How big is too big?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by photon33, Oct 18, 2010.

  1. photon33

    photon33 New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2010
    Messages:
    2
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hi!

    I have been reading here for a while and a lot of you guys are really hung, and that worries me. According to statistics, 6x5 should be the upper average. Anything over 5,5 in girth should be rare, and over 6 very rare. Still, some of u have 6,5, 7, or even more in girth. Can women really handle that comfortably? Those of you that have over 6 inches in girth, do you find that you are too large for women in general?
     
  2. JacKNight

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 22, 2008
    Messages:
    47
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Verified:
    Photo
    7" girth here... and generally most take it fine... and most have told me it's much easier for them to orgasm with me... have had several credit me with their first as well as first multiples
     
  3. D_Hammond Happydipper

    D_Hammond Happydipper Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2010
    Messages:
    754
    Likes Received:
    1
    my is a little over 6" girth but the diameter is 2.5" much wider then a normal round one


    that;s equivalent to a 7.8" in girth pushing on her walls

    lol
     
  4. JTalbain

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 3, 2005
    Messages:
    1,812
    Likes Received:
    5
    Bigger guys sometimes do have to make sure the woman is good and aroused first, sometimes not depending on the girl. Keep in mind though, a woman's vagina can stretch wide enough to accomodate a baby. If a baby's head is about 4 inches across (still a small head I believe) you're looking at over a foot in circumference. Your dick ain't gonna come near that lol.
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Messages:
    12,807
    Likes Received:
    8
    Two things...

    1. no, it isn't - the vagina does not stretch in such a way that an oval causes more stretch than circle. 6" girth is 6" girth. Having played with circular and oval objects I can assure you that the only way the oval shape will stimulate differently is if you can helicopter her.

    2. Your pictures don't quite seem to back up your words and your length measurement shot is invalid as it only shows the top of your cock - the bottom of that ruler could be up your arse for all we know.

    @ photon33: A lot of guys here lie about their size. There are plenty of women here to attest that girth can be difficult but you get used to it. Also, some women like that stretch more than others - see fisting, for example.
     
  6. ManlyBanisters

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Messages:
    12,807
    Likes Received:
    8
    And you can fuck off with that shite. A baby's head crowning through the vagina is one of the most painful things a woman can experience - midwives often call it the 'ring of fire'. Many women tear, usually at the perineum, often in more than one place. It is also interesting to note that the pressure from the baby's head on the internal nerves as it passes out has a numbing effect, a naturally evolved anaesthetic of sorts.

    Not in the slightest bit like a nice, fat-cock fuck.
     
  7. D_Langstaff Longstaff

    Joined:
    Jun 13, 2009
    Messages:
    151
    Likes Received:
    0
    Took the words right out of my mouth. Some women are in a decent amount of pain at first, most just look kinda shocked as it goes in but seem to handle it fine, but I would say 50% of the time I see blood on the condom.
     
  8. straightdave10

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2010
    Messages:
    1,254
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    335
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Australia
    one things for sure ...I will never know....so i can only go on what my partner tells me...
     
  9. D_Hammond Happydipper

    D_Hammond Happydipper Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Sep 8, 2010
    Messages:
    754
    Likes Received:
    1

    I have a video that shows the whole ruler & size.


    I tend to lose my Erection Quickly without any simulation . I am visually desensitized completely SO PORN DOES NOTHING..


    By the way I WAS NOT desensitized by porn... it always been this way, as far as I can remember..


    It's Hard to juggle a ruler ,penis and camera at the same time also
     
    #9 D_Hammond Happydipper, Oct 18, 2010
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2010
  10. ManlyBanisters

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 19, 2007
    Messages:
    12,807
    Likes Received:
    8
    OK, yeah... sure.

    Then you must be a shite fuck. A shite fuck who doesn't learn from his mistakes.

    And 'decent amount of pain'? What the fuck is that supposed to mean?

