Where do you guys stand on a guy banging a married woman? I’m talking not the husband knowing.
Hooking Up With A Married Woman
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How would you feel if you were the husband?
Pathetic, low, sleazy, piece of shit, selfish....I could go on.
The ways it can go bad far outweigh any "good" ....
You can get beat up or killed.
She can get beat up or killed.
You both can get beat up or killed.
It could ruin a marriage.
You're hurting somebody you don't even know.
You could be hurting kids, if there are any.
Careers/jobs can be impacted.
Reputations can be wrecked.
Possibility of disease.
Possibility of pregnancy & 18 years of shelling out money.
Just to get your dick wet??......
The ways it can go bad far outweigh any "good" ....
You can get beat up or killed.
She can get beat up or killed.
You both can get beat up or killed.
It could ruin a marriage.
You're hurting somebody you don't even know.
You could be hurting kids, if there are any.
Careers/jobs can be impacted.
Reputations can be wrecked.
Possibility of disease.
Possibility of pregnancy & 18 years of shelling out money.
Just to get your dick wet??......
For the record I am asking hypothetically. By no means am I insinuating I’m cool with it. I was just throwing it out there.
You are absolutely correct. A few years back I was in a sexless marriage that was falling apart and somehow a number of younger married women found me desirable and I yielded to temptation with three of them. At first it seemed too good to be true - then the ugly side showed up. One woman was incredibly attractive and I was too stupid to realize (despite being warned by one of the others I fooled around (until her husband got suspicious)) that she was fucking others. That ended badly. But what really made me realize that I shouldn’t be fooling around was when I said I had to go in to work on a Saturday to “catch up” and my 12 yr old daughter commented that I never wore shorts to the office, even on weekends, and asked why i was that day. We tend to be creatures of habit and we do things out of habit that we're not even aware of - and those close to us realize when there’s even a slight deviation from our usual routines. If you cheat, you will give off subtle clues you aren’t even aware of and you will get caught up in a tangle of lies - and those you love the most will get hurt.
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I had sex with a married woman one time. Honestly I didn't know her and certainly didn't know she was married. I met her through a mutual friend who didn't bother to tell me or didn't know himself that she was married.
She tried and tried to hook up with me for several weeks after our initial hook up. Feeding me all kinds of ego boosting comments about how good a fuck I was. How good my cock made her feel. How big my cock was compared to her husband. How full I made her pussy feel.
I found out a couple of days later that she was married. I refused to have anything to do with her. I wouldn't like it if someone had done that to me.
Even though she had some good pussy it wasn't worth it to me to take that kind of chance.
She tried and tried to hook up with me for several weeks after our initial hook up. Feeding me all kinds of ego boosting comments about how good a fuck I was. How good my cock made her feel. How big my cock was compared to her husband. How full I made her pussy feel.
I found out a couple of days later that she was married. I refused to have anything to do with her. I wouldn't like it if someone had done that to me.
Even though she had some good pussy it wasn't worth it to me to take that kind of chance.
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I know a guy who has been with many married women. Turns out he got a few pregnant - but the women told the husbands that it was theirs. As far as I know, they never thought otherwise.
I hooked up with a married woman, sheclaimed they were in an open relationship and he had a 3.5 inch penis. I had a hard time performing because I was very uncomfortable with the situation (her husband and roommate just down the hallway in earshot while we did it on the couch).
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Without the consent or approval of the husband, it’s always a bad idea.
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when i was younger and still single, i hooked up with my fair share of married women. for a short time, it's all i went after for the very reason that they had more to lose than me so most of them were very discreet and there were very little drama or emotional baggage. never had to deal with crazy-psycho single-girl. it was very obvious that i was the one being used and i was perfectly okay with it. i got pussy and they got dick. they pretty much just wanted to fuck and go home to their life, period. i wanted to do the same thing so we kinda just met in the middle.
i will say that i was very picky and wasn't just fucking any married pussy. as everyone said, there's a lot of shit that can go wrong. most of these ladies i was with had access to resources so we never had to "sneak away" to some shabby hotel. it was always a planned meetup around their work schedules or business trips. none of them ever got attached or wanted to. i did become decent friends with a few of them and still keep in contact with one of them to this day who is still married to the same guy although we don't fuck anymore. i'm just more or less of sounding board for her now and she's fun to talk to.
i'm not for it or against it, it just worked out well for me and them at the time. all of those relationships were eventually called off by the ladies. either they got bored of me, lost interest, or whatever. i remember one of the ladies texting me after she left telling me not to expect to see her anymore and that was that. i texted her back "goodbye, take care" and carried on with my life.
it can work with the right lady if that's what you're looking for but be careful. life nowadays is so much different than it was 10 or 15 years ago.
i will say that i was very picky and wasn't just fucking any married pussy. as everyone said, there's a lot of shit that can go wrong. most of these ladies i was with had access to resources so we never had to "sneak away" to some shabby hotel. it was always a planned meetup around their work schedules or business trips. none of them ever got attached or wanted to. i did become decent friends with a few of them and still keep in contact with one of them to this day who is still married to the same guy although we don't fuck anymore. i'm just more or less of sounding board for her now and she's fun to talk to.
i'm not for it or against it, it just worked out well for me and them at the time. all of those relationships were eventually called off by the ladies. either they got bored of me, lost interest, or whatever. i remember one of the ladies texting me after she left telling me not to expect to see her anymore and that was that. i texted her back "goodbye, take care" and carried on with my life.
it can work with the right lady if that's what you're looking for but be careful. life nowadays is so much different than it was 10 or 15 years ago.
My (now) wife was married when we 1st started hooking up. I expressed my misgivings initially, but it was she that reassured me the marriage was functionally over.
Im still not 100%ok with how it played out, and have self imposed some mental penance over the years as a result....If given the chance I dont think id do it again
Im still not 100%ok with how it played out, and have self imposed some mental penance over the years as a result....If given the chance I dont think id do it again
A friend of mine discovered his fiance had sex with his best friend days before the date scheduled for their marriage... Traumatizing.
I can tell one good thing of discovering you were cheated: the sooner you discover your partner is not worthy of trust, the sooner you may move on with your life.
I can tell one good thing of discovering you were cheated: the sooner you discover your partner is not worthy of trust, the sooner you may move on with your life.
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Just proves what my Mom used to tell me. "There's been many a man raise a child that wasn't his." Didn't understand what she was talking about when she first told me that. I was maybe 18,19 years old. I fully understand what she meant today.
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I carried out a year long affair with a manager at the company that I work for who was married to her husband of 5 years. They had no children.
They basically had a dead bedroom and the guy got super complacent, played video games all the time. She wanted attention and someone to make love to her. I basically filled her needs and we had a ton of sex. A ton. We had great chemistry in bed.
At some point the lines began to get blurred. At first, I viewed myself as her friend with benefits, but after some point, I felt like I was her sex bull, being turned on by the fact that while her husband was at their house playing call of duty, she was in my bed underneath me with my cock deep inside of her. I made love to her like an animal. Nights soon turned into entire weekends, and we found ourselves spending more and more time together. It became a ritual before she would leave my place to go back home, that I would take her from behind in my living room, pull her pants and or underwear down and give her a series of hard and long backshots, bareback until she would orgasm, and then send her on her way, because i wanted her to think about me and feel me on her ride home. She loved when I did that. She would go home with my red palm prints all over her ivory skin...had her husband seen her naked after those nights with me he would have surely known that she was getting fucked by another man.
I was getting off on all of it, like a degenerate.
Then, one day she told me that she loved me. As in, she had fallen in love with me and wanted to be with me.
At first I tried to brush it off...but it became clear that she was serious. Dead serious.
At that point I had a moment of clarity and realized that all of this was wrong, and I was being a complete dirtbag. I didn't think at all about what would happen to her if her husband found out. Nor did I think that everything i was doing would leave her to develop these feelings for me. It was a mess.
I ended up calling it quits on our affair stating that I could not reciprocate how she felt, and I also bluntly reminded her that she had a husband at home. To say this least, it became toxic, and we ended up no longer on speaking terms. She soon left the company after that.
The last I heard about her, it looks like she managed to patch things up with her husband, which is good. But for me personally, I vowed to never to anything like that again.
They basically had a dead bedroom and the guy got super complacent, played video games all the time. She wanted attention and someone to make love to her. I basically filled her needs and we had a ton of sex. A ton. We had great chemistry in bed.
At some point the lines began to get blurred. At first, I viewed myself as her friend with benefits, but after some point, I felt like I was her sex bull, being turned on by the fact that while her husband was at their house playing call of duty, she was in my bed underneath me with my cock deep inside of her. I made love to her like an animal. Nights soon turned into entire weekends, and we found ourselves spending more and more time together. It became a ritual before she would leave my place to go back home, that I would take her from behind in my living room, pull her pants and or underwear down and give her a series of hard and long backshots, bareback until she would orgasm, and then send her on her way, because i wanted her to think about me and feel me on her ride home. She loved when I did that. She would go home with my red palm prints all over her ivory skin...had her husband seen her naked after those nights with me he would have surely known that she was getting fucked by another man.
I was getting off on all of it, like a degenerate.
Then, one day she told me that she loved me. As in, she had fallen in love with me and wanted to be with me.
At first I tried to brush it off...but it became clear that she was serious. Dead serious.
At that point I had a moment of clarity and realized that all of this was wrong, and I was being a complete dirtbag. I didn't think at all about what would happen to her if her husband found out. Nor did I think that everything i was doing would leave her to develop these feelings for me. It was a mess.
I ended up calling it quits on our affair stating that I could not reciprocate how she felt, and I also bluntly reminded her that she had a husband at home. To say this least, it became toxic, and we ended up no longer on speaking terms. She soon left the company after that.
The last I heard about her, it looks like she managed to patch things up with her husband, which is good. But for me personally, I vowed to never to anything like that again.
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This is where things will always go south. When the relationship goes past just fucking. When this happens, feelings will start to form and it gets dangerous.
A better question than the "dad penis" questions or "straight men having sex with other men" questions. Relax =p
I had a roommate nine years ago who loved banging married women. He bagged 5 of them in the two years we lived together. One of them wasn't even married yet, but engaged to be married in a few months. He was the bad boy that women say they hate, but actually can't resist. He always kept it at just sex. If she starts getting attached it can end badly.
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