Hate fuck

[ThirstyAndVersatile]

I totally get the term "hate fuck ". I think its possible , absolutely , to have amazing sex with someone you don't like and vice versa. Theres a touch of the forbidden about it. /I've never fucked anyone I hated but I have gottem myself off to the fantasy of fucking them. Like imagining a scenario where you're having a heated argument. and the next moment hes on his back moaning and quivering to my touch and his pre cum is all over me

 

[916416]

So true , and i am one of them . Where do people get the notion that they have the right to judge another's sexual proclivities . As long as said preferences do not involve minors or criminal activity , what does it matter . We all get off in our own way .

I can't stand the attitude of sexual superiority many show on this site. This usually shows up in threads dealing with any "kink" or fetish that others are uncomfortable doing themselves. If it seems like the woman will be degraded (in their opinion), hurt (again in their opinion) or even worse "used" then you generally get people coming out of the woodworks with "OMG that's disturbing" "That's sick" "I don't even know how you get turned on by that" "I think too highly of my partner to do that".

My girl deals with this when sex comes up in conversations and she opens up. Ironically it's generally those who supposedly are for women's empowerment who have an issue with the way she expresses herself sexually since she enjoys being "hate fucked", bdsm games, levels of submission and (from another thread) fucked while she is asleep. She even loves the holy grail of taboos: rape play. She reads through this site and believes it's full of exhibitionists & voyeurs who moonlight as self righteous assholes determining what's allowable or healthy in another person's sex life.

Back on topic: hate fucking is awesome. We enjoy it maybe once a month on average.

 

[916416]

I guess it is the term that throws some of us off. It brings associations to mind of forceful rape, or ducking someone whether they are willing or not. At least to some of us, and I am not saying we are correct! It is a foreign concept to me, but that does not make you wrong if you like it, and both parties are willing, I am all for you enjoying it. It just FEELS to those of us not familiar with it that if one party said "stop", that it would go unheeded. Like I said, not necessarily the case. But to the uninformed like me, it is how it seems. I admit my own lack of understanding.

Thanks for understanding posts like this.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I'm not knocking it, but it's not for me. I'm all for vigorous, rough, passionate play, but if there's anger let's work that out some other way.

 

[905339]

I wouldn't say it was a hate fuck, but when i was with my ex, she wanted to take a "break". That really bothered me but I got over it. Sooner than later she came crawling back apologizing and wanting to get back together. We talked about it and everything was cool. I decided to get a hotel room for us to rekindle (we both didn't have our own spots at the time). We bought a bottle of alcohol, relaxed a bit and then I had to show her who was boss. I gave her the best pounding I've ever gave anyone in my life. She thought I went to do porn while we were on our break. She came multiple times and knocked out for an hour afterwards after I came.

 

[pipedreamer79]

I can see why some people take offense to the phrase "hate fuck", but I get it...

It can be perceived with several different connotations, the first of which that comes to mind for me is that special chemistry that pops up in the middle of a heated argument and then turns into a special breed of make-up sex.

A friend of mine who is gay once told me a story of situation where he (a top) had a chance encounter with one of his ex's that cheated on him and hurt him badly, and his ex was intoxicated during this chance encounter and started flirting with/hitting on my friend, and he decided to go with it--and take out ALL of the pent up resentment and frustration on that dude's ass.

 

[693987]

I like rough, at times violent sex. I enjoy a variety of BDSM/kink things that result in bleeding, bruises, scars, etc. If I -hated- someone, I would not be fucking them. I would be avoiding interacting with them as much as possible.

 

[TheRob]

Sounds like the president elect.
Hate.
Shout.
Fuck.
Terrible

nothing you can do about it ) but whine I guess

 

[TheRob]

I like rough, at times violent sex. I enjoy a variety of BDSM/kink things that result in bleeding, bruises, scars, etc. If I -hated- someone, I would not be fucking them. I would be avoiding interacting with them as much as possible.

none of your logic here, we have the ignorant judgment of white knight wannabees

 

[moparmike]

none of your logic here, we have the ignorant judgment of white knight wannabees

Instead of a smart-ass comment like this, how about going back and rereading some of the same people beginning to understand what is being said. Several of us are getting an education.

 

[petergroot]

I am not a wannabe white knight.
You get off on violent sex that's OK.
I do not.
The question was asked and I answered.
No judgement.
Consentual sex is ok

 

[JackDoff]

Not exactly a hate fuck but the wife sometimes asks me fuck give her a 'no mercy' fucking, usually when she's feeling really freaky and quite often in the ass. She just wants to feel the power of me and to be taken fully rather than the usual sensual love making.