    Nasty little man :yuck:
     
  11. pgt21

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 2, 2010
    Messages:
    377
    Albums:
    8
    Likes Received:
    177
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Somewhere in South America
    Verified:
    Photo
    With patience and saliva an elephant fucked an ant! Lol. Women´s vagina is a virtual space, so the discussion is reduced to how skillful you are to fuck with no pain or blood! Foreplay is still the answer!
     
  12. love2showoff

    love2showoff New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2006
    Messages:
    145
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    I love to read feedback from users who aren't truthfully 7" in girth, because your posts always show you have no fucking clue. Let me begin by saying I learned to love foreplay at an early age, it is more important for the woman to be ready (mentally and physically) to have intercourse with me than anything else...I also have tried every lube on the planet to supplement because the wet always runs dry.

    The small vaginal wall fissures caused by friction from intercourse with girthy are predicated on several factors. I've been with several women and eventually they all can take some of me. When I was 16 I did date a girl who i was just not sexually compatible with, there were a few girls in college who bled, and a few who just refused to try it. All have vehemently refused anal.

    I think the real question here should be what is the avg recovery time after having sex with a thicker penis? That depends on the arousal, lubrication, length of intercourse and the length of the penis among other things. I'm sure shorter girthy guys don't create the same coefficient of friction as a long girthy guy like myself.

    To say that you are too large is ridiculous because large is a relative not absolute. Most refusals came from women who had never seen anything over 5 or 6 inches, but I believe that refusal was a state of mind not whether they could actually take it. Most are shocked for a moment but more than willing to try and I am more than willing to make it a pleasurable experience for them before and after intercourse.
     
  13. HiddenLacey

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 28, 2010
    Messages:
    5,470
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    249
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    somewhere
    IMO too big is a size that causes ripping/ tearing and an uncomfortable amount of pain. This is something that's going to vary from partner to partner depending on his/ her comfort level with each particular size. What may be to big for one person may be just right for another. There is no definitive answer for a question like this.
     
    #13 HiddenLacey, Oct 18, 2010
    Last edited by a moderator: Oct 18, 2010
  14. Spectacle

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 26, 2010
    Messages:
    216
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    Verified:
    Photo
    All of this is subjective. Some girls can't handle anything more than 5.5 inches in girth, and other girls can take something that's around 7" in girth with ease.

    My girlfriend actually has trouble with my penis, and has for a long time. I'm hardly breaking 5.5 in girth. She also has trouble with my length, even though I'm only just about 6.5 inches. She is the perfect example of a woman who would never want a big dick.

    Seriously, you people need to be realistic here. EVERYTHING to do with the body is subjective.
     
  15. petite

    petite New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2010
    Messages:
    7,539
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    33
    Gender:
    Female
    In my experience, I had a harder time with length than girth, and as several have pointed out, the answers are all subjective. Different women have vaginas of different depths and some aren't comfortable with more than 6" in length while other women here have stated that they prefer 9"-10" long cocks. Our vaginas are as different as cocks are. Some women can handle girth much more easily than others can, too, although like MB said, I will stretch out, which only makes girth a problem the first one or two times we have sex.

    My own experience is I can handle more girth when I've been having regular sex or if I play with insertion toys regularly to keep me stretched out. TheBF says that I feel tighter to him again after only two days, which is interesting to me because that means that he notices it before I do, but he's never actually commented on how much tighter I am until we haven't had sex and there's been no toy play for me for two weeks, and then I can't have sex for very long and I'm usually still sore the next day even if he's gentle. I might be sore for 3 days if he's not gentle, which is sometimes my fault, too. When we've been apart, there have been a few times when I was overly enthusiastic about making his homecoming really good, memorable and fun and to show him how much I missed him, sometimes at the expense of my poor vagina, and that's when I'm sitting on frozen peas the next day. There have been a few times when I've told him I want him to fuck me harder and that I would be okay, and he hasn't wanted to and been gentle and careful with me, only to discover the next day that he was right and I was wrong because I was still sore even though he had been gentle, so I would have felt torn up if he had gotten rougher with me. I think I tend to forget about the last time things went wrong when I'm in the moment, but he remembers.

