I love the idea of being fucked by men bigger and more muscular than me but when it comes to looking for hookup I am very picky and sometimes chicken out because of the process of having to get ready and being super tight. I have some toys but I dont really use them much. How did yall get better at taking bigger dick ? I would love to take a bigger cock eventually (cade Maddox size).
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It’s like going to the gym. You need commit to a schedule, even if you don’t feel up to it on a particular day. Your sphincter is a muscle that needs to be trained. Use a medium sized butt plug for an hour or so every other day for a week or two. Consistency and repetition are key. Also put it in while you’re cruising for a hook up online and your hole should be ready to go by time the cock arrives.
do you start increasing size of dildos or do you just keep the plug the same size so you are loose enough to take bigger?
Small butt plugs are pretty useless and tend to slip out of your ass unless you’re super tight and never been fucked before. Medium butt plugs are good at training your sphincter to relax and take a dick. The point is not to get loose, but to train an involuntary muscle to take something coming the other way. Of course you can keep going progressively bigger, but I think that’s more for guys that get off on being stretched by toys rather than everyday ass training to prepare for getting fucked.
You need to work at getting your diet and cleaning ritual down as well. Fibre is key and knowing your bowel clock.
My suggestion is to rinse out well a couple of hours ahead. Then rinse out quickly 20 mins before.
My suggestion is to rinse out well a couple of hours ahead. Then rinse out quickly 20 mins before.
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I played with dildos but what did it for me was when I met my huge cock buddy. He's 7 long but has 6.5 inches of hole pleasing and hole stretching girth. I was afraid of him first, but grew very determined that his cock was going in me. We did it. My hole surprisingly, yet VERY willingly opened and he did the rest for me. He opened and stretched me and I was hooked. The first time it felt a little violating, but the pleasure was intense. Since my fist thick cock, I haven't been the same and my hole gladly accepts large cock now nearly free of discomfort.
What happens is when your hole gets stretched a good bit BEYOND the natural rebellion of the powerful sphincter muscle, the muscle gives up temporarily and he gets in, nearly pain free. Then, I believe, your hole, rectum and gut remembers the level of stretch and allows it to occur again.
Try it.
What happens is when your hole gets stretched a good bit BEYOND the natural rebellion of the powerful sphincter muscle, the muscle gives up temporarily and he gets in, nearly pain free. Then, I believe, your hole, rectum and gut remembers the level of stretch and allows it to occur again.
Try it.
I been just nervous cause a guy I met off Grindr is very much my type and just nervous hes too big
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Same here friend. My buddy was huge. I encourage you to just do it. Lube yourself and him well. Your hole is very tough and will acclimate his cock. I do think you will be surprised at how easily and pain free his big cock will slide right in you. Like I said, the powerful muscle gives up when stretched beyond normal and there is very little discomfort. I was shocked and hooked right away.
