Have you lost....

[Austingal]

.... the ability to masturbate purely using your imagination because you have become so hooked on someone watching you online? And, if you have, don't you think that's sad?

 

[Garox]

u dont like it to watch?

 

[Brisler]

.... the ability to masturbate purely using your imagination because you have become so hooked on someone watching you online? And, if you have, don't you think that's sad?

What world do you live in? Do you think having someone watch you masturbate is that normal?

I could understand if you asked if guys have lost the ability to masturbate without watching porn, but without having someone watch you... Seriously?

But no, I have no interest in people watching me masturbate, I have never had someone watch me masturbate on cam... So no, I have not lost the ability to masturbate without, and I doubt there are many men who have.

 

[Chris1969]

Never tried it but sounds fun.
But i could see it happening as some people get so hooked on porn, then cant do without it, so seems logical if someone got hooked on this, they couldnt do without

 

[TexanStar]

What world do you live in? Do you think having someone watch you masturbate is that normal?

I could understand if you asked if guys have lost the ability to masturbate without watching porn, but without having someone watch you... Seriously?

But no, I have no interest in people watching me masturbate, I have never had someone watch me masturbate on cam... So no, I have not lost the ability to masturbate without, and I doubt there are many men who have.

I would guess she stepped in the chat room and got bombarded with cam requests and this is a reaction post.

To the original question, no, although I do masturbate while viewing porn, I just as often do it in bed by myself with no source of stimulation besides my imagination.

 

[Austingal]

What world do you live in?

Well, since you ask, let me tell you "what world I live in". I live in a world where if I sat here all day I can GUARANTEE you that I would easily get 100 requests to watch someone masturbate. If I did that for 100 days in a row I would easily get the same 100 guys back asking me the same thing again and again even though I had said, very politely, "No thanks" every single time before. Some of these guys would keep coming back to me all day as well (as they do EVERY day) basically BEGGING me to watch them even if only for 2 seconds so that they can cum. And that would apply not just to this site but to ANY site out there which showcases porn and allows people to be members and contact each other. My unshakeable conclusion after a number of years using these sites and this constant experience is that there are not hundreds, not thousands but millions of men who are hooked on being watched masturbating and that they have lost the ability to do it without this taking place. Indeed, have had lots that have basically admitted as much. Perhaps if you had had this experience going back years as well you would understand the force of my question.

So, whilst not quite a "reaction post" as TexanStar says, it is certainly a "based on experience" post.

 

[Austingal]

PS I should also add that I have no issue with people watching or being watched whilst cumming. I just wouldn't want to do it all day or every day. Each to their own, live and let live and all that good stuff.

 

[Hatt_101]

No i have rarely had anyone watch me like it says in my signature im very picky about the who i let watch and i certainly do not need some one to watch me.

 

[elvid]

I live in a world where if I sat here all day I can GUARANTEE you that I would easily get 100 requests to watch someone masturbate. If I did that for 100 days in a row I would easily get the same 100 guys back asking me the same thing again and again even though I had said, very politely, "No thanks" every single time before.

Wow. In some ways, that's amazing. In other ways, it's not. I get the impression that some people see this kind of thing as a numbers game: for every hundred people they ask to watch them, a certain number will agree. Of course, that in itself - that people are prepared to spend so much time sending out messages - says something about the need to be watched that some people have.

That level of persistence sounds annoying. It's not the same thing, but there's another example of unwanted persistence here. Every so often, the "Ask A Straight Man" forum is overrun with gay guys asking questions like, "Do straight guys enjoy *insert some sexual activity that straight guys don't enjoy*?" over and over again. That seems particularly pointless, given that the answer is always no. LOL.

 

[Austingal]

I get the impression that some people see this kind of thing as a numbers game: for every hundred people they ask to watch them, a certain number will agree. Of course, that in itself - that people are prepared to spend so much time sending out messages - says something about the need to be watched that some people have.

I'm sure its all unconscious and unknowing. If these people had the required level of self-awareness they would do something else instead or find a better and more efficient solution than asking over and over again. However, since I've asked my question it occurs to me that probably no guys will own up to this being the case because, once its out in the open, you get a different perspective on it and that motivates action. Or something. But I do think this shows up an opposition. Either imagination or endless asking. If you had the first, you wouldn't need the second very much.

 

[elvid]

I'm sure its all unconscious and unknowing.

I'm not sure it's unconscious or unknowing. If it was conscious, I think it fits in with a common pattern of male behaviour e.g. many men will go out for the evening and start hitting on women randomly (or non-randomly e.g. starting with women they find most attractive) until they find a woman that agrees to go home with them.

