I do like to see people check my presence out. I don't call it my bulge I guess, because to me it's just not what so many deem a bulge. Not knocking any guy's desire to show his, but many refer to his bulge as a hard or semi hard cock being deliberately displayed in an every day situation like riding a subway or walking around the office. That's not my idea of a bulge. Anyways, I've told my story before and I guess it is one of my favorite things to do casually after seeing a Presbyterian minister do years ago. His was not a deliberate act, I think. It was so casual and probably not realized as making a showing of his penis. He wore thin, loose athletic shorts when he jogged and obviously wore loose boxers underneath which allowed his penis to freely move around. I discovered then that is an incredibly hot thing to see, even if the showing is not a large soft penis or semi. Unintentional sexy shows of a guy's penis are far hotter to me than someone who gets up in the morning with the intention of trying to get the attention of everyone on the subway by showing a tremendous or often false bulge.
Again, don't mean to knock anybody's taste, that's just how I see it. My desire is to be seen too but in a minimal unintentional way. I check out my look when I have the chance and it's rarely ever a VPL or anything, but you can see my soft equipment moving. It's not so in your face, as the boxers make things a couple of steps shy of freeballing, which I don't like to do.