I hate fellatio!

[Crooked Cock]

I have to be honest with self. I've never enjoyed a blowjob. It does not matter who the woman is or what technique she uses. I usually get semi hard and lose my erection. To me the whole act just feels awkward to me. I don't mind going down on a woman. I would be perfectly fine with handjob. I'm just wondering if there are any other guys who feel the same as I do.

Crooked Cock

 

[Triasco]

Well, I certainly don't mind giving oral if I'm attracted to the person in question, but I will agree that receiving oral does nothing for me, and it becomes an effort to keep my erection.

 

[74758]

I have to be honest with self. I've never enjoyed a blowjob. It does not matter who the woman is or what technique she uses. I usually get semi hard and lose my erection. To me the whole act just feels awkward to me. I don't mind going down on a woman. I would be perfectly fine with handjob. I'm just wondering if there are any other guys who feel the same as I do.

Crooked Cock

I'm shocked & amazed-hard for me to fathom NOT loving getting your cock sucked! You're honest-not everybody gets turned on by the same things-we couldn't be more opposite...do what you enjoy!

 

[ncnicem]

I've found it's the rare woman who can handle girth well. When you find her, it can be great. Unfortunately, I've only found a few in my life and the alternative can often end up being the woman feeling a bit frustrated or inadequate if she can't really pleasure you that way and that's not a recipe for great sex.

 

[uncut7in]

It really depends on the technique of the partner doing the sucking (in my case guys rather than girls). Suckers who are rough and don't keep their teeth out of the way are a big turn off, whereas a gentle and sensual touch really turns me on.

 

[Sassenack]

I've not come from a blowjob yet.. Time will tell.

 

[concupisys]

i've heard that this is actually a lot more common than most people think.... it could be that whoever has been blowing you up to this point are either not that good at it, or that there's something about getting blown in combination with the sucking that will finally get your sap rising.... what you may want to try doing is watching some clips of BJ's online and seeing the different techniques people use and what really turns you on to look at..... if something really 'gets your attention', then try it out with a willing participant.... otherwize, i'm really not so sure....

 

[spunksalot]

Nah I'm with you on this Crooked Cock - always a bit of a let-down imo. :frown1:

 

[martin60018]

you are blessed with a thick cock, that is why.
you just need to find a talented cock sucker.
teeth need to be out of the way and the jaws opened more when it gets to the thick part
then the mouth needs to be closed at the cockhead.
and you have a special curve that needs to be taken into consideration.
you might never get a good blowjob unless it is a gay guy doing the work.
or take your time and teach your girl how to do it.
give feed back and her her what feels good or bad

 

[SyddyKitty]

I'm with you. I simply do not enjoy being blown. I also HATE lubricated wanking. I probably won't like being a penetrative top either. It's just never been a comfortable or rewarding sensation... and the orgasm ALWAYS sucks compared to frot or dry jerking.

 

[BoxersguyNJ]

I love it !!! you need to find the right person who takes their time & doing it right
there are some people who suck and don't know what the hell their doing ,especially the ones that start sucking like they have to go catch a plane !! and it is a turn off --BUT !! if the person sucking does it with passion you'll love getting fellatio.

 

[deleted136887]

If you don't like it don't do it.

 

[houtx48]

you have probably not met the right man yet. Stick around here and I'm sure you will.

 

[SilverTrain]

Vive la difference!

I couldn't love anything more than a sensuous wet mouth on my hard cock.

 

[MrHangman]

I've never came from a blow job either. :'(

 

[zundervall]

I love a good blowjob. But like anything else it requires some enthusiasm on everyone's part; it isn't it's own magic. Intercourse IS it's own magic even if you weren't planning on it. So it comes down to, the bj is only for the playful.

 

[IntentsOfCare]

I'm actually glad you created this thread because I honestly thought I was the only one. It's not at all my cup of tea, I think it's the most unattractive thing. If it rocks your boat then it rocks your boat but it leaves me sitting dead in the damn water. There is nothing about fellatio that I like. I don't care for the suck face that is made, the slurping vacuum noises, the gagging and choking noised from those with a natural gag reflex in deep throat situations. Doesn't matter who has done it to me in the past I remain unimpressed and unturned on.

 

[LaFemme]

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing. Make sure your partner knows this ahead of time though. They are going to want to try (I know I'd want to), but it really has to be only at your request and if you really feel like you want to try it again.

Speaking as a woman who loves to give head, if I was with a man who didn't like it, I think that's how I'd prefer it be handled. Somehow I'd think, I could make him like it - even if I couldn't. So if there were ever times that he thought, yeah now I'd like to try it - that would be the time I'd be on him. I wouldn't want him to let me do it, just to make me feel better - that's just a recipe for sexual resentment.

 

[Mr_Ri0t]

I'm with you. I simply do not enjoy being blown. I also HATE lubricated wanking. I probably won't like being a penetrative top either. It's just never been a comfortable or rewarding sensation... and the orgasm ALWAYS sucks compared to frot or dry jerking.

:O You have no idea how bad I've REALLY wanted to suck you off. Lol, damn...

 

[SilverTrain]

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing. Make sure your partner knows this ahead of time though. They are going to want to try (I know I'd want to), but it really has to be only at your request and if you really feel like you want to try it again.

Speaking as a woman who loves to give head, if I was with a man who didn't like it, I think that's how I'd prefer it be handled. Somehow I'd think, I could make him like it - even if I couldn't. So if there were ever times that he thought, yeah now I'd like to try it - that would be the time I'd be on him. I wouldn't want him to let me do it, just to make me feel better - that's just a recipe for sexual resentment.

If you ever need to a wang to work out on.......

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