hunting thoughts.

are you predator or prey?
perhaps, like an angler fish, you are a predator creating the illusion of being prey in order to attract weaker preditors...
or maybe you just play a straight game.

 

I play no games...

I present no front... do not control, nor do I succumb to being controlled, tho I will go along if it seems adventurous or fun.

I accept and love the person for who they are... even if that means we can not stay together....

I support their interests and ambitions, without giving up or sublimating my own.

And I am excited by whatever pleases my partner most... can dominate, or be dominated, be gentle or traditionally rough... my one obsession is to see her in ecstasy, to bring that about in whatever manner does it for her best.

I do not suffer anger, nor resentment, nor do I bring expectation other than that of love and cherishment into my relationships, tho I personally strive to live up to what she may expect of me.

The less I think about myself, the happier I am.

 

Woodlouse. (See avatar).
In short, no one knows, no one cares, but I do.

 

Definitely not an angler fish: How The Male Angler Fish Gets Completely Screwed - The Oatmeal

 

I don't like the sound of the word predator, but I have always used the allusion to hunting and wolves when discussing how I meet people for sex.

 

predatory by nature/nurture..
the straight game by choice :smile:

 

Neither predator nor prey. I just don't view most human interactions that way.

 

Straight up. I am a total failure at any game play - unless it Ms. Pac-Man - I rule at that one.

 

Predator. Damn shame too.

 

I'm not a predator, but I am an aggressor.

 

I lay in the shadows usually plotting how to get my way unless I see reason to give selflessly of myself to one whom I think is worth it or greater than myself. This is merely a quick summation of what I think I may be. I may be completely off. I would LIKE to think of myself as one who doesn't play a game but I find myself always angling to get what I want. It is a constant struggle. I do not like the term predator but if hemmed into a controlled situation I would prefer to be a predator but when pushed into anxiety I find myself becoming the victim ( prey). Ugh I think I'm nuking this shit.

 

ya get bonus points for being aware of the impulse to take advantage/manipulate things for your own ends, and not giving into it.

me and you is much the same. there is part of my brain that weighs every situation. figuring out the best way to get what i want, with the least amount of vulnerability/investment on my part. that same part of my brain gets a thrill.. think a cat in pounce, tail dancing back and forth.

is an ugly lil fucker born out of necessity. is a thought process that kept me alive and safe for a big chunk of my early years. is just not needed anymore. ya same feeling of slipping down the food chain, of being prey, makes filing down my claws seem very unattractive/dangerous..

is wanting to be a better person. wanting to be a positive part of my boy's life. wanting to give more than i get. wanting to be a good person. is the goal/carrot i set up to keep me honest. hrm, i don't want to let my crazy, titchy impulses stain something good.

*straight jacket hug on Mr. Intrigue*

course i might so be reading into what you typed.:redface:

 

I think with about 98% of things and people i'm straight up no chaser....but when it comes to certain other things i'm a predator at heart. Sex is the only place i can't control it. Well sex with someone i'm 100% emotionally and physically invested in. Which might mean i make thee worst FWB ever lol.