    One time when we were apart for a month and I had not been using insertion toys to masturbate with (this was before my toy collection was large like it is now) I could only have sex with him for about 15 minutes before apologizing that I really just couldn't keep going, it was just too uncomfortable. It was disappointing, but if I remember correctly, the next day I wasn't too sore to have sex and having sex with him didn't make me a lot sorer, and the day after that he fit perfectly again, so stopping after 15 minutes was the right thing to do, even though I felt awful and lame and I felt like I ruined his homecoming. So my vagina adapts quickly to girth as long as it's done right. It's not an immediate adjustment, but it's still fast. Now I regularly use insertion toys when he's coming back home again, so that we don't have those problems again and we don't as long as I properly prepare for sex with him.

    For me, length was totally different than girth. Sure, the more aroused I am, the more cock will fit inside me, but there seemed to be an absolute limit to how much length I could take before I got pregnant, and that absolute limit was always shorter than TheBF's cock. No progress ever seemed to be made on that, no matter how many toys I used, how long we had foreplay, or how much we fucked. He just didn't fit all the way inside me.

    Then I got pregnant and early on in my pregnancy I read an article on pregnancy sex that said that one of the hormones responsible for transforming my insides into a baby incubator would affect my vagina so that it would be roomier and deeper than before. We were really excited about that, but month after month passed and nothing had changed. Then around the 5th month of pregnancy, I suppose my body had enough relaxin in it for long enough and my organs had been pushed around enough that ligaments and tissue loosened up and suddenly his cock fit, just like the article in the pregnancy magazine said it would happen. I talked to a few gynecologists about it and I was told that it might not last for my entire pregnancy, and that my vagina may be different after my pregnancy than before, but they could make me no promises about that. It's possible that his length will be a problem again once I've recovered from the birth. No one knows what will happen. I am sad to report that he's been bottoming out a lot over the past month, so our period of free for all fun lasted for about 10 weeks. The last time he bottomed out it was extremely painful, so we're back to being cautious and careful about that again, wihch isn't nearly as much fun. I've got my fingers crossed that things will be different after I deliver.
     
    #15 petite, Oct 18, 2010
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2010
  16. marriedasian

    marriedasian Member

    Joined:
    Sep 2, 2008
    Messages:
    599
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    9
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Wisconsin
    too big can only be defined by the woman and/or man that is taking the cock. what's big for me may very well be small to you.
     
  17. scottredleter

    scottredleter New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 3, 2009
    Messages:
    748
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    San Diego
    If I really can't fit it in my mouth, it's too big. Of course that doesn't mean I can't play with like a big sea slug...

    I remember a guy who came in to a bar I was at in Kentucky. He was a bit older and he was a straight man. he started talking to people very openly about how he had never been able to get a blow job because his dick was so big, and that people had told him to try going to a gay bar to see if anyone can help... well, that got our attention, so we all followed him into the bathroom... and sure enough, nobody could get even the head in their mouth.

    Poor guy just wanted a damn blow job... we gave it the old college try, but we ended up giving him a hand job.
     
    #17 scottredleter, Oct 18, 2010
    Last edited: Oct 18, 2010
  18. petite

    petite New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 3, 2010
    Messages:
    7,539
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    33
    Gender:
    Female
    :lmao:

    a big sea slug?
     
  19. B_Yeah69

    B_Yeah69 New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 7, 2010
    Messages:
    182
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male

    One of my ex's was consistently loose. Tons of guys I spoke too, said they noticed their girlfriends tighten up when they don't have sex for a few days. They were suspicious about what I told them I was experiencing, and they said she is probably cheating on you. Similar to what you mentioned in your post about tightening up. This ex girlfriend of mine said she had sex a while back with a really well endowed guy and she had to end the relationship because he was too big and it was painful for her. I hate saying this, but there is no other way, is she damaged from this guy....or is this bull?
    it is possible she was really promiscous and does not want to admit it....she told me she gave head to 75 guys before me but "slept" with about 10 including me.
     
  20. RideRocket

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 30, 2005
    Messages:
    3,247
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Lost in the Wild
    She sounds like a keeper!
     
Draft saved Draft deleted