How Often Do You Bareback?

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Absolutely never on the first date.

I won't deny ever having made a mistake, but I've never let a guy blow a load inside me on a first sexual encounter. Ever.

If I ever become single again, I might not ever allow another man to cum inside me.
 

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How can a pair be fluid bonded on date one?

with my guy, our first encounter was such, but we knew each other VERY well for 11 years previously. We had the testing discussion, the “you know I’m still fertile, right?” discussion, and the not sleeping with anyone else discussion.
 

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I did make some limited number of mistakes when I was young. Over 18. (Lessons learnt) Unaware of the realities of the world.
None ever since. All a date could do is feel the cover. Not open the book to explore the pages. It has nothing to do with coy but being smart. Never failed so no need to change methodology.
 

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I have no idea how many guys would bareback. From here, I’ve seen some guys who don’t even know what it feels like; others would take any risk possible. And then you have the cheating population. Can you even trust someone who claims to be fluid bonded with you?
 
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Interesting. Is something medical in play? Is one “more poly?”
The partner I have been with for nine years is just as polyamerous as the partner I have been with for just over a year. We do not have a hierarchy or anything like that either. All three of us are on equal footing in our mutual relationship. One partner simply prefers to always use protection (as-is their right to require), while the other one is no longer able to spawn crotch-goblins and due to our relationship's relative exclusivity (and all three of us testing clean on a regular basis) feels confident in having sex bareback.