WTF?
So I got this free face stuff about a month ago. I decided to try it about a week ago. It makes my face ultra fuckin' smooth and I think soft maybe? I don't know. I think it helps get rid of pimples which is why I decided to try it. But I think its more of a girls type of facial stuff. Anyways, would women find that a turn off? It makes my face feel great to touch! But I figure women like rough and rugged and blah blah!
What you think?
I think your question is inherently flawed. The first thing you should know about women (and people in general) is that each of them is different. Each woman comes from different backgrounds, has different experiences with different men, is biologically different, has different preferences for just as many situations, and differs from everyone else in every other way that influences personality. In other words, to ask if women like smooth skin is like asking if trees bear fruit. Some do, some don't, and for some it depends on the season.
Maybe that's your problem, if you think you have one. You seem to be doing things for this idealized woman on a pedestal, when you should be paying attention to each specific woman and whether you and her get along without forcing anything. You should be trying to make her feel good by feeling good about yourself. There's a reason people keep mentioning this little word called "confidence." It's not magic, or imaginary. It really exists, for anyone with the strength and willpower enough to actually be themselves in public. This isn't to say you have permission to be a dick. Be respectful of other people's ways of life, of their ways of thinking. Maybe you'll even learn something?
So you're slathering your face with this cream shit just to get a woman? Stop it if you are. As soon as you get a woman who does like it, you'll just have to keep it up until you get annoyed and quit. Then she'll be stuck with a guy she really wasn't compatible with (because it's never just about smooth skin). And she'll feel guilty about feeling like she isn't enough, like she isn't pleasing you, that your relationship is in a rut, that she's not sexy enough for you, etc.; and you'll feel like shit and trapped because you don't know how to deal with the situation (because you don't know it's never just about smooth skin). Do you see how being fake for a woman can snowball into disaster for both of you?
Just be yourself already. Find out who you are, what you're limits are, what makes you comfortable and uncomfortable, and start living it. Women generally respond to a guy who isn't deceiving them about the type of person he is, just as men generally respond to women who aren't deceiving them about the type of person she is. As far as smooth skin goes, if you think you'll be a better person for it (and if you want to be a better person), then keep it up. If you think it's too much work, stop. Some women will like it, some won't. You really have no way of knowing, so at least you'll be unburdened by not pretending to be someone else.
Unless your personality entirely consists of being other people... Good luck at any rate! :biggrin1:
