[quote author=mortis link=board=pe;num=1050561007;start=0#9 date=07/07/03 at 01:41:31]
"...Do you have a set time that you do PE every day, or do you vary? I think I need to live with more structure if I want it to work, and at this point, I don't just
want it to work, but
need it to work..."
I truly feel like I will never have a girlfriend until I feel more comfortable (and preferably
proud) with my size...I have to feel comfortable with my own skin before I let anybody else near it."
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Mortis,
First things first.
And, I will refrain from one of my infamous lectures on self-esteem issues!
But, PE or not.....if you allow the size of your "equipment" to determine your future destiny with a woman--then already, you're off to a rather shakey start, I'm afraid.
I admit that I get confused myself over "why" PE becomes so important to a man. Whether it's a desperate attempt to not give up on having a larger size no matter what (which in retrospect, was exactly the reason for me!) or--whether a man just likes to have a challenge to see what's possible, --following any regimen of self-improvement must have the solid footing that you're doing this for YOURSELF first and foremost.
Granted, successful PE impacts your life as well as a that of your sexual partner-- I just feel the need to remind you of identifying your true priorities.
Penis Enlargement... should FIRST be for you, friend.
If a gf wants to encourage you and help motivate you, fine. But don't EVER let it be the one main issue (a bigger penis) that is required to even enter or, whatsmore KEEP-- a relationship. Otherwise, we're talking a shallow (weak) foundation for a meaningful (happy) relationship...with anyone.
Attempting PE is a matter of YOUR time, YOUR devotion to achieve, YOUR motivation to meet YOUR own goals, and YOUR inner resolve and will power.
I just want you to get a proper emotional start and direction in your PE. -- That's all.
Now, (FINALLY!) to answer your question--
Success in PE does require a regular time frame for the exercises and techniques. However, this regimen must fit into a man's regular life's timeframe without (too much) undue disruption to "normalcy" in daily living.
I found my routine worked best just before bedtime.
Whether that be possible for you or anyone else, I can't say, of course. The premise though, is that following PE sessions at night, your sleep period will allow your penis to "recover, repair, heal, and (eventually)grow the new inner tissue" required from your intensive exercise. Gradually, gradually, GRADUALLY ! it happens.
Do the routine for about three days, then take one full day to "rest up"----with NO PE...none.
The "bummer" of course is that (ideally) you should refrain from ejaculating before and after any PE session.
Your penis needs to stay "swollen up, puffy, and engorged" for as long as possible following your PE session. Intercourse or "jacking off" to ejaculation immediately following PE just lessens (if not defeats!) the potential of the greatest success, since your penis will then "relax" after ejaculating.
Hence, this PE scheduling can admittedly get most "interesting" to say the least.
Other men manage to do PE at "other" times around busy lives and active sexual relationships. And, somehow they get good PE results as well.
You did ask me though, about MY routine and I told you...and, "why" I believe my method worked fairly well. It's all about that "healing / recovery" time at night which I strongly feel is crucially important.
