Hey! Bicurious gay guy here...

I have considered myself gay for most of my life, but around my late 20s I started thinking more about women. I'm looking to chat with guys in a similar situation, and this seems like a good place for that.
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Can speak to this. Was out as gay from the age of 17 until about 40. Was cautiously tiptoeing up to bi until my first sexual experiences with women during the beginning of COVID, and I realized that fit me better as a label.
Cool, I have a feeling that's the way it'll go for me.
 
I was questioning my sexuality in middle school. But in high school I was labelled as gay because of my slight preference for men quicker than you could say anything. And I went with it because at the time it made me feel more comfortable.

But jeez did I struggle with it continuously ever since until I came out as bisexual. In my mid 20's. I'm glad to chat with someone else like me!
 
I was questioning my sexuality in middle school. But in high school I was labelled as gay because of my slight preference for men quicker than you could say anything. And I went with it because at the time it made me feel more comfortable.

But jeez did I struggle with it continuously ever since until I came out as bisexual. In my mid 20's. I'm glad to chat with someone else like me!
I guess I went with it subconsciously, because when I finally asked myself "wait a minute... why do I watch all this straight porn?" it came as a huge shock to me haha.
 
I guess I went with it subconsciously, because when I finally asked myself "wait a minute... why do I watch all this straight porn?" it came as a huge shock to me haha.
I know what you mean. For me, I kept saying and doing sexist things; it wasn't okay. And eventually I asked myself, "wait...why am I behaving like this???" I remember feeling really stupid when it finally hit me.
 
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I guess I went with it subconsciously, because when I finally asked myself "wait a minute... why do I watch all this straight porn?" it came as a huge shock to me haha.
My thing was that after I slept with a trans guy for the first time, I also started fantasizing about m/m/f threesomes....and then the other man disappeared from those fantasies.
 
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I have considered myself gay for most of my life, but around my late 20s I started thinking more about women. I'm looking to chat with guys in a similar situation, and this seems like a good place for that.
Greetings. You have come to the right place. I'm the reverse of you, but it happens to the best of us.
 
I have considered myself gay for most of my life, but around my late 20s I started thinking more about women. I'm looking to chat with guys in a similar situation, and this seems like a good place for that.

It´s happened to me too, I never told anyone. It is ridiculous that I kind of repressed that i'm curious about fucking a woman.

And it's so fucking taboo. I'd like more porn about women seducing gays.
 
Welcome to the site!!

I'm bi but play it straight in my personal life. My eyes lock-on to both male and female. Never had an experience of any kind with a guy, but am open should the right opportunity present itself.

Can be frustrating at times, but for the most part I just go with the flow.