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I’m 22. I’m a bit inexperienced with sex and have had only 3 partners. I’m also black male for context. maybe a tad bit nerdy. I workout and everything so the girls who I have hooked up with have always complimented me on that. They have also complimented me on how well I eat pussy and just my stroke game in general. They have not complimented me or said anything about my size however. The most recent girl is actually my girlfriend now and in some talks we’ve had about each others dating history, she mentions that she used to hookup a bit. I suspect her count is pretty high. Like around 15+. She mentions ppl that I actually know and has said things like “well I didn’t like him but I liked parts of him” or “That man is dangerous.” She mentioned that one in reference to a guy who she says all the girls talk about for having a very big dick. She has said things to me like “do you think the bbc thing is real?” and once made a funny face at me when I asked if she was uncomfortable during sex. In my head, it makes me feel like I am not as big as what would impress her or stand out. I think I just rely on the fact that I’m rough with her and can eat her pussy very well. Im not sure why this bothers me but it really does. I’m around 6.5 inches but when I get online, I feel like this size is average at best. Not really sure how to cope with the feeling but it makes me a bit uncomfortable as well as curious into more about sex. Not sure if anyone else has felt this way but wanted to share. Also new to the site. This is my first forum post. You guys are pretty funny
 
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5.5' is the average penis size so you're above average, and even if you weren't, what's the issue? We're all born with what we have and if you know how to eat pussy and how to pleasure a girl, you're all good! Penis size means nothing at the end of the day. Heck, too big can be an issue 🤣
 
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The internet is a tricky place when it comes to cock size. Porn, inflated size claims and a constant exposure of the big ones really have skewed the perception of what is a normal cock. Not least when it comes to the bbc myth. Your size is fine. On the big side, and it sounds as if you have already figured out that pleasing her is bigger than having a huge cock. Just continue exploring your mutual pleasures, relax and enjoy. It's too great to have a cock and have sex with a woman to worry about cock size ;)
 
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I agree with all the comments, and would add that 6,5 inches is the perfect size to deepthroat. Bigger can be very uncomfortable for most people who enjoy that. Some are expert enough to handle more, but as a general rule, perfect.
 
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Bobbyslayer said:
Disclaimer: I’m a straight male

I’m 22. I’m a bit inexperienced with sex and have had only 3 partners. I’m also black male for context. maybe a tad bit nerdy. I workout and everything so the girls who I have hooked up with have always complimented me on that. They have also complimented me on how well I eat pussy and just my stroke game in general. They have not complimented me or said anything about my size however. The most recent girl is actually my girlfriend now and in some talks we’ve had about each others dating history, she mentions that she used to hookup a bit. I suspect her count is pretty high. Like around 15+. She mentions ppl that I actually know and has said things like “well I didn’t like him but I liked parts of him” or “That man is dangerous.” She mentioned that one in reference to a guy who she says all the girls talk about for having a very big dick. She has said things to me like “do you think the bbc thing is real?” and once made a funny face at me when I asked if she was uncomfortable during sex. In my head, it makes me feel like I am not as big as what would impress her or stand out. I think I just rely on the fact that I’m rough with her and can eat her pussy very well. Im not sure why this bothers me but it really does. I’m around 6.5 inches but when I get online, I feel like this size is average at best. Not really sure how to cope with the feeling but it makes me a bit uncomfortable as well as curious into more about sex. Not sure if anyone else has felt this way but wanted to share. Also new to the site. This is my first forum post. You guys are pretty funny
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We’re going to have to see it to judge. 😉 You’re definitely bigger than average. You should be comfortable with it. Have fun with it..
 
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I have noticed that most women generally have no real concept of size. Some have happened to have most of their experience of sex with guys that are all above average or big so they have a skewed perception of what is “normal”. I really wouldn’t put too much weight on how impressed your girlfriend is by your size. It is hard to not get much of a reaction, I get it. I too want to have my partners’ eyes get big every time they see me naked and gush about how amazing my cock is. Those are fantasies that might happen sometimes, but certainly not all the time. In reality there are so many complex feelings as you are exploring intimacy and developing relationships. Don’t worry about it. You have a big cock, but it’s not that big of a deal. Building your confidence and connection is going to make the dynamic better. Especially as your relationship shifts from hook up to steady relationship, the size is not as much a factor
 
