touchmyrod: if seems like i hardly ever get it. ive been going out with my gf for five yrs now and im 18 and it seems like we hardly have sex anymore. we waited a yr so i was 14 and after that it seemed like we always did it any chance we could get. now the last yr i get it like once a week if im lucky, some times twice but thats occasional. i try kissing her neck and chest and rubbing her leg and stuff and she tells me to stop or she says im doing it with u we did it yesterday when really it was like 4 days ago. i hate having to beg for sex but i need it and she always says shes not in the mood but when she wants it i try to do what she does so she knows what its like but i cant resist it.
these are her 2 excuses-
1. since we dont live together she doesnt want to have to worry about her mom coming or something. she said when we live together sex will be different, we will be doing it every night but i dont want to wait, im young and in love and want to do it now.
2. she just said this for the 1st time in line at mcdonalds. if we have shitty sex she would need it more but since we have great sex she doesnt need it as much.
and its not like anything turns her on either. like i know some girls like kissing them in a certain spot does and bang they wanna do it. the only time i notice when my gf really gets horny is when i give her a massage. i start with her back and make her take her shirt off promising i wont get horny :grr: then i rub her back and side for like 10 mins then move to her legs and make her take her pants off
and start to rub her hamstrings and outside of her legs. then after 5 mins i rub the inside of her legs and when im at the top her leg where it conects to her pelvis area i brush my hand against her lips and after a couple of mins of doing that she like gets really horny and her legs like open up and then it turns into more rubbing and then some fingering and then great sex.
but what could i do to get her to do it more like everyother day cuz i need it like everyday.