Perhaps for people who feel they don't have much choice, casting a wide net and being entirely non-selective is the best strategy, I don't know.

 

[Chris1969]

Maybe they are just exhibitionists? Originally i said never done it and thought might be fun, but then when i think about it, i cant even let my wife watch, even tho she knows and allows me alone time...only one who has ever watched me masturbate is me, and that is rare...cause most of the time my eyes are closed rofl

 

[bigbill810]

I can only remember "performing" on cam one time. Led to a nice sex session the next night. I'm not sure what the draw is having a woman watch me shoot.

I do enjoy watching her play, but I also think the view of an orgasming woman is the most beautiful sight ever.

 

[326807]

Perhaps this phenomena exists because men are unable to expose themselves any where in "real "life.woman regularly get to publically show off their bodies...I myself am an exhibitionist,obviously im not going to whip it out in public!But here i(s a place where the well endowed are supposed to be able to come and share pics,experiences,unfortunatly this site has many,many men who are not only small endowed,but cannot deal with the fact that men 9" and larger exist,when obviously out their there most definitely are..perhaps they are not here...yet the small men here tend to get angry with woman who prefer large,I myself have been harrassed by certain individuals here for simply posting pics of men who actually are hugedouble digit huge...perhaps real,perhaps not...perhaps all penises smaller than 8" should be deleted from our membership? That would weed out the weird SPH guys and the penis envier trolls,leaving the sizequeens for US,!

 

[paraguy]

Waaaaaaay back (2004-2005) I spent a good bit of time masterbsting on webcam. I was trying to make a little extra money and get through the boredom of having a deployed wife. The experience actually turned me off from the (practice? modality?)

My imagination gets the job done, though I also will use written smut, audio stimulation, and video.

 

[TexanStar]

So, whilst not quite a "reaction post" as TexanStar says, it is certainly a "based on experience" post.

Yours is the better way of phrasing it.

I meant that you were probably writing after getting slammed with cam requests, but "reaction post" could sound like there's not thought put into it and it's just reflexive.

 

[Ocine]

No, but I always had bad imagination when it come to masturbate, I can't really focus... also photos are not that good for me, I prefer a video with sound or yeah cam

The only time I used my imagination for masturbate was when I was still in school, I had 2 sexy female friends, we always flirted a bit, so I imagined that I finaly get them

 

[Chrysippus]

.... the ability to masturbate purely using your imagination because you have become so hooked on someone watching you online? And, if you have, don't you think that's sad?

Just the opposite. What I imagine is so much more powerfully sexually stimulating than porn that I never masturbate to porn. The imaginative synaesthetic experienes that I call to mind, what I have seen, smelled, tasted, heard and felt bodywise, and all the things I can recall to fashion into jacking fantasies make porn lame. I make the experience--no one else controls it.

 

[Guy-jin]

No.

 

[Brisler]

Well, since you ask, let me tell you "what world I live in". I live in a world where if I sat here all day I can GUARANTEE you that I would easily get 100 requests to watch someone masturbate. If I did that for 100 days in a row I would easily get the same 100 guys back asking me the same thing again and again even though I had said, very politely, "No thanks" every single time before. Some of these guys would keep coming back to me all day as well (as they do EVERY day) basically BEGGING me to watch them even if only for 2 seconds so that they can cum. And that would apply not just to this site but to ANY site out there which showcases porn and allows people to be members and contact each other. My unshakeable conclusion after a number of years using these sites and this constant experience is that there are not hundreds, not thousands but millions of men who are hooked on being watched masturbating and that they have lost the ability to do it without this taking place. Indeed, have had lots that have basically admitted as much. Perhaps if you had had this experience going back years as well you would understand the force of my question.

So, whilst not quite a "reaction post" as TexanStar says, it is certainly a "based on experience" post.

That world sounds terrible. I don't know how any women put up with that. I would have left long ago.

I took the question as a very broad generalization, and I see that maybe it isn't meant as such. I'm sure there are lots of weirdos that use up all of their spare time to pester women on the internet in various ways, but those are hardly representative of men in general. Since I don't use this site as a means of sexual gratification, I tend to forget that a lot of people do. I realize that this is an appropriate place to ask such questions.

So my answer was on behalf of men in general. I think men who need to be watched in order to even be able to masturbate make up an extremely small amount of the male population. I also think they are very rare on this site. Now, people who like to be watched are probably much more common.