Ok some background about myself. I am 25 and lost my virginity around 16 and have been with my fair share of girls. My problem is I have NEVER that's right NEVER had an orgasm while having sex. I can rub one out after, so I would usually remove the condom and ejaculate on there back, stomach, etc. I can stay erect for as long as I want which is great, so I never really worried about not getting off, I'm happy as long as the girl gets her's. I find my penis is just not that sensitive which isn't a big deal for me because I know what I need to do to get myself off and can get it done quickly. So when I pull out it only takes a few seconds to cum and the girls never notice. So that's the main problem, the next problem is what really prompted me to stop in here and see what others think. The girl I'm currently dating, who is everything I'm looking for, wont do/allow me to do certain things ex. take the condom off and ejaculate on her. So what I have been doing the past month or so that we have been physical is just straight up fake orgasms. Yea I know it's crazy I put on an act, noises, body movements etc. Then quickly dispose of the condom before she can notice its empty. I'm really started to get frustrated. I have tried all different positions, no masturbating for two weeks(we had sex several times during those two weeks). I feel like I have let this charade go on to long and I can't tell her about it now. I'm thinking my only option is to break up with her and find a girl willing to be a little less proper in the bedroom. I really like this girl and would hate to have it end like this but it has come to the point where I have know idea what else to do. Would love to her some opinons from guys who may have this problem and girls how I should approach this situation of possible talking to my girl about it.