest mistake. You are highly unlikely to be reported (unless you do it repeatedly in the same area, then people will catch on).

2. You can control how much to expose easily
You have a moment in the cubicle to figure out what you want them to see. You can sit down with everything on show, tuck your bits away so only your pubes are visible (my most common method, to hide my boner), face away from them with your dick out as if standing to pee, hunch over forward whilst sat so they only see your legs/sides of your ass. You have a lot of control over how you want the scenario to go.

3. You won't accidentally get a woman involved
This isn't a benefit for everyone, but as a gay man I'm really not interested in women seeing me undressed. Men's toilets ensure the viewer will be who I want, and a man is also far less likely to feel unsafe/disgusted as a result of your behaviour, whatever his sexuality.

4. You have the opportunity to role play
You can fake whatever level of humiliation and panic you feel is appropriate for the situation. I sometimes act awkward and timid, other times I have a big reaction- dropped jaw, hands flying to cover myself as I squirm eembarrassedly. I sometimes go undercover and laugh about it casually as if I'm a straight lad. Other forms of exhibitionism lose this, as you either have to take care that nobody actually sees you or behave proudly as there is no doubt that you're getting gratification out of it.

Overall, this is victimless. You get the thrill of exposure to the precise level you want it, but the viewer won't feel violated as it comes across as an embarrassing accident rather than having sexual intent.

If anyone has any stories of them trying this method, please do share them, or try this out if you never have previously.

You stated this as if we have public restrooms made specifically for ADULT men, and that there's no chance of a kid/teen BOY walking in on you and your kink.

Please don't pretend this is victimless. You are intentionally exposing yourself to people without consent. What if a young child or teen walks in on you? You're describing sexual harassment that's covered as an accident. It's fine to have kinks but don't be a criminal.

Exactly. Some of these dudes in here acting obtuse know exactly what you're saying, they don't care and that tells you how they would respond in those "accidents." I remember there was an incident in Florida or Utah, where a kid walked into the restroom with his mother, came out and told him mother that a man was in the bathroom touching himself (which could have meant anything honestly in a restroom), mom notified store, they called the police. He was arrested. Later it was found out that he had been in the restroom for awhile and a few others came forward to say they also saw him, door unlocked, whole nine yards. He served a little time (not a lot of course), did community service and was put on THE REGISTRY!! No f*cking kink is worth being put on a registry...that is if you're not already on it.

I like the kink when its done around like minded people, but there are red lines and all mentioned above is a HUGE red line.

 

[bacontheshoe]

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You stated this as if we have public restrooms made specifically for ADULT men, and that there's no chance of a kid/teen BOY walking in on you and your kink.



Exactly. Some of these dudes in here acting obtuse know exactly what you're saying, they don't care and that tells you how they would respond in those "accidents." I remember there was an incident in Florida or Utah, where a kid walked into the restroom with his mother, came out and told him mother that a man was in the bathroom touching himself (which could have meant anything honestly in a restroom), mom notified store, they called the police. He was arrested. Later it was found out that he had been in the restroom for awhile and a few others came forward to say they also saw him, door unlocked, whole nine yards. He served a little time (not a lot of course), did community service and was put on THE REGISTRY!! No f*cking kink is worth being put on a registry...that is if you're not already on it.

I like the kink when its done around like minded people, but there are red lines and all mentioned above is a HUGE red line.

Chances of a child walking in on me in the club bathroom are very slim. They shouldn't be there anyway. So yes, adult-only bathrooms do exist.

And you've randomly brought masturbation into discussion. I did not advocate for masturbation, because that is clear flashing that will get you in trouble.