So I didn't verify that I am a woman on here yet, I am a new member. But rest assured I am lol. I am 33 yrs old and have been married for 13 years. he is a average size penis. I am however a well endowed female. I know this by the fact I own a large toy 9 inches and it goes all the way in with some room to spare. I have to have my husband use it to achieve orgasm. I wish his size would do it for me, and I have come close to orgasm with him but sad to say not all the way. So here goes. He wants me to get a lover with a huge penis. It was his idea. I have never been with a large man, or any other man than my hubbie. He was my first. I have questions about how to go about it? I don't want to get a STD, pregnancy is not going to happen my tubes are tied. I have not a clue how to go about getting a lover? I am curious about the outcome of doing this..can men have casual sex? I don't want a relationship just a good lay. Thank you to those of you who give me honest, thought out feedback!