Help with teaching gf a lesson

[soarom]

Hello,
My GF told me lastnight that my orgasm was not important for her to enjoy sex. She always comes long before i do.
What can i do in order to hold back hers and hasten mine?
:evil::evil::evil::evil:
Thanks!

 

[stud_hunter]

Hello,
My GF told me lastnight that my orgasm was not important for her to enjoy sex. She always comes long before i do.
What can i do in order to hold back hers and hasten mine?
:evil::evil::evil::evil:
Thanks!

You look like Scott Bakula

 

[happyfeet]

What can i do in order to hold back hers and hasten mine?

Jack off?

Seriously, you can't control another person's orgasm.

Good luck, tho.

 

[soarom]

Aren't there positions in which it'll take her longer to cum?

 

[happyfeet]

You'd have to ask her about that.

It already takes me forever and a day to cum, so I don't research this topic. Maybe someone else will help you out.

 

[Doc]

Well this is simple, just control yourself, and don't go for gold and make her cum. Just as you can control yourself by taking you from the edge, you can stop putting pressure in the right places for her to slow her down. It is a fine art, but you should be able to delay her for as long as you like, and keep her wanting more. At some point she will be so sensitive that you might literally have to read something in between. I know, I do this all the time, and it's a lot of fun, when you finally do let her cum, it will be quite a good one, and she won't forget it for some time.

Normaly nobody really does this to punish someone, instead just to play a game once in a while. But if punishment is what your letting out, then, punish away with the expressed intention of pushing the point, that your orgasms matter too.

 

[Lordpendragon]

Well, if you are serious, you need to research the female orgasm.

My understanding is that women reach a plateau from which they can have many orgasms whilst we go in peaks.

If you want to try to stop her getting there, then you need to stop her reaching the plateau - a lot of men can do this quite easily apparently :smile:

 

[soarom]

Normaly nobody really does this to punish someone, instead just to play a game once in a while. But if punishment is what your letting out, then, punish away with the expressed intention of pushing the point, that your orgasms matter too.

Thank you for your answer Doc. Ofcourse, in this "punishment" i seek to benefit the both of us :smile:.

 

[B_NineInchCock_160IQ]

Why would you want to hold back hers? Haven't you two ever heard of multiple orgasms before?

 

[soarom]

If you want to try to stop her getting there, then you need to stop her reaching the plateau - a lot of men can do this quite easily apparently :smile:

It is my basic assumption that men on this board find this harder to achieve :biggrin1:

 

[AlteredEgo]

This might work. Find something that she likes, which feels good to you. If she gets too close, and you aren't ready yet, suddenly do something else. Anythinng else, as long as you like it.

 

[soarom]

Why would you want to hold back hers? Haven't you two ever heard of multiple orgasms before?

I have, maybe she hadn't

 

[soarom]

This might work. Find something that she likes, which feels good to you. If she gets too close, and you aren't ready yet, suddenly do something else. Anythinng else, as long as you like it.

Thanks AlteredEgo. Hope that will work.:smile:

 

[soarom]

You look like Scott Bakula

I'll just take it as a "study her orgasm and learn how to control it" :biggrin1:

 

[Love-it]

You can hasten your orgasm by getting into her enjoyment of sex and by focusing on the sensations you like, for instance you may like thinking about the sensations the head of your penis experiences sliding back and forth inside her hot, wet and slippery vagina.

 

[carlton10]

she sounds a bit selfish-If u had told her that her orgasm was not important for u to enjoy sex.and u always came and left her unsatisfied .I dont think she would be a gf that long-

 

[soarom]

You can hasten your orgasm by getting into her enjoyment of sex and by focusing on the sensations you like, for instance you may like thinking about the sensations the head of your penis experiences sliding back and forth inside her hot, wet and slippery vagina.

Sounds effective. Thanks!

 

[soarom]

she sounds a bit selfish-If u had told her that her orgasm was not important for u to enjoy sex.and u always came and left her unsatisfied .I dont think she would be a gf that long-

I agree. It was possibly said in the heat of an argument. If i find out she'd really meant that, it'd probably turn me off completely. Sex is all about (well, halfly about) thinking the other person's orgasm.

 

[Lordpendragon]

שָׁלוֹם by the way - how is Tel Aviv, haven't been for a long while - yes Israeli girls are tough - sexy but tough - maybe it's that military service - assuming of course that she is Israeli :smile:

 

[soarom]

שָׁלוֹם by the way - how is Tel Aviv, haven't been for a long while - yes Israeli girls are tough - sexy but tough - maybe it's that military service - assuming of course that she is Israeli :smile:

Shalom :smile:
Tell Aviv is fun, especially now that it's colder. Moved here about a year ago, for the availability of transportation to my University and sex. She is an Israeli, dunno if a typical one. Most of the time we get along just fine.