Help needed to spice up my life

[voskosole]

Hey all,

I am a 30yo man who so far has been with women mainly and chickens out to do more things with men. Overall I good looking but quite over the top fearful.

So I have put a goal with myself to spice up my life and become more comfortable with my sexuality. This is where I need your help.

Do you have any advice for that?
For starters, as I am going to a public swimming pool with communal showers, I will try to be more comfortable naked in the showers (currently I am too shy) playing some small games: eg if half of the men in the showers are naked, I have to get naked too. Any other suggestions?

Thank you!

 

[mxguy52]

The way I see it, sexuality (do you mean being bi?) has nothing to do with being able to shower naked in communal showers. I personally find it laughable to see a grown man in the shower who is shy about being naked and putting on underwear beneath the towel. This is more embarrassing than being naked in my opinion. I would expect this kind of behavior from kids, not adults.

So to answer your question, I don't think being more comfortable with your sexuality translates to feel more comfortable being naked around other men in a public setting where it is expected to do so. But if you still feel it might help you, go for it. I just don't think the 2 are related.

Hope this helps

 

[voskosole]

Hey man,
Thanks for your reply.
Maybe yes, but I thought it is a nice good start to feel more comfortable being naked with other men.
Any other suggestions?

 

[theplayerking]

Hey man,
Thanks for your reply.
Maybe yes, but I thought it is a nice good start to feel more comfortable being naked with other men.
Any other suggestions?

There are amazing nude beaches near Barcelona.

 

[scottee928081]

I used to be shy too. Not any more. I gave myself little challenges such as striking up a converstion with the naked guy in the shower opposite and stand facing him.
Now I leave my towel at my locker and choose one furthest from the shower so I have to walk through the lockerroom naked.
Baby steps...just set a small challenge each time you go.

 

[L00k4carl]

Maybe you can start with being comfortable been seen naked on video chats to start so you get used to it going to public places.

Hey all,

I am a 30yo man who so far has been with women mainly and chickens out to do more things with men. Overall I good looking but quite over the top fearful.

So I have put a goal with myself to spice up my life and become more comfortable with my sexuality. This is where I need your help.

Do you have any advice for that?
For starters, as I am going to a public swimming pool with communal showers, I will try to be more comfortable naked in the showers (currently I am too shy) playing some small games: eg if half of the men in the showers are naked, I have to get naked too. Any other suggestions?

Thank you!