Disclaimers because we’ve all been on the internet before and we’ve all seen a title like that too.
Disclaimers:
Me and my gf have been together for a year now, live separately but have sex when we see each other (every weekend).
I don’t know how many partner she’s had before me (at least 2 bfs) but she’s never cum from penetration, and she’s the exception in her friendship group. She’s my 5th partner but first regular partner.
We have had sex at her (parents) place, mine (parents) too, hotels and even friends house, so I don’t think environment anxiety is a factor.
Positions:
Missionary - most common variation is her lying on her back and me lying on top. We both like this, she likes hard deep thrusts but I mix it up with slower grinds too. There’s other variations such as v shaped, and on the edge of the bed, very good vocal and expression reaction from both
Doggy - I’m 6/5.5 long/thick so she says this feels very deep and is the one position I can’t go fast or hard as it can be painful and she’s ask to pull back but she enjoys it. Haven’t yet tried lying doggy
Girl on top - this seems like the most likely answer so far. Grinding in lotus like position on a chair or even when I’m thrusting from below and she’s leaning over. I think she’s said these positions hit her g spot and she feels like she could cum. The challenge is staying hard long enough
Spooning - fun for lazy morning sex, feels good both for both but seems unlikely
She (almost) always cums from fingering before or after I cum, 99/100 it’s before, foreplay is important to her. When a sex scene skips to the penetration she’s unimpressed.
Because she usually cums from fingering she’s often too sensitive for clit simulation immediately afterwards during penetration. I’ve suggested but she’s resisted to missionary with a cushion beneath her back/butt but could be open to it.
We talk dirty during sex, we have had sex with and without music, drunk and sober, morning and night, longer and shorter sessions, as aforementioned at home and in hotels. We don’t send nudes or sext as much as we used to but it’s only cause we see each other more often. I find her sexy and attractive and I am sure she feels the same way.
I’m asking only if someone has been in similar position and has tried something which I haven’t yet suggested or can relate
Disclaimers:
- Me and my gf enjoy our sex lives and we’ve talked about this. She’s told me there’s no pressure to make it happen
- I understand not every women cums from penetration
- This questions comes more from sexual curiosity than insecurity
Me and my gf have been together for a year now, live separately but have sex when we see each other (every weekend).
I don’t know how many partner she’s had before me (at least 2 bfs) but she’s never cum from penetration, and she’s the exception in her friendship group. She’s my 5th partner but first regular partner.
We have had sex at her (parents) place, mine (parents) too, hotels and even friends house, so I don’t think environment anxiety is a factor.
Positions:
Missionary - most common variation is her lying on her back and me lying on top. We both like this, she likes hard deep thrusts but I mix it up with slower grinds too. There’s other variations such as v shaped, and on the edge of the bed, very good vocal and expression reaction from both
Doggy - I’m 6/5.5 long/thick so she says this feels very deep and is the one position I can’t go fast or hard as it can be painful and she’s ask to pull back but she enjoys it. Haven’t yet tried lying doggy
Girl on top - this seems like the most likely answer so far. Grinding in lotus like position on a chair or even when I’m thrusting from below and she’s leaning over. I think she’s said these positions hit her g spot and she feels like she could cum. The challenge is staying hard long enough
Spooning - fun for lazy morning sex, feels good both for both but seems unlikely
She (almost) always cums from fingering before or after I cum, 99/100 it’s before, foreplay is important to her. When a sex scene skips to the penetration she’s unimpressed.
Because she usually cums from fingering she’s often too sensitive for clit simulation immediately afterwards during penetration. I’ve suggested but she’s resisted to missionary with a cushion beneath her back/butt but could be open to it.
We talk dirty during sex, we have had sex with and without music, drunk and sober, morning and night, longer and shorter sessions, as aforementioned at home and in hotels. We don’t send nudes or sext as much as we used to but it’s only cause we see each other more often. I find her sexy and attractive and I am sure she feels the same way.
I’m asking only if someone has been in similar position and has tried something which I haven’t yet suggested or can relate