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I have noticed that most women generally have no real concept of size. Some have happened to have most of their experience of sex with guys that are all above average or big so they have a skewed perception of what is “normal”. I really wouldn’t put too much weight on how impressed your girlfriend is by your size. It is hard to not get much of a reaction, I get it. I too want to have my partners’ eyes get big every time they see me naked and gush about how amazing my cock is. Those are fantasies that might happen sometimes, but certainly not all the time. In reality there are so many complex feelings as you are exploring intimacy and developing relationships. Don’t worry about it. You have a big cock, but it’s not that big of a deal. Building your confidence and connection is going to make the dynamic better. Especially as your relationship shifts from hook up to steady relationship, the size is not as much a factor
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All very true dude!!
 
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6.5" in length is definitely on the higher side of average. But what is your girth? That matters more, in my opinion, on the overall "size" of a cock, and more women seem to prefer girth over length for intercourse.

I'm 6.5" long but only 4.3" in girth, so mine has a smallish volume because it's on the thin side compared to most men.

Go to CalcSD to plug in your measurements and you can see where you stand.
 
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I would say stop trying to be a porn star and enjoy your sex life with whoever you are choosing to be with. Social media and online porn have blown out the dopamine receptors of three generations now and pretty soon we'll all be having sex with ourselves through AI and guess what? It still won't be fun if we are in our heads about sex and thinking we are not enough.

Btw, your girlfriend asking if you believe in the "myth of the BBC" sounds like a red flag to me. I'm going to bypass the race play elements and historical baggage because you might like that shit and get right to the emotional part. What legit chick talks about the size of other dicks with her boyfriend? An insecure chick who is trying to poke her man so that she can control him. She thinks you will not cheat on her if she chips away at your self esteem to think that only she can love and appreciate your dick. This may be a conscious decision or a trauma informed one she is unaware of at this time. But I'm sure if you talked about how your ex girlfriends had bigger or more suckable boobs than her or they did Kegel exercises so their pussies felt tighter when they squeezed you as you nutted inside them, she would lose her shit, cry and threaten to break up with you. My vote is dump her and find another girlfriend. The one you have is just a fuck buddy.

On the off chance that you have created this entire scenario in your head due to your own insecurities and your gf is NOT in fact stupid or crazy enough to be talking about bigger dicks with her man, I would suggest going celibate and just learning to love your body without pornography. Jerk off using your imagination. Appreciate your dick. Appreciate the fact that it works and you can get a hard on. Appreciate that you are alive dude. I'm black with 8 inches. Nobody really cares at the end of the day, as long as they are having an orgasm. So if you eat pussy for breakfast, lunch, and dinner your partner is good, the question is, are you?
 
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Bobbyslayer said:
Disclaimer: I’m a straight male

I’m 22. I’m a bit inexperienced with sex and have had only 3 partners. I’m also black male for context. maybe a tad bit nerdy. I workout and everything so the girls who I have hooked up with have always complimented me on that. They have also complimented me on how well I eat pussy and just my stroke game in general. They have not complimented me or said anything about my size however. The most recent girl is actually my girlfriend now and in some talks we’ve had about each others dating history, she mentions that she used to hookup a bit. I suspect her count is pretty high. Like around 15+. She mentions ppl that I actually know and has said things like “well I didn’t like him but I liked parts of him” or “That man is dangerous.” She mentioned that one in reference to a guy who she says all the girls talk about for having a very big dick. She has said things to me like “do you think the bbc thing is real?” and once made a funny face at me when I asked if she was uncomfortable during sex. In my head, it makes me feel like I am not as big as what would impress her or stand out. I think I just rely on the fact that I’m rough with her and can eat her pussy very well. Im not sure why this bothers me but it really does. I’m around 6.5 inches but when I get online, I feel like this size is average at best. Not really sure how to cope with the feeling but it makes me a bit uncomfortable as well as curious into more about sex. Not sure if anyone else has felt this way but wanted to share. Also new to the site. This is my first forum post. You guys are pretty funny
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Let's see what you have dear. I would love to see. 6.5" is very large. Most men are barely 5 inches. So that horrible woman making faces should be thrown out of bed as soon as she behaves this way. Thank you.
